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Topic: What aspects would indicate having no trust in other people?
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Bearee
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Registered: May 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 06:13 AM
  
This person told me he has issues trusting other people. He sees himself being alone for the rest of his life (it's his own choice)
He doesn't want to get married nor have any 'normal' romantic relationship with a female. He is in his mid twenties and haven't had any relationship either.
He also said this problem of his would suffocate any girl so he doesn't even bother trying.So i'm looking at his chart and i'm wondering which astrological aspects would indicate this "problem".  Is it the venus semisquare saturn?
I also noticed that transiting saturn is squaring his venus..could this also be the cause? IP: Logged |
pussycat
Knowflake Posts: 38
From: greece
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 07:35 AM
Hi Bearee!  It seems my ex boyfriend was born a couple of days later than this guy! He is EXACTLY like that too.(and i was his first girlfriend) They both have lots of aspects in common but the houses are different.
This is his chart if you wanna take a look
 I think sun square moon and sun square saturn
might be the reason. Very low self-esteem, no trust in himself thus no trust in others and difficulty in romantic relationships. IP: Logged |
Bearee
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posted October 09, 2012 08:05 AM
Oh wow, what a coincidence! You say he's the same?
But the difference here is that he did have a relationship with you, so I guess there was SOME trust.. at least in the beginning, right?Yeah there are a lot of same aspects =o
I see your ex had moon opposite uranus.. he must've been someone who had a sudden need of freedom at times, am I right? Like one moment he's affectionate and the other time really stand offish? I'm not sure though lol.. i'm just a beginner at interpreting charts. IP: Logged |
pussycat
Knowflake Posts: 38
From: greece
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 08:28 AM
I'm a beginner too:PYes!you are right about the moon opposite uranus!But i could understand that,it didn't bother me at all (i have moon square uranus in my natal chart:P) About trust...well we knew each other for 8 years before starting dating (i was his sister's best friend and the only girl he had contact with for so long) so there was trust between us. But i know him very well and i know i was the exception..:/ IP: Logged |
pussycat
Knowflake Posts: 38
From: greece
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 08:39 AM
I think your guy just haven't met the "right" girl for him yet!
He maybe needs a girl just like him to feel secure and trust her!I noticed they both have moon conjunct chiron..i wonder what does this mean
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pussycat
Knowflake Posts: 38
From: greece
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 08:49 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/208665.html
This explains a lot! 
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Bearee
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posted October 09, 2012 08:55 AM
Wow you've known him for a really long time!I know this guy since april. So almost 6 months. I like him actually and I'm trying to understand why he thinks like that and I'm trying to unravel him. But I must say that's pretty hard, him being kinda emotionally closed (not just with me but also his friends by the way)
He did say stuff to me that he hasn't told even his best friend. That felt good =) because I know there is at least some level of trust, but yeah.. I'm hoping in time he'll let loose. About the Moon-Chiron aspect. I've never looked at that, but this is what I found (also on this forum): Chiron conjunct the Moon is a difficult position because the natives have such intense emotions that it is difficult for them to understand the effect they have on others. They are extremely sensitive, they are very mystical about emotional bonding, and the day-to-day levels of relationships are almost impossible to bear. The ideal for this native is to master Saturn and to form a solid bond with a mate, because then the power of Uranian transformation can enter his or her life through the relationship. This native will be almost terrified of restrictions because of the Uranian desire for freedom. But if he or she can find the right partner who will help work with Saturn without undue restrictions, then the possibility of kundalini energy will manifest in sexual sharing. This native may be too involved with his or her mother, which can block the opportunity for a relationship. Also, this native will tend to attract intense and transformative partners. The key to actualizing the spiritual beauty of Chiron conjunct the Moon is Saturn grounding and balance, with room for Uranian transformation. Wow it's very true about the person being sensitive and being terrified of restrictions IP: Logged |
Bearee
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posted October 10, 2012 01:50 PM
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