posted September 30, 2012 10:33 AM            

I would like to go with the Gemini Moon, Cancer would be too clingy and neither would want that. While deep emotional sharing is nice, dependency is not. Besides, I placed it in the 4th. And I love the Grand Trine Moon makes with Neptune, Mercury and Saturn, and the conjunction to Jupiter in the 4th! Looks comfy and intellectually stimulating, empathetic but also sobering.
I wanted fixed angles for Asc/DC so this could have some chance to last, but could not escape Uranus in the 1st (it is going to be Uranian anyway) and the Sun-Uranus opposition. I like that the DC ruler is in the 7th, in Libra, pointing to balanced relating which I like, though suspect this is going to be anything BUT balanced - Sun is in fall and badly aspected.. Venus also in her fall.. Well, can't have a perfect chart and this one seemed the best from the available ones.
I also dislike Saturn in the 8th.. Though I like the thought that intimacy would be taken seriously, I fear it would put a wet blanket on it. Though Venus squares Mars and trines Pluto.. and Lust is on DC. Hopefully some attraction present, and mutual!!

I added a few 'steroids in the mix. I sure like Valentine on Asc and Neptune. And Karma conj Venus.

So, anyone willing to give opinions/suggestions about this? Some fingers crossed would help too as I'm pretty anxious about this. I haven't been on a date in almost a year - though this is NOT dating per se (no idea what the hell it will develop into but willing to go with the flow)

posted October 01, 2012 06:32 AM            

"would like to go with the Gemini Moon, Cancer would be too clingy and neither would want that."
Yes, I get that. Also Moon in Cancer would be in domicile and probably dominate the ensuing connection, which might get more emotional and almost maternal/ mothering than either of you would like.

however I would have liked the day before, when Moon would have been in applying trine to Sun. It is still a waning trine, which apparently is not as good as a waxing as I read (no experiences with that one), but I always find a trine or sextile between luminaries in first contact charts preferable.
Here in this case in Air signs would seem just perfect!

It ls also nice that Sun is applying to a trine to Jupiter, gives a joyful, lighthearded feeling to it.

I donīt like Saturn conjunct Mercury in terms of communication, but it is already separating, so maybe it is manageable.

Venus is in fall, there are probably better Venus-positions, but hey you canīt ahve everything. The trine to Pluto looks lovely intense, though the opposition to Chiron - OUCH.
However, maybe a goood thing for accelerated healing.

Venus conjunct Karma definitely gives a karmic feel here. With quinkunx to Amor, the way to love may be plastered with misunderstandings.

Sun conjunct Psyche on the other hand gives a good intuitive understanding.

Eros applying sextile Psyche makes me think of soulmates, but in a rather easy way.

"And I love the Grand Trine Moon makes with Neptune, Mercury and Saturn, and the conjunction to Jupiter in the 4th!"
Well, well, areNīt we generous with orbs again! LOL
GT is a nice thing though it might be a bit diluted due to being out of sign.

"t could not escape Uranus in the 1st (it is going to be Uranian anyway) and the Sun-Uranus opposition."
Well you KNOW that this is probably the hand of fate.
however the opposition is already separating.

"Though I like the thought that intimacy would be taken seriously, I fear it would put a wet blanket on it. "
Yes, it is a possibility I fear. Though maybe this would have to do with some difficulties in communicating?

"Though Venus squares Mars and trines Pluto.. and Lust is on DC. Hopefully some attraction present, and mutual!!"
have you made a composite with the natals?

posted October 01, 2012 07:15 AM            

Thank you!!! Actually your suggestion to move the meeting on Friday is very good! The Sun-Moon trine would be exact and the conjunction to Jupiter much closer (yeah, you know I am generous with orbs). What made me decide to try to move it on Friday is that numerologically, Friday is an 11, like me. Saturday would be a 3, which is also very positive. But I think an 11 (or 2) is much more fitting, given that I am an 11 and he's an 8. So a 11/2 would fit better. However, I don't know if the hour would agree with him, it's a bit early for a week day and I don't want to lose the house positions.. Anyways, I guess I'll see. This was just a draft anyways.
I haven't made the composites to natals, what a wonderful idea! I still don't know his full chart, he promised to show it to me after we meet. He wanted to meet yesterday but I freaked out, so now he is withholding his chart That's what I get for meeting someone who knows astrology

posted October 01, 2012 07:59 PM            

Opinions anyone? Damn, this chart makes so many connections to my chart it's freaky! Venus on Vertex, Asc on DC, Moon on Mars, Saturn on Pluto gahhhhhhh! I very much dislike the Moon-Saturn opposition Among everything, this is what I hate the most.

posted October 01, 2012 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Well, it happened! It was unplanned, spontaneous and very lovely. I am on call at the hospital and he came by. He brought cookies

Opinions anyone? Damn, this chart makes so many connections to my chart it's freaky! Venus on Vertex, Asc on DC, Moon on Mars, Saturn on Pluto gahhhhhhh! I very much dislike the Moon-Saturn opposition Among everything, this is what I hate the most.

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Haha, you can`t plan fate!

posted October 02, 2012 01:31 AM            

Somehow I had the feeling Uranus would be angular.