posted October 17, 2012 04:26 PM
Grupo reports for RAS
SYNASTRY
XX is me
(i put his birthtime in at not known) Mmm's Sun in Cancer and Xx's Sun in Leo
Both of you take life very personally, probably more personally than you realize. Your feelings and your pride are easily wounded by criticism or lack of appreciation from the people you care about. There can be an unusually warm loving bond between you, though your temperaments are quite different. Xx is very proud and wants recognition, appreciation, respect, and love from a partner. Mmm wants to be needed and desires sympathy, tenderness, and emotional support from a partner. Xx has difficulty accepting and expressing needs, sadness, or weakness, and is uncomfortable when Mmm expresses doubts, insecurities, weaknesses, or moodiness.
Xx is the more dominant of the two of you and is likely to take the lead in your relationship - which is fine with Mmm, who has no need to be on top.
Mmm's Moon in Taurus and Xx's Moon in Taurus
You two have very similar emotional needs and instinctive responses to situations, and are likely to be quite content together. The one problem you may have is that you are both so stubborn that when you lock horns, neither of you is willing budge.
Both of you have a strong urge for material comfort and security, domestic stability, peace, and serenity. Neither of you enjoys or readily embraces changes in your home life or in important relationships. In fact, you are very obstinate and inflexible when it comes to changing your routine or making an adjustment in your personal life. You need a slow pace, time to chew over feelings and digest experiences before taking any action. You share a great love and enjoyment of nature, gardening, food, and other simple pleasures. You also need a lot of physical affection and touching to be happy.
Sun Mutually Aspects Pluto
This is a very intense and complex relationship! You may feel both deeply attracted and repelled by one another, and somehow unable to avoid one another. You draw out the inner, hidden side of each other and your interactions are invariably intense, direct, and never superficial. Powerful passions, ego drives, and the hidden darker side of your personalities are revealed through your interaction. If either, or both, of you cannot handle feeling so 'exposed', then the relationship will become very tense as you try to resist the intensity of this relationship. You spur and challenge each other to excel and you may become an unbeatable team, working for a lofty goal or very deep, personal, creative expression. Be wary of a tendency to be competitive or jealous of each other, for the fascination that you have for each other quickly turns to envy if you ever feel like you are competing rather than cooperating with each other.
Mmm's Sun opposition Xx's Neptune orb 0° 3'
You see each other in idealized or romanticized terms and often fail to see each other realistically. You also evoke sympathy, self-sacrifice, and higher ideals from each other, but again there is a strong tendency to be unrealistic in your perceptions and expectations of each other. Bitter disappointments and a loss of trust and confidence in one another can arise. To prevent this from happening, you both must strive be scrupulously honest with each other, and refrain from 'playing games', exaggerating or hiding things from one another. If handled positively, this astrological influence can inspire higher ideals and altruism in both of you.
Mmm's Pluto opposition Xx's Moon orb 0° 19'
There is an obsessive quality to the desire you feel for one another and the emotional intensity of this relationship may be more than either of you wants to handle. You are deeply attracted to each other, drawn to each other like magnets, and you 'get under each other's skin'. You find yourselves pouring out your deepest feelings to each other. Or you may struggle to hide your true feelings from each other, and consequently become enmeshed in a very complex emotional tangle. You may feel simultaneously intensely attracted and repulsed by each other. Bonding is intense, though, and you may evoke feelings of jealousy and possessiveness in each other as well. If either of you is unwilling to have your deepest feelings exposed and your ingrained habits challenged, you will find this relationship too stressful.
You are reliable, responsible and conscientious in your relationship with one another and are likely to make a serious commitment to each other and to your partnership. You are willing to work at making your relationship satisfying. However, you also restrict and limit one another, especially in social situations. You may be self-conscious with one another, and feelings of inadequacy and insecurity about the way you look or behave arise in both of you. You cramp one another's style. Your relationship feels secure and safe, but very contained. Sometimes this feels comforting, sometimes stifling.
Mmm's Sun square Xx's Mars orb 0° 24'
This is a passionate relationship, but also a rather aggressive and combative one at times. Sex may be a bit rough, crude, or insensitive as well. You stimulate each other both in sexual and non-sexual ways, but you are also inclined to irritate each other. As long as you don't end up fighting and competing with each other, you can accomplish a great deal together. However, the aggressiveness of this relationship is prone to foster anger and hurt feelings - so be careful not to incite hostility in each other.
Mmm's Sun trine Xx's Pluto orb 1° 57'
Xx helps Mmm achieve personal goals, activate Mmm's latent talents and strengths, and encourages and promotes Mmm's creative work and endeavors. You can be a very successful duo. However, Xx can be more driving and ambitious for Mmm than Mmm is, like the 'stage mother' who pushes her child to shine and to excel even when it is not the child's own aspiration. Xx can have a profound influence on Mmm, most likely for the good, but possibly not. Subtle manipulation and domination on Xx's part should be avoided.
Mmm's Venus sextile Xx's Jupiter orb 1° 44'
Your relationship enjoys a high level of harmony, good will, and enthusiasm. The two of you invariably have an enjoyable time together, you have many friends, and you enjoy socializing and going out together. Financial and material benefits may also result for you both through this relationship.
Mmm's Mars trine Xx's Mars orb 0° 8'
You are able to coordinate your efforts and work together very well on practical tasks. You make an excellent working team. There is a warm, stimulating, energizing quality between you, and you generate a lot of steam for anything you undertake together. You also discover your physical drives and desires are very much in sync.
Mmm's Mars square Xx's Pluto orb 1° 41'
You inspire, inflame, vitalize, and energize one another and you can accomplish much together, but you can easily become overly zealous, even fanatical, in your pursuits. It is also likely that your objectives will sometimes be different and you will feel at cross-purposes with each other. You often end up in power struggles, being very competitive with each other, and trying to manipulate or dominate one another. Xx, especially, can override or undermine Mmm's efforts.
Sexual attraction is very strong, but as with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving, compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
Mmm's Saturn trine Xx's Moon orb 1° 21'
There is a mature, stable, responsible tone to your relationship that makes you feel secure with each other. There is a great deal of trust and respect for each other. As you spend more time together, you will find that your tastes, priorities, and sense of what is really important in life becomes very compatible. If you marry and have children, you will work together well as parents, especially when difficulties and 'minor crises' arise.
Mmm's Saturn square Xx's Mars orb 2° 33'
In your partnership, Xx is the eager, passionate, active and impulsive one, and Mmm frequently puts on the brakes or tries to control, play down, and restrain Xx's desires and drives. This may be true in your sexual relationship, your approach to achieving goals, or both. Xx is likely to feel very frustrated, angry or discouraged if Mmm expresses disapproval or caution too often, and this can be a source of considerable friction between you. Mmm feels overwhelmed and envious of Xx's intensity and assertiveness, but instead of trying to hold Xx down, Mmm should confront the fears and inhibitions that Xx's directness evokes.
Mmm's Neptune trine Xx's Moon orb 1° 5'
You spark each other's imagination and you enjoy a colorful, sensitive relationship. Sharing of inner experiences, artistic and musical interests is a strong, positive part of your relationship, and you may engage in positive artistic, musical, religious, or altruistic endeavors together.
Mmm's Neptune square Xx's Mars orb 2° 48'
It is very difficult for the two of you to jointly accomplish practical, mundane tasks. You draw out the silly, childish, imaginative side of each other, and you often will simply not be able to clearly focus on practical tasks. If either of you has a drinking, drug, or psychological problem, it is likely that your relationship will highlight this problem; be wary of the tendency of both of you to over-indulge in these kinds of bad habits.
The sexual aspect of your relationship can be very confusing, for there is a very strong element of fantasy or dreaminess in it. Mmm, especially, needs to avoid arousing or leading Xx on, or sending mixed messages.
Mmm's Pluto square Xx's Sun orb 0° 1'
Your relationship is intense, magnetic, and complex. You are fascinated by each other and you engage in deep, intense discussions and encounters that unveil your innermost thoughts, feelings, goals, hopes, fears, and ambitions. This is not a superficial relationship! You are very uninhibited with each other, and you open up to each other more readily than to others. Be wary of power struggles, however, as Mmm, in particular, may be tempted to use the magnetic attractive power over Xx to manipulate and control Xx. Also, either of you may feel threatened, embarrassed, or disempowered by revealing so much of yourself to the other, and consequently feel the need to be secretive and competitive with each other. You have a profound influence upon one another, for good or ill.
Mmm's Pluto square Xx's Mercury orb 1° 46'
Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. There is a strong tendency to attempt to coerce your partner to understand your point of view and agree with you. Mmm may attempt to dominate Xx's thinking, or radically alter Xx's view of things.