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Wild Places
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posted October 12, 2012 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooh la la...I said it back in June/July - I'd meet someone special August/September. Either I've got amazing manifestation abilities or powers of self-deception - haha

Anyhoo...if any of you who are either learning synastry/composite charts or are expert - I'd love your input!

Many thanks!
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posted October 12, 2012 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not a fan of Saturn and Pluto in the 5th (composite) but they're nicely aspected which is good. Mars conjunct uranus also not a fan, but just make sure you give each other room. Uncinventiality and all

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Wild Places
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posted October 13, 2012 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Littlecloud! Can you tell me about Pluto/Saturn conjunct in the 5th that you're not digging? Mars conjunct Uranus - definitely unconventional - it's in the 6th house though which given the circumstances and who we both are make perfect sense.

Thanks so much for your time and thoughts! I'd welcome input from anyone else as well

Gratefully,
WP

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posted October 13, 2012 05:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
love stellium with venus conjunct pluto, moon sextile pluto, sun conjunct neptune. NO AFFLICTIONS

woowww! amazing chart. it is soo very great.

sun conj neptune means u feel like soulmates, but with the love stellium there and moon and venus aspecting pluto it is very much true!

moon sextile pluto means u cannot help but getting to know each other deeply. u will be very very close with this aspect.

venus conjunct pluto means you have a strong effect on each other. sexual attraction and feelings are strong

the best thing is that there are no afflictions in composite.

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Wild Places
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posted October 13, 2012 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi RunAroundScreaming:

Wow you just nailed the feeling! It's amazing how you can see that! What is the love stellium? You do reports don't you? Do you have a web site? I'd gladly check it out and seriously consider a report.

Thanks so much!
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posted October 13, 2012 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sure
not sure why it didn't post my signature before
there you go

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posted October 13, 2012 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks RunAroundScreaming I will try to order one in the next couple of weeks. Great articles.

Anyone else have any thoughts?

I love this community.
Warmly,
WP

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posted October 14, 2012 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The not having hard aspects in the composite is not always preferable...at least not to me. I think it's been mentioned on this site as well, that the natal placement of Mars and Venus play a role in the kind of relationship you want/like.

For someone with a venus/mars square they want the passion, the arguments and craziness that comes with it. Someone with a trine or sextile prefers something more easy going. That kind of intensity is too much. What the venus/mars square would view as light banter the trine/sextile would view as an argument and would likely be turned off.

You wildplaces seem to have the sextile by sign at least, or it may be unaspected. He has the conjunction which I believe likes the passion that the square aspect craves. But perhaps with a little more sugar.

Saturn and Pluto make in the 5th make it intense very fast. So depending on the natals and the synastry this could be a good thing or bad thing. Saturn I have found can make things feel like an obligation, but it's nicely aspected which is a good thing. The obligation/responsibility would be a something you both won't mind carrying. Pluto in the 5th may be too intense at times. But again nicely aspected so it shouldn't be too much of a problem. Both Saturn and Pluto are lesson teachers. It's what we watch out for in transits and SRs to see where we will have the most difficulty. The 5th house is light-hearted and joyful and Saturn isn't, neither is Pluto. One is serious the other intense. So this placement is a heavy one. With Pluto it's about the sexual connection, if that isn't going well the relationship will suffer.


Overall there's a nice balance of afflictions and beneficiaries (for lack of a better word) in the synastry and composite for stimulation without wreaking too much havoc.

I know that many people say that composite trumps the synastry in relationships. Good composite=staying together. Looking at my syanstrys and composites with friends I've noticed that I have some of the worst synastrys with them, but great composites. These are my long time friends (10+) years and they are people I love and care for deeply but if I had to spend everyday with them I'd kill them.

There's more on the house placements I could say if you like.

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posted October 15, 2012 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Littlecloud -

I would LOVE to hear anything and everything else you have to say about this. I am just absorbing it all right now - lots to chew on.

Thanks so much hon!
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posted October 16, 2012 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
just bumping this up...and, if there's any tarot readers and/or psychics - holla at me.

thanks loves,
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posted October 17, 2012 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry I know it's taken me a bit of time to get back to you. I feel bad sometimes with my tendencies to point out the 'bad' stuff. It partly stems from my need to constantly improve things and also from my own struggles to see things as they are. Huge Neptune influence in my chart and I've had years of disillusionment to deal with which really sucks for hopeless romantic always wanting the happy ending. I hate to admit it, but it's true lol

Anywho, I have a book on the planets in composite and their aspects so something things I'll be quoting from there. One of the first things it says with Saturn is that it may make it difficult to get a relationship or marriage off the ground. But it's conjunct Uranus and nicely aspected so I don't think that's really an issue. I feel there may be more issues when it comes to marriage. For some reason I'm feeling like you guys can end up living together or legally (for legal purposes obviously) getting married minus the huge wedding deal.

It adds severity to the relationship. For me the word solemn seems to fit best. Not sure why, but it does. I already mentioned the obligation and necessity to be together which is a good thing for some. Personally I don't like to feel obligated to be with someone, and having had that experience, well it really wears down your nerves. It's like the happiness is being sucked out of you. The stability and seriousness is nice, but the lack of laughter isn't.

The good thing is that this position will help keep things realistic which is good since Neptune is in the 7th and highly idealistic. It also pushes you to make the best of whatever situation you find yourselves in. In short, you'll fight for the relationship. Other issues may be that you have a hard time being romantic or expressing romantic feelings with each other. Children are also a difficulty. Perhaps a difficulty in conceiving or a delay in having them. I know you already have one kid, which my book says that with this position that two should be the maximum amount of kids to have so that the beneficial side of this position be emphasized. (stability, responsibility, obligation to family)

Pluto is a little less dry just more intense. It has the tendency to make everything this deep emotional thing that you can't quite put your finger on. You both need to express yourselves and stifling self-expression would not be a good thing especially with Pluto because when things are bad, they will be BAD and when they are good they'll be heavenly. Now the great thing is that it's nicely aspected which makes me think that it will accentuate the good, but then going back to Saturn being the party-pooper that he is, expression may be difficult. Sex life is very important here. You two cannot be 'just friends' which also puts a heavy burden on the relationship itself. Sex will be intense, emotional, transforming, and if the two of you cannot communicate well sexually it can really harm the relationship. So don't hold out!!! The reason why this can be a bad thing, is that it places a huge burden on your sex life so that you may end up arguing about your sex life which tends to bring up nasties. I'll double check if I had this position with an ex, but it makes me think of this position, and there were nasties brought up, not pretty.

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posted October 18, 2012 03:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Littlecloud!

Thank you again for taking the time to give such thorough feedback. Ironically, it feels its all 'on hold' - which of course is why I'm asking. But the info you gave about Saturn seems to speak to that.

Don't feel bad about time it takes - life is so busy for us all and what time and energy we can share with eachother is a gift worth waiting for!

Warmly,
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posted October 18, 2012 03:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wish you the best and hope this is a minor setback between the two of you. I felt so much enthusiasm from your post about this guy/relationship that it made me smile. In general the charts look great and those house positions aren't fatal just 'use caution' signs. You yourself seem to be in the right place in your life for something like this to blossom, I get this overall "rightness" feeling. A bit strange I guess...

If you have a sec I'd appreciate your advice on some cards I pulled, in a thread I posted. I like your insights.

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posted October 18, 2012 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Littlecloud -

The setback is temporary - I sense that too. Everything here still feels so much like its the right relationship I've been waiting for. Still, I know that we have our own self work to do that will keep us apart for a while. It's best this way and yet can be hard to keep the faith in the feeling.

What's the thread you posted? I'm more than happy to lend some insights - and appreciate you asking. Can you put the link here?

Merci. I'll access tonight or tomorrow

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posted October 18, 2012 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 26, 2012 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Rosalind - If you see this - I know you're great at these charts...you had done a synastry chart for me that was dead-on in April. I'd love to know if what was in the cards is also in the stars?


Thanks!
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posted October 27, 2012 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Wild Places:
Hey Rosalind - If you see this - I know you're great at these charts...you had done a synastry chart for me that was dead-on in April. I'd love to know if what was in the cards is also in the stars?


Thanks!
WP


No need for my intervention. The lovely RAS told you everything you need to know. She is awesome and super accurate.

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posted October 27, 2012 03:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you very much Rosalind.

I hope by asking for input I don't infer that I doubt anyone's input whatsoever - you all have such amazing insight and niches - I value and appreciate everyone's input and thoughts.

Many thanks,
WP

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