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Topic: Why is he SOOOOOOO angry?
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asclibrasagsun
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posted November 02, 2012 03:57 PM
  
As I already said before, I got into a fight with someone who was extremely close to me last week. We have not made up as of yet. I can still feel the tension, a LOT of tension, when we are around each other. What I noticed now, is that when I am speaking in public and like any other respectful individual he is supposed to be looking me in the eye, NOT crossing his arms, and paying attention WITHOUT having his back turned towards me....but he does all of those things...it is just SO EXTREMELY RUDE! I am willing to forgive him for the hurt he has caused me, but he just cannot seem to let go of the anger quite yet! HE does not even say hi to me anymore! It is beyond ridiculous. I feel like this person REALLY needs to grow up and act more mature, especially considering the fact that they are so much older than me. I really am trying my best to not be negative and not saying anything about how they are acting. But on the other hand, I do not want to be ignored like this either! Especially when you can see this person literally walking fast in order to avoid you and BEING AFRAID TO LOOK YOU IN THE FACE. I am following the advice of some kind individuals on this forum from my last post who said that I should just give it some time, and because I really think that time is the only thing that could potentially fix things.
Speaking from the point of tarot, I have repeatedly been asking the question of "will he and I make up?" and the JUDGMENT card has been stalking me....I got it in the future position twice in a three card pull, I got it in a one card pull once, and two days later I got it in another one card pull!...it is everywhere.My question now is (if someone could do a one or two card pull would be even better): WHY IS HE SO ANGRY? DID I REALLY BREAK HIS HEART OR SOMETHING? I didn't even know he had feelings for me....it is just absurdity to the max! Yes we had beautiful synastry but I didn't think he really liked me.
Basically, what is wrong with him?! (is what I'd like to know!) Thank you guys so much, whoever decides to help! IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted November 02, 2012 10:14 PM
anyone?IP: Logged |
zarea
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posted November 02, 2012 10:28 PM
Have you tried to see if he's going through some pluto-mars transit. I have been going through the conjunction for the past two years and I had to learn to deal with anger issues everytime pluto conjuncted my mars. Whatever is going on between you two, if pluto and mars are at work, this may explain the extreme anger or overreaction that you're describing. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted November 02, 2012 11:04 PM
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Originally posted by zarea:
Have you tried to see if he's going through some pluto-mars transit. I have been going through the conjunction for the past two years and I had to learn to deal with anger issues everytime pluto conjuncted my mars. Whatever is going on between you two, if pluto and mars are at work, this may explain the extreme anger or overreaction that you're describing.
Ithink he has pluto conjunct mars right now...would this indicate overreaction?
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zarea
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posted November 02, 2012 11:56 PM
I had pluto exactly conjunct my mars since fall 2011. At first, I didn't understand the energy as I was going through a lot of stress with relocation, relationship issues etc...: I became extremely assertive, things that I would ignore in the past, lack of respect, you name it, suddenly ****** ME OFF big time and I would literally confront them on it I had it this summer with the pluto-uranus square in the mix and it was a very eventful summer when I broke off a dead end relationship. For at least three weeks I was burning with RAGE as a result of my ex's actions...I couldn't even sleep at night. I'm not exaggerating!! If he is going through it, unless he's aware and learn how to deal with it, anything will set him off because they bring up deeper issues. For me, what seems like tiny things for other people turned into power plays and situations where I state, I don't have to put up with it anymore.
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Ithink he has pluto conjunct mars right now...would this indicate overreaction?
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asclibrasagsun
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posted November 03, 2012 12:05 AM
quote:
Originally posted by zarea:
I had pluto exactly conjunct my mars since fall 2011. At first, I didn't understand the energy as I was going through a lot of stress with relocation, relationship issues etc...: I became extremely assertive, things that I would ignore in the past, lack of respect, you name it, suddenly ****** ME OFF big time and I would literally confront them on it I had it this summer with the pluto-uranus square in the mix and it was a very eventful summer when I broke off a dead end relationship. For at least three weeks I was burning with RAGE as a result of my ex's actions...I couldn't even sleep at night. I'm not exaggerating!! If he is going through it, unless he's aware and learn how to deal with it, anything will set him off because they bring up deeper issues. For me, what seems like tiny things for other people turned into power plays and situations where I state, I don't have to put up with it anymore.
Your description sounds extremely accurate! When he is around me I get an instant headache because I see the anger that is bottled up inside of him, I really do not understand why he overreacted. Of course, I did catch him lying but even I didn't think it was a big deal! What is worse is the actions he took now, he is trying to get revenge on me! IP: Logged |
zarea
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posted November 03, 2012 12:14 AM
I will advice: take cover and let him go through his phase. Don't try to reason because as with pluto, paranoia may be involved as well. Whatever it is between you two, the rage is there and he has to resolve it alone and don't give him an opportunity for revenge. I got some revenge this summer...it was as if I was moved by a compulsory force from all the negativity my ex was giving me...I don't even regret it and it made me feel good and powerful doing it. but of course that's using the energy in the wrong way...I'm much calmer now: pluto has moved to 7 degrees cap, my mars is at 6Just give him time and don't fuel the rage/fire quote:
Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Your description sounds extremely accurate! When he is around me I get an instant headache because I see the anger that is bottled up inside of him, I really do not understand why he overreacted. Of course, I did catch him lying but even I didn't think it was a big deal! What is worse is the actions he took now, he is trying to get revenge on me!
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asclibrasagsun
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posted November 03, 2012 12:33 AM
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Originally posted by zarea:
I will advice: take cover and let him go through his phase. Don't try to reason because as with pluto, paranoia may be involved as well. Whatever it is between you two, the rage is there and he has to resolve it alone and don't give him an opportunity for revenge. I got some revenge this summer...it was as if I was moved by a compulsory force from all the negativity my ex was giving me...I don't even regret it and it made me feel good and powerful doing it. but of course that's using the energy in the wrong way...I'm much calmer now: pluto has moved to 7 degrees cap, my mars is at 6Just give him time and don't fuel the rage/fire
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tonia
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posted November 03, 2012 12:31 PM
2 of wands 2 of cups 10 wands rev 5 of coins world worldrev death rev high priest rev 3 of swords 6 of cups
you are indecisive?not controlling a situation not express your thoughts?
you should speak with him to share your thoughts you feel depressed and you hope to end this. in other hand he try to run away from situation his thoughts are about short travel this time try to advance at work or move to another location.your challenge:i got death rev talks about bad news or end
his challenge is high pries rev: there is a risc that he get betrayed or betray
future: 3of swords and 6of cups will be difficult but sweet memories from the past and peace coming
so try to talk him
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asclibrasagsun
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posted November 03, 2012 01:20 PM
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Originally posted by tonia:
2 of wands 2 of cups 10 wands rev 5 of coins world worldrev death rev high priest rev 3 of swords 6 of cups
you are indecisive?not controlling a situation not express your thoughts?
you should speak with him to share your thoughts you feel depressed and you hope to end this. in other hand he try to run away from situation his thoughts are about short travel this time try to advance at work or move to another location.your challenge:i got death rev talks about bad news or end
his challenge is high pries rev: there is a risc that he get betrayed or betray
future: 3of swords and 6of cups will be difficult but sweet memories from the past and peace coming
so try to talk him
He is thinking about moving to another place? He doesn't want to talk unfortunately IP: Logged |
tonia
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posted November 03, 2012 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
[B] He is thinking about moving to another place?
maybe :/ (world rev) IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted November 03, 2012 02:40 PM
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Originally posted by tonia:
maybe :/ (world rev)
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