posted December 06, 2012 05:37 PM            

My bff, she's like my sister really, and I have been friends for almost 16 years now.. I love her to death and I fear she's put herself into a toxic relationship. She's been with him for about 5 years now and in those years there have been numerous occasions where she's caught him talking to other women. Them telling him everything they'd "like to do to him" and him encouraging it to the point these women are asking him why he's with my friend instead of them...He rarely defends her, and if he does it's "oh, well, I DO love her" and then the most demeaning response she told me about "Well she's the mother of my youngest son, I'm not going to lose him because I leave her" (he's had that happen before)

Every time he strays he tells her it's her fault because she doesn't give him enough attention. The sad part is, I can see his point when he says this to her. Or yells it.. He has a VERY explosive temper.

There was another thread in Astro2.0 about Taurus (http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/216642.html) that gave a description of the dark side of Taurus, too. He embodies it, but tries to play nice. I've seen something in him that didn't sit right with me since the day I met him, and I know him well enough now to know what it is.

Please keep in mind I'm not saying that 12th house Sun/Venus/Taurus placements can't be faithful. He had a really f'd up childhood that led him to be the way that he is. But that's exactly what creates the scary side, not just dark side, of Taurus. I don't think he'll ever stop talking to other women, and a part of me wonders if he hasn't already acted on it. He says he hasn't, but I'm really not sure that I trust him.

I just don't want to see my friend hurt...