posted October 24, 2012 03:35 AM
quote:
Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
It really does seem like Mr. Leo and I are going to break up in at least the upcoming month... I did a tarot post about this recently and got the Hermit + Tower as an outcome which makes sense. I just need some advice on what to do...A. How to end it, if I even should yet- is there any hope for him to change and see that he's ruining his life by what he's doing?
B. How to seek healing/ recover from it all
C. Where I can next find someone special to me, how to move on if we break up
Thanks for any help. I feel like I'm too sad to help myself right now My heart is very heavy with worry, and I feel like a huge weight is on my shoulders... unexpected but very difficult change is now staring at me in the face... I'm a little afraid and unsure.
A:
9 of Swords- 9 of Cups-5 of Pentacles
You cannot do anything for him. This is a part of a lesson he needs to learn. His current behaviour it will bring suffering and pain for your relationship, unfortunately, but without all these things your partner cannot learn anything and he cannot see what is really important in his life. Aka you.
B:
The Hermit- 2 of Pentacles- The Hanged Man
If you two break up, a period of loneliness where you two can reflect and meditate about the things that happened in your relationship is needed. You two need to find your balance and you need to find your emotional stability somehow. In that time of loneliness and distance you two need to accept the things as they are. You need to accept that there is a problem that must be solved. Give yourself time. Live for a while apart from each other.
C:
The Hanged Man- The High Priestess-The Hierophant
No. If you two break up, you need to remain single for a while. You need a time alone to recover. You will not recover with the help of another man. You will recover with the help of God and yourself. Before entering in a new relationship, you need to find the power and the confidence in yourself that can help you heal your past wounds. Time and patience are needed. Otherwise you will be extremely unhappy and unable to actually move on as you desire.