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Topic: A wall around his heart
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frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 910
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 22, 2012 05:56 PM
  
The guy that I've been seeing told me that he has "a thick wall" around his heart. Based on his chart, how do you think one would break through that wall? I don't want to play games with him, I'm just very very curious now  I've never been with a man who has a Gemini moon or much Earth and he has both..so..what do you think it takes to cut to the core of this man?  IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 865
From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 22, 2012 07:19 PM
Cancer and Scorpio types are very, very guarded. Their archetype, Crab and Scorpion, have to protect those mushy insides somehow lol. But I figured he was a Cancer. That Moon in Gemini, opposite Sagittarius Saturn fortifies said wall. People with a Moon-Saturn aspect have heavy emotional armor (but they have suffered many disappointments and abandonment that cause this), and Gemini Moon can rationalize themselves out of almost any tricky emotion, or at least make themselves appear like they can. I feel like the key here is to prove yourself as someone who is trustworthy. I feel like someone who is an actual Cancer can dispute this, but every Cancer I have met, they need to size someone up to know if they will be a good friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever but with them being so intuitive they usually know anyway. I think he may always wall off some sides of himself but I think if you appeal to him as someone he can rely on he may soften considerably. And side note, he has a very interesting natal chart! I bet his personality is unique and hard to pin down. I like the yod configurations, especially the one he has with Moon-Neptune-Mercury. I think he does have a sensitive side with these planets in aspect. Also his Sun opposite Neptune. IP: Logged |
JLyn ~
Knowflake Posts: 231
From:
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 22, 2012 07:26 PM
Aww and he's cancer so he's got like a gated stone bobwire fence around his heart : (Usually when a man admits that it means don't except me to fall in love cause my hearts still mending from ex, or he still dreams of her loving him so he keeps it locked from anyone else till he's certain I'll be again. Everything she says up there ^ about the aspects is true so just "don't force" check on him, invite him out for fun. open up to him about personal things about you so he feels more comfortable.. and only time will tell. Goodluck : ) IP: Logged |
frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 910
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted October 22, 2012 08:24 PM
thanx for your input, both of you. anyone else?
lazyscarecrow - yes he does have a very interesting personality. the other night we talked for hours about all sorts of things and he fascinated me so much, he had me hooked.
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