posted November 18, 2012 05:17 PM            

TL;DR - I have trouble maintaining friendships, and I haven't ever had a relationship, or even dated anyone. What is wrong?

Here's my chart:

posted November 18, 2012 06:10 PM            

Can you repost this chart NOT using Equal Houses? Just use the normal default chart that Astrodienst uses, it is a Placidus chart. It's important since it appears may have such large concentration of planets in the 5th house. The Equal House system may not give me an accurate 5th House reading. The 5th House rules "romantic sexuality" so it's very important that we don't create an "equal" 5th house just because it looks good or organized. Our planet is not exact, neither are all of the houses. OK, I'll be quiet now. Awaiting your 2nd post.

posted November 18, 2012 09:04 PM            

Thank you for putting up the Placidus chart, but just so you know I won't be reading the asteroids. Maybe someone else will come along and give you insight there, but let me begin.

Your chart suggests that you're a late bloomer in the romance department. If you take a look you'll see your natal Venus is at zero degrees Capricorn. When someone has Venus in Capricorn it suggests a latency in emotional development and perhaps these potential suitors from your past noticed it when you didn't notice it, but you're now around 20 years old I think, and your time of beginning to relate rewardingly with men or at least learning how to relate in a more mature fashion, could be upon you now.

Also, your 5th House of romantic sexuality is ruled by Saturn, the planet that demands maturity, order, rules, regulations, and discipline. There are so many things that it could mean. You may find yourself attracted to older men which might not be such a bad idea in terms of teaching you maturity in relationship. Your Saturn is conjunct your Sun and to me this suggests a relationship with your father or a father figure that was difficult. He may have been overly tyrannical or very passive or not in your early childhood home at all. Maybe even a combination of all three, but whatever the case may be, your recognition of knowing that relationship connections were not coming together solidly over these years is a good indication that you're ready to learn how to relate with the opposite sex.

Don't worry, you're really not the only person to start late on the dating scene. And just because your 5th house is ruled by Saturn doesn't mean that you won't have any relationships. Zillions of people in relationships and with children have the 5th house in Capricorn.

You have 5 planets in your 5th house so learning about GIVING love might be major theme in your life in addition to strong artistic creativity and even athleticism may be strong themes in your life.

Now that you know that it's just a matter of you being a late bloomer, you can make choices as to how you want to handle learning about relationships and taking necessary steps to allow them to happen or if you feel the issue is a severe problem you can take steps to get the help you need to begin relating rewardingly, lovingly and safely with men.

I hope that I've been of some help and that I've touched on some points of your reality.

I wish you the very best of luck with this.