posted October 04, 2012 12:52 PM            

So yes, I know it's a stupid, selfish and lame question. I know that patience is a virtue and that all good things (supposedly) come in due time, but I would still like to know if there is something in my chart that points to someone being unnoticeable, uninteresting, unlikable etc.. to others ?

(and yes, peer pressure did play a huge role in me actually caring about this. Most of my friends are in stable committed relationships but even when they were single, they actually had some opportunities which isn't my case at all)

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posted October 04, 2012 01:52 PM            

If one looks for answers in the 5th, which is in Scorpio and contains both rulers (Mars and Pluto), I would say your seduction style might be a scoprio one (dark intense sensuality). The same also goes for the visual manifestation of your sexuality, but all of this might be inhibited by your Capricorn moon.

It is as if it won't let you express yourself the way you might be organically inclined.

I also noticed that your Juno is also in Scorpio, indicating your ideal partner's image is in sync w your Mars and Pluto's inclinations.

Perhaps you might benefit from letting work stay at work (Moon) and just becoming whatever you feel like being after hours.

posted October 05, 2012 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusRising:
I have read that having the ruler of the 7th in the 6th is not that great for relationships. I have it as well and find that to be true for me. But also that placement has better luck, or works best, for finding people in your work environment. So if your job is in a small office maybe find groups with people that do the same kind of work. I almost always ended up with someone I worked with or worked in the same field, but now that I am self employed I am having a rough go at it...Just an Idea, other than that, I am not nearly as good at pointing things out in a chart like some of the other people on here.

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posted October 05, 2012 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Well, Venus Rx people DO HAVE problems acknowledging their good looks and attractiveness.

If one looks for answers in the 5th, which is in Scorpio and contains both rulers (Mars and Pluto), I would say your seduction style might be a scorpio one (dark intense sensuality). The same also goes for the visual manifestation of your sexuality, but all of this might be inhibited by your Capricorn moon.

It is as if it won't let you express yourself the way you might be organically inclined.

I also noticed that your Juno is also in Scorpio, indicating your ideal partner's image is in sync w your Mars and Pluto's inclinations.

Perhaps you might benefit from letting work stay at work (Moon) and just becoming whatever you feel like being after hours.

Not professing to have any expertise, just what stands out to me, personally, and I could be wrong

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Yes, most of it is right actually. I am a very serious individual and I tend to be rather introverted. Wherever I go, I am indeed all work and business. Even if I go talk to someone it will be because I have some specific information to ask them. I don't befriend people easily but have no issue when they come to me, but they rarely do. I also am not very fond of big social events, or parties. I'm more comfortable talking one on one than being part of a group, and prefer small committee over plenty of people.
I know I sound really contradictory because, I am doing nothing to approach people yet I complain about people not approaching me. But I noticed this rather recently and I am still rather clueless as to what to do, yet I know I don't want to turn into someone I am not only to get some attention.

posted October 06, 2012 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
Yes, most of it is right actually. I am a very serious individual and I tend to be rather introverted. Wherever I go, I am indeed all work and business. Even if I go talk to someone it will be because I have some specific information to ask them. I don't befriend people easily but have no issue when they come to me, but they rarely do. I also am not very fond of big social events, or parties. I'm more comfortable talking one on one than being part of a group, and prefer small committee over plenty of people.
I know I sound really contradictory because, I am doing nothing to approach people yet I complain about people not approaching me. But I noticed this rather recently and I am still rather clueless as to what to do, yet I know I don't want to turn into someone I am not only to get some attention.

And about venus Rx and good looks, well ,the odd thing is I don't feel especially self conscious. I was at some point very conscious of my weight (I had put on a lot of weight and one male relative had the wonderful idea to point it out to me and I really took it the wrong way) but it happened once and that was all. I am not really eager to fit into any beauty stereotype women get fed with (the sort of "if you want to attract you have to be pretty like this, and put on make up like this ,and dress like this, and wear shoes like those .. "). Yet even if I feel rather comfortable in my own skin, there is an inner growing sense of inadequacy somehow when it comes to love matters. It feels a bit like standing on the side and watching all those people dance and it comes really naturally to them but somehow you can't join them, and they don't want you to join in because you sense that you lack the natural skill. So I just see all of those people, going in and out of relationships, flirting, crushing and all, and I am just clueless as to how all of this happens.

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