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Topic: Aries & Cancer with a 13 year age difference.
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moonram
Knowflake Posts: 115
From: Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 16, 2012 12:12 PM
  
I would be appreciative to anyone who wishes to comment on our synastry & composite charts. I will respond & engage in dialogue with you. I would love if you could find things in our charts that perhaps you can personally relate to in your own relationships.   IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 872
From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 16, 2012 12:40 PM
Does this relationship feel on and off? Hot and cold? Like not just emotionally, but the actual state of the relationship? Like he might call it quits or you might feel like doing so as well but in spite of this you always come back together? Does it feel like you are not sure what is going on at times?If these are too personal you may decline to answer. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 373
From: NYC
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 16, 2012 12:41 PM
As far as the synastry chart goes, I really like the look of the DC exchange you two have going on. Your Venus and Moon in his 7th, his Moon in your 7th. There is a mutual energy of belonging together, very comfortable being with one another. You probably see him as the ideal partner...just what I observe in the chart  In the composite, I don't like the look of that Saturn in 3rd, indicates a difficult time communicating with each other. There might be a tendency to misconstrue what is really being said. Need alot of clarity when discussing issues. IP: Logged |
moonram
Knowflake Posts: 115
From: Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 24, 2012 02:49 AM
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Does this relationship feel on and off? Hot and cold? Like not just emotionally, but the actual state of the relationship? Like he might call it quits or you might feel like doing so as well but in spite of this you always come back together? Does it feel like you are not sure what is going on at times?If these are too personal you may decline to answer.
Thank you for responding. Ask me anything; I'm not bashful. No, I wouldn't say our relationship is hot/cold nor on/off. He and I are very different people, so we've had struggles adjusting, but neither of us has ever suggested walking away or taking a break or calling it quits. I feel secure in our partnership so I would say no, I don't feel unsure of what's going on in our relationship. What led you to ask those questions? Certain aspects or placements? IP: Logged |
moonram
Knowflake Posts: 115
From: Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 24, 2012 02:54 AM
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
As far as the synastry chart goes, I really like the look of the DC exchange you two have going on. Your Venus and Moon in his 7th, his Moon in your 7th. There is a mutual energy of belonging together, very comfortable being with one another. You probably see him as the ideal partner...just what I observe in the chart In the composite, I don't like the look of that Saturn in 3rd, indicates a difficult time communicating with each other. There might be a tendency to misconstrue what is really being said. Need alot of clarity when discussing issues.
Hello there, thank you for your response. I would agree with the mutual energy of belonging together. And I do see him as the ideal partner. You're correct about the misconstrued words. I strive for clarity when we communicate, but of course...that's not always the case. Saturn in the Third, eh. IP: Logged |
moonram
Knowflake Posts: 115
From: Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 24, 2012 03:07 AM
What do you make of Venus conjunct MC and Pluto conjunct IC in our composite chart?Before I even knew him (we crossed paths in a treatment center), I suggested he apply at the same place I work, after I overheard him sharing his work history with someone. I've never done this before; I'm not the friendliest lady and I don't normally strike up conversation with strangers - especially to suggest they apply at my workplace. Well, he got the job and we still work together. Getting him the job allowed us to very cautiously feel each other out; if he didn't start working where I work, we never would have went on a date. (He's a Cancer & I have a Cancer AC.) Venus conjunct MC? Shortly after we began dating, we moved in together. I've never had a serious boyfriend before him and I have definitely never lived with the people I dated. I don't even live with friends! I have only lived with my parents and siblings. It has been very transformative for me to learn how to live with someone else. I'm an Aries with no natal planets in Libra and no natal planets in Libra's house. Pluto conjunct IC? On top of this, composite Venus is opposite composite Pluto. I'm curious if that makes the two aspects work together? IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 872
From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 24, 2012 03:19 AM
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Originally posted by moonram:
Thank you for responding. Ask me anything; I'm not bashful.No, I wouldn't say our relationship is hot/cold nor on/off. He and I are very different people, so we've had struggles adjusting, but neither of us has ever suggested walking away or taking a break or calling it quits. I feel secure in our partnership so I would say no, I don't feel unsure of what's going on in our relationship. What led you to ask those questions? Certain aspects or placements?
I see. I hope I didn't offend you, I just saw Sun opposite Uranus and that was why I asked, but that seems to manifest in the age difference rather than the state of the relationship. I will come back a little later to look at the chart some more, You do have some comfortable Venus aspects that are very supportive, now that I look again. IP: Logged |
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