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Topic: Help! marriage about to fall apart ....
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vickymadness
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posted October 05, 2012 11:06 AM
  
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Dreaming111
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posted October 05, 2012 05:12 PM
The composite has Mars sqquare saturn..
That denotes violence in the relationship. I think harsh aspects to mars in a composite are not favorable. Also their sun semisquaring each others' sun leads to the argumentative nature. If she isn't safe, she needs to move out for a while. Even if they attempt to work on it and stay. For now she should move out to a safer place. When a man hits a woman, it's a stron power play. He thinks of her as an inferior in some manner. He looks down upon her. Because imagine if he respected her or thought she was far superior to him? He would be scare to touch her for fear she would leave him. He's grown complacent. If your sister tries to hold on more in his eyes, she'll be viewed on as weak....very weak. He won't value her as an equal. This is the business minded/ political power play that goes on in most relationships. Every woman needs to have a few cards in her hand. IF she hands them all over, she'll also get run over. Keep your sister out of harms way. Don't tell her that her husband might beat her up etc etc. Generally people don't like hearing that their love life is a mess, even if they recognize the same. Just tell her that *you* need someone to stay over to keep you company. Or have someone else close to her make that excuse. Keep her safe. Give her time to reflect and gain new perspective.
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Dreaming111
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posted October 05, 2012 05:12 PM
Can you put up their individual natal charts?IP: Logged |
Lily
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posted October 06, 2012 03:28 AM
Was the reason sex or money?
It looks like she may be telling the truth. Not everyone marries for love.
They have a few aspects in Synastry that can be violent, mars Pluto, mars Uranus. Saturn is going to go over their stellium in composite and Pluto is right on their mars, so I can see the potential for violence and fights. Neptunes on the Ic which can show disillusionment with living together and a dissolving of the relationship. The age difference between is large at 17-20 yrs. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted October 06, 2012 06:29 AM
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vickymadness
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posted October 06, 2012 06:32 AM
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vickymadness
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posted October 06, 2012 06:35 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
When a man hits a woman, it's a stron power play. He thinks of her as an inferior in some manner. He looks down upon her. Because imagine if he respected her or thought she was far superior to him? He would be scare to touch her for fear she would leave him.
Actually she started the fight , she was annoyed frustrated , but she wouldn't tell me the reason. Anyway ... he never actually hit her, the physical bruises are because he tried to pin her down and calm her ... she's very aggressive ... him too , but he wasn't the initiator.
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vickymadness
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posted October 06, 2012 06:36 AM
Is there any hope for this relationship ??IP: Logged |
Lily
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posted October 06, 2012 06:19 PM
I see a lot of signs it may end, but it's up to them. It will be difficult for awhile awhile. I don't think she's lying, not from the charts, jmo. IP: Logged |
Lily
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posted October 06, 2012 06:20 PM
I see a lot of signs it may end, but it's up to them. It will be difficult for awhile awhile. I don't think she's lying, not from the charts, jmo. IP: Logged |
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