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Topic: What does he think of me?
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Sestina Rose
Newflake Posts: 9
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 20, 2012 09:44 PM
  
Hello!  I was wondering if one of you lovely people would be able to help me with this?I have a crush on a man who is much older than me (I'm turning 26, and he's 44), and I want to know what he thinks of me. For the sake of anonymity, I'll call him "T". I don't know his birthday, unfortunately, so that's all the information that I can give about him. We work together and get along quite well; there's this certain "zing", a chemistry, between the two of us. Sometimes I get the feeling that he feels the same way about me - but I worry that it might just be in my head. Would anyone be able to give me some insight? It'd be much appreciated. Thanks so much in advance! IP: Logged |
love being Aries
Knowflake Posts: 1518
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 23, 2012 08:08 AM
Four of PentaclesYou might be appearing too controled & too stubborn to this man. He thinks you are guarding your heart, your mind & everything you posses so hard he finds it harder to get through to you through all the barriers. he thinks you are too much guarding yourself Try to open yourself to him. Try to make him see you opening up to him here is an image, so that you may get a picture how he sees you 
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whtsursgn
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 23, 2012 12:33 PM
Im not sure this is what you want to hear...but I pulled an Osho Zen card for you and this is what I got...We are miserable because we are too much in the self. What does it mean when I say we are too much in the self? And what exactly happens when we are too much in the self? Either you can be in existence or you can be in the self--both are not possible together. To be in the self means to be apart, to be separate. To be in the self means to become an island. To be in the self means to draw a boundary line around you. To be in the self means to make a distinction between 'this I am' and 'that I am not'. The definition, the boundary, between "I" and "not I" is what the self is--the self isolates. And it makes you frozen--you are no longer flowing. If you are flowing the self cannot exist. Hence people have become almost like ice-cubes. They don't have any warmth, they don't have any love--love is warmth and they are afraid of love. If warmth comes to them they will start melting and the boundaries will disappear. In love the boundaries disappear; in joy also the boundaries disappear, because joy is not cold. Osho Zen: The Path of Paradox, Volume 1 Chapter 5 Commentary:
In our society, men in particular have been taught not to cry, to put a brave face on things when they get hurt and not show that they are in pain. But women can fall into this trap too, and all of us at one time or another might feel that the only way to survive is to close off our feelings and emotions so we can't be hurt again. If our pain is particularly deep, we might even try to hide it from ourselves. This can make us frozen, rigid, because deep down we know that one small break in the ice will free the hurt to start circulating through us again. The rainbow-colored tears on this person's face hold the key to breaking out of this 'ice-olation'. The tears, and only the tears, have the power to melt the ice. It's okay to cry, and there is no reason to feel ashamed of your tears. Crying helps us to let go of pain, allows us to be gentle with ourselves, and finally helps us to heal. IP: Logged | |
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