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Topic: So is she FINALLY out of my life??
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carl
Knowflake Posts: 1120
From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 09, 2012 08:58 PM
  
Dated for 18 months, it was intense right away, deep feelings which led to us being engaged. heart breaking break up however, she ended it. Not to mention Crazy stuff post break up, really drawn out with infrequent meet ups and even heated kissing a few months ago. After that kissing, I would try to push her away, (tell her to go away, via text) she would call me like ten times straight. we would meet a few weeks later - I would tell her my feelings, she would say, she could not be with me. I would push her away again, she would call...repeat. till now. is she finally gone?  IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 422
From: NYC
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 09, 2012 09:13 PM
That Sun conjunction Pluto aspect all by itself denotes some obsession within the synastry, so I am going to say no to the initial question..not right away. Pluto to personal planets in synastry chart are hard to pull away from.IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 5451
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 09, 2012 09:18 PM
Check to see if the up coming eclipes will be hitting the composite.IP: Logged |
Wild Places
Knowflake Posts: 490
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 09, 2012 09:49 PM
Hey Carl...Her Venus/Pluto are opposite. Addition to that unfun aspect within her own chart, the fact that her Venus is on the cusp if your IC plus her Sun opposite your Juno tells me how she feels like marriage material for you. There's something in her, particularly the instability of Uranus in Aries toying with her Sun in your second house - there's a feeling she needs you for stability but lacks a clear sense of being certain she ultimately wants the stability because of the upheaval of Uranus opposite Juno. Look to the transits to see what to expect from her or for her...or post your natal chart with transits to see what energies you can focus on to learn from this and move forward. Saturn in Scorpio is all about how you feel about yourself as well as it being in your 9th House - higher spirituality, learning, thinking, communicating. Whatever you'll have to learn here - it's up to you if she's going to be a part of it. Ask yourself if you want this rollercoaster for the next 2 years. If no, then learning to move on is the key to your Saturn transit. Warmly,
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Haplesschild*
Newflake Posts: 14
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 09, 2012 10:33 PM
This is just advice for ya, the only way you can get her out of your life is if you cut her off and block her on everything. If she somehow manages to contact you, ignore, ignore, ignore. People like this do everything for attention and an ego boost, the way you get them to leave you alone is to just not respond. Don't let her manipulate you. Every time you respond whenever she contacts you ( to tell her to go away, to tell her how you've been etc) she knows she has power over you, it's all a whole ego trip ya know?
So step away from the games and the immature ex. Disappear from her life for good.IP: Logged |
carl
Knowflake Posts: 1120
From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 09, 2012 11:06 PM
Thanks folks! Not 100% sure on her exact time of birth, which muddles the question a little. But, yah. Thanks!! (I think she said like 2 or 4 am)IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Newflake Posts: 14
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 10, 2012 12:25 AM
So you ARE going to cut her off for good right? Because it's super obvious she's just toying at you for amusement and ego boosts.IP: Logged |
carl
Knowflake Posts: 1120
From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 10, 2012 12:30 AM
I want to. She is not evil. She isn't toying with me for amusement. Perhaps she is for an ego boost. And I finally offer her none. Perhaps she is also just hella confused (she is). But no way is she evil as your post seems to elude too. Plus she did love me at one point, a great deal. But, she lost it for whatever reason and has at times been kind of ****** to me.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Newflake Posts: 14
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 10, 2012 12:47 AM
But you said 'crazy post breakup stuff, which was drawn out' and that she 'called you 10 times' afterwards and then would tell you she didn't want to get back together, and then this would happen again repeatedly (the contacting you then when you respond she tells you she doesn't want to get back together).I'd say that's more than confusion. She does this for attention, because it's nice knowing you're still 'there.'
I've had an ex do really messed up things to me in the past and then after I dumped him, he refused to leave me alone. This continued for a year. The constant phone calls and messages (was alittle different from your situation in the sense he cheated and when I dumped him he probably felt a void he couldn't fill unfortunately ;0). I had to change my number and I was then free to get on with my life. If the girl really cared about you and respected you, trust me, she would stay away from you, especially after you told her to. She doesn't respect your wishes; what does that tell you? And no, noone is evil, but many people are very immature and selfish.
Hope you see what she is doing soon, you just need to block her number and contact details and you'll be happier for sure. IP: Logged |
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