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posted November 15, 2012 10:04 PM            

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Hi, I have been dating a Libra Sun man with Venus, Moon and Mercury in Scorpio. His Moon and Venus are both in 12th house. When I say that this is an emotional roller coaster, it is. He doesn't seem to ever want me to leave but it also feels stagnant to me, or shall I say STILL. He is not very emotional (openly), very distant, says mean things. Yet, if I ask him about it he says "What do you mean, I'm joking. I really like you." Just the other day I told him I couldn't deal with it anymore, I feel like he is completely trying to control me by being with holding. Ive been super honest and direct about my feelings towards him. He also doesn't seem very sexual, he is very attracted to me, but almost always seems nervous around me. He brings me around his friends all the time. we live an hour apart and he drives to see me twice a week... So no one would do that if they weren't interested...what is this? It's been going on since MAY!!!! I just have never experienced anything like this before. When we are together I feel this crazy bubbling energy between us. He has very sweet moments. He has been dating me now for months... Will this ever change? I have gotten frustrated with him twice. Once he drove all the way down here, and then wanted to just go to sleep...we had been drinking. He is a very selfish lover. I confronted him about it...he got very, very hurt by it. But it was the truth...you can't go 6 months with a man never giving you an orgasm or caring either! I know that set me back MONTHS... I told him two days ago "I don't want to do this anymore, you are too distant, it hurts me." I thought for sure he was going to say "see ya later" instead he replied simply "Don't go I will try I promise" WTF is going on? Someone help!!!! hahaha Here is his chart. I am getting no sleep! Any advice will be soooo helpful and very much appreciated!

His chart.

Sun Libra 9° 21' in house 10
Moon Scorpio 29° 30' in house 12
Mercury Scorpio 3° 6' in house 11
Venus Scorpio 22° 48' in house 12
Mars Leo 19° 1' in house 9
Jupiter Libra 18° 15' in house 11
Saturn Libra 12° 24' in house 10
Uranus Scorpio 27° 29' in house 12
Neptune Sagittarius 22° 19' in house 1
Pluto Libra 23° 40' in house 11
Ascendant Sagittarius 1° 6' in house 1
Midheaven Virgo 15° 15' in house 10
Node True Cancer 28° 41' in house 8
2 Capricorn 2° 32' in house 2
3 Aquarius 8° 55' in house 3
4 Pisces 15° 15' in house 4
5 Aries 15° 59' in house 5
6 Taurus 10° 31' in house 6

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