posted December 05, 2012 04:39 PM
This guy is not in touch with his feelings as he is still very young. He could have deeper feelings but he doesn't explore or get in touch with them. He doesn't even really know what he likes or needs but just has these vague ideas that such and such about you might suit him, or something might go ok, or he might seem ok with that combination with you. So he is living almost on a superficial level and kind of in a haze over relationships and attractions. There is excitement present but he's not sure what is inspiring him and I think his gaze can wander and just as easily be inspired any number of directions. It's like he is at a stage in life where he could get involved in 100 things including a relationship and he is like wowed by the bright lights of everything and he has no maturity or experience to determine anything very much about what is available or what he would like to pursue, kind of like a kid in a candy shop that has only so much money to spend and he wants it to be worth his while - whatever he does.So Knight of cups: he thinks he has his presentation/approach ok and it won't hamper his chances if he decides along the way to keep you in his sights.
Knight of swords: he gets distracted and isn't sure what he should base his choices on, he's impressionable to other people's opinions and is constantly guaging what he thinks would be the generally liked and popular things. He notes trends and what his peers like etc and this affects his choices or what he pursues.
Knight of pentacles: self esteem issues; feels like nothing comes easily and requires commitment and dedication and a long and arduous effort.
So in general, I think you appeal to him and you would probably fit well enough with what he would like others to think of him and of you. He's after something fairly light, like a social level and not too heavy, but he feels like to have that sort of light intimacy he has to show a decent committed approach and this is a bit of a downer to him as its more from a standpoint of the attitude he thinks he should adopt rather than one he feels like giving.
Three knights: points to you being a suitable escort to be involved in social things like parties, going out, music events or clubbing etc, he thinks you can probably keep pace with him and what he likes to do for fun.
So in general I think he likes you but would feel it a bit of a chore to have to show a bit more dedication and commitment to you than on a light breezy level of relating. He may deepen or make the relationship more steady as time goes on, but currently it would be a bit of a chore for him if he had to start being more involved than he liked at this stage. So perhaps he wouldn't like to be branded your boyfriend or you his steady girlfriend at this stage. Although it could well develop over time depending on whether things stayed convivial and pleasing for him, but he would be feeling the situation out.
All in all, it probably is pretty much, boy meets girl, they like each other and want to go out with friends etc and have a good time as part of a group. So there is probably nothing wrong with that - its a standard young people liking each other and socialising in young people environments and groups. But it is a sexy like each other, so all up not a bad intention in terms of attraction.
Lindaland
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posted December 03, 2012 11:45 PM