posted December 03, 2012 02:10 PM            

Thanks sweet-scorpion
Looking forward to your question!

posted December 03, 2012 02:18 PM            

Clarifying cards to the above: the Devil and Page of Wands RX/reversed: these cards also represented why he suddenly felt turned off/went away. Seems like he was growing bored [page] when you didn't have sex...? Or he needed more sex and this made him bored and flighty, so he felt like things were going no where, and he wanted to explore other options? The Devil with the Page of Wands RX shows to me, someone who might be unhappy and impatient that things aren't going faster and more passionately in the Devil's arenas - like eroticism and sex acts in the relationship.

Your feelings: the Chariot - obviously you want to pursue this guy, and you're itching to know what is going on. This shows you are going to end up being direct about the entire affair, and might even have the guts to ask him straight up, What's the deal?

Clarifying cards: Ace of Swords RX: I've read that this card can represent someone who might be wrong or inappropriate for you. Combined with the Chariot, this makes me wary. Think hard before going after the guy in such a forthright manner. He might not be worth the trouble, especially with the above cards, and with the RX Ace it could just give you a headache.

OUTCOME: 4 of Pents + Empress RX: he wasn't there for you, and might have seemed closed off and guarded in the end; he's probably a selfish guy who isn't receiving your love, affections and attentions [Empress RX]. On a more basic scale, it shows to me a guy who is so self-centered that he won't let a woman [you in this case] who is genuinely kind and interested in stable romance into his life.

posted December 03, 2012 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Venia:
Great!

Thanks sweet-scorpion
Looking forward to your question!

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Just posted the reading below.

Ok, here is my question:

posted December 03, 2012 02:42 PM            

What does he think of you?

Page of Cups, King of Cups, the Magician
I do believe he has romantic feelings for you or at least he is really into you! You bring up genuine feelings to him... Like the sensitive side of him is revealed or will be revealed because of you. If that makes sense. I also think that he will make a move at one point, cause indeed you give him the vibe of being able to express himself to you. He feels very positive around you and I think you can both feel that.

Is he already taken?
Temperance, Six of Cups, Seven of Pentacles.
Mmmm, there is a relationship here but I would say it has either recently ended or on the ending point. It seems that it was a long term relationship or a relationship that both of them have worked very hard on but didn't end well or didn't lead anywhere. He had strong feelings about this and he is currently more into the 'waiting' point, not sure if it has ended. Even though, I do not see it continuing as a relationship any more.

posted December 03, 2012 02:51 PM            

First of all thanks a million

My Goodness! You have no idea how spot on you are!!!! There was a misunderstanding between us which was indeed sex related. I thought about it, that perhaps that was the reason he backed off but never thought how selfish can he actually be.
No, I am not gonna bother anymore... It has already ended for me and I actually find it superficial of him. It's just so weird that he was indeed very kind and such a gentleman in the beginning.
You have no idea how much this helped me see things clearer!

Thanks again!

Be blessed

posted December 03, 2012 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Venia:
Sweet-scorpion, let me get to your question first and then feedback!

What does he think of you?

Page of Cups, King of Cups, the Magician
I do believe he has romantic feelings for you or at least he is really into you! You bring up genuine feelings to him... Like the sensitive side of him is revealed or will be revealed because of you. If that makes sense. I also think that he will make a move at one point, cause indeed you give him the vibe of being able to express himself to you. He feels very positive around you and I think you can both feel that.

Is he already taken?
Temperance, Six of Cups, Seven of Pentacles.
Mmmm, there is a relationship here but I would say it has either recently ended or on the ending point. It seems that it was a long term relationship or a relationship that both of them have worked very hard on but didn't end well or didn't lead anywhere. He had strong feelings about this and he is currently more into the 'waiting' point, not sure if it has ended. Even though, I do not see it continuing as a relationship any more.

Makes sense at all?

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Thanks so much for the detailed response!

It gives me hope that you came up with such a positive answer for his feelings for me. We only got to talk a little bit last time but I feel like this will definitely be a good omen for the near future, like the next few weeks, when we get a chance to talk again. Hopefully we will both really continue to connect. I know that I personally felt connected to just his presence on an intuitive level, since I'm an empath, and I was a little addicted to his positive, pleasant energy. :'D It makes sense the intuitive Cups are coming up here. Maybe the Magician shows some chemistry between us?

posted December 03, 2012 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Venia:
Feedback!

First of all thanks a million

My Goodness! You have no idea how spot on you are!!!! There was a misunderstanding between us which was indeed sex related. I thought about it, that perhaps that was the reason he backed off but never thought how selfish can he actually be.

No, I am not gonna bother anymore... It has already ended for me and I actually find it superficial of him. It's just so weird that he was indeed very kind and such a gentleman in the beginning.
You have no idea how much this helped me see things clearer!

Thanks again!

Be blessed

V

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No problem babydoll! I'm so glad I could help out. I'm sure that with this loser gone, you're bound to karmically receive someone much better in your life... especially since you held your head high and moved on. I actually see the Chariot and your actions there relating together.

posted December 03, 2012 08:22 PM            

I am sorry to heard that you meet a man like that.

All the best.

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Originally posted by Venia:
Feedback!

First of all thanks a million

My Goodness! You have no idea how spot on you are!!!! There was a misunderstanding between us which was indeed sex related. I thought about it, that perhaps that was the reason he backed off but never thought how selfish can he actually be.
No, I am not gonna bother anymore... It has already ended for me and I actually find it superficial of him. It's just so weird that he was indeed very kind and such a gentleman in the beginning.
You have no idea how much this helped me see things clearer!

Thanks again!

Be blessed

V

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posted December 04, 2012 03:09 PM            

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Thanks so much for the detailed response!

It gives me hope that you came up with such a positive answer for his feelings for me. We only got to talk a little bit last time but I feel like this will definitely be a good omen for the near future, like the next few weeks, when we get a chance to talk again. Hopefully we will both really continue to connect. I know that I personally felt connected to just his presence on an intuitive level, since I'm an empath, and I was a little addicted to his positive, pleasant energy. :'D It makes sense the intuitive Cups are coming up here. Maybe the Magician shows some chemistry between us?

As for being taken or not, to me as you said, I don't see a ton of long-term stability here, like an engagement or something serious like a possible marriage. Maybe he is waiting things out, being patient... ready to move on...but not quite sure if he wants to because of what he invested into the relationship? [7 of Pents]? I wonder how Temperance plays into this all.... well, maybe if I just become friends with him, I could have a slim chance of winning him over if he's separating from someone and available.

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My pleasure, sweet-scorpion
Yes, the Magician does, indeed, indicate good chemistry between you... I apologize for not taking the cards one by one as I am an intuitive reader and let the cards 'tell' me the story! And in regards to him being taken or not - I don't feel either anything like marriage. And you stated, the 7 of pentacles make me feel that he is more like waiting to see whether to move or not only because he has invested a lot on that relationship. But as I said, I don't see him going back.
So, good luck on that

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No problem babydoll! I'm so glad I could help out. I'm sure that with this loser gone, you're bound to karmically receive someone much better in your life... especially since you held your head high and moved on. I actually see the Chariot and your actions there relating together.

The thing is, with the sex related misunderstanding, it just goes to show what his mind was really on when it came to you - with the Devil we clearly see sex was the top priority, not a lower one as it should be when you are JUST STARTING OUT dating, for less than a month no less! Seems he was really a wham bam thank you ma'am type?

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Yes, exactly! I really don't get it! It made me feel bad cause I felt insulted... But again, he is the loser not me!

Be well sweet-scorpion and best of luck

posted December 04, 2012 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Isabelle_lila:

Hi venia,
I am sorry to heard that you meet a man like that.

All the best.

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Hey Isabelle
Long time, no see! I hope you're doing well.
Thanks, dear, for your sweet words. Unfortunately, in life, sometimes we cannot control who we meet but rather how we deal with them. It did bug me but I'm ok now

Take care!!