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Topic: Should I act nice towards him? tarot reading please
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MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 319
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 10:15 AM
  
Hello I have a question. Should I act nice towards my aunts husband R? There is something about him I dislike. My aunt has hinted many times that she & her son suffered abuse from him. But then it gets confusing because later she says that he is actually a 'nice guy' & excuses his behavior. Today I wanted to confront him on facebook [since we live in different countries], telling him that I dislike him for the things that he did. But my family tells me to act nice,fake & pretend that there is no problem. I'm trying my best to bite my tongue but I can't hold it any longer... IP: Logged |
Rosalind
Knowflake Posts: 1899
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 06, 2012 10:31 AM
The Fool- This is your aunt who is oblivious about the true colours of her husband.
Four of Pentacles- This is R, your aunt husband. Your guts are telliing your right. He isnt a nice person. He is looking out for possessions of any kind. He is a possesive person, cunning, materialistic person.
Knight of Wands- This is you. Your behaviour towards him isnt favoriting you. You need to be clever than him. Observe, seeks the proofs you need against him, seek to win the battle by using his weapons not yours. In front of him, try to be tactful and diplomatic. If you really want that your aunt dicover the truth about her husband help her in a subtle way without putting him in a guard (hope I said it right).IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 319
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 10:51 AM
Thank you Rosalind.
My aunt just immigrated to this country to get away from him & to work, he is very possessive he calls at least 5 times a day like a mad man.
I think you are right I have to watch my behavior, I might be hurting more instead of helping. Her son is still with him due to certain immigration rules, he can't come right away. I think if I open my mouth, he will get mad and harm himself & the kid. I know he is capable of hurting his own son, the poor child calls us sometimes crying and I wish I was there to protect him. Anyways, we are working on a plan to hire an immigration lawyer and hopefully send his husbands a$$ to jail.IP: Logged | |
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