posted December 11, 2012 03:58 PM            

We are similar in some ways but very different in others. I want to know, can this work?

Our synastry is CRAZY. I noticed we have:

* Mars-mars conjunct (Scorpio)
* Moon-moon trine (His moon in aries, mine in leo)
* Ascendant-sun conjunct (My rising in sagittarius, his sun in sagittarius)
* Ascendant-sun opposite (My capricorn sun vs. his cancer rising)
* Descendent-sun conjunct (capricorn, which is my sun and in his 7th house!)
* Descendent-sun opposite (my 7th house is gemini vs. his sun is Sagittarius)
* Other aspects include: My moon (Leo) in his 3rd house, his moon (Aries) in my 4th house.

HIS placements:

Sun Sagittarius 29.45
Moon Aries 28.10
Mercury Sagittarius 8.54
Venus Sagittarius 22.49
Mars Scorpio 4.15
Jupiter Aquarius 16.08
Saturn Sagittarius 4.03
Uranus Sagittarius 18.54
Neptune Capricorn 3.13
Pluto Scorpio 6.39

Ascendant Cancer 2.54
VII Capricorn 2.54

MY placements:

Sun Capricorn 15.08
Moon Leo 9.01
Mercury Capricorn 23.27
Venus Aquarius 18.29
Mars Scorpio 28.25
Jupiter Aries 20.35
Saturn Sagittarius 26.05
Uranus Sagittarius 27.59
Neptune Capricorn 8.00
Pluto Scorpio 12.08

posted December 11, 2012 04:44 PM            

Ie your mars are actually 24 degrees apart, that is wayy too far apart to be a conjunction.

Your moons trine by sign, not degree (trine orbs are only felt within 4-5 degrees also.

Your asc conjunct sun and asc opp sun aren't really aspects as again the degrees are much too large.

Desc conjunct sun means the same thing as the above.

posted December 12, 2012 01:13 PM            

thanks!

posted December 12, 2012 04:44 PM            

So here's the composite chart:

Sun Capricorn 7° 26' in house 4
Moon Gemini 18° 40' in house 9
Mercury Capricorn 1° 10' in house 4
Venus Capricorn 20° 38' in house 4
Mars Scorpio 16° 19' in house 2
Jupiter Pisces 18° 20' in house 6
Saturn Sagittarius 15° 3' in house 3
Uranus Sagittarius 23° 25' in house 3
Neptune Capricorn 5° 35' in house 4
Pluto Scorpio 9° 23' in house 2
Ascendant Virgo 23° 42' in house 1

MAJOR THEMES in the Relationship:

His Sun conjunct Her Uranus orb 1° 46'
His Jupiter conjunct Her Venus orb 2° 20'
His Mercury conjunct Her Ascendant orb 2° 18'
Her Moon trine Her Saturn orb 2° 14'
His Moon trine Her Uranus orb 0° 20'
His Mercury trine Her Moon orb 0° 7'
His Venus trine Her Jupiter orb 2° 14'
His Uranus sextile Her Venus orb 0° 25'
His Pluto square Her Moon orb 2° 22'

Other Aspects:

His Sun conjunct Her Saturn orb 3° 40'
His Moon square Her Mercury orb 4° 52'
His Venus conjunct Her Saturn orb 3° 15'
His Mars square Her Moon orb 4° 47'
His Jupiter square Her Pluto orb 3° 59'
His Saturn trine Her Moon orb 4° 59'

Houses:

posted December 12, 2012 10:39 PM            

sorry

posted December 13, 2012 10:40 AM            

post the composite from extended chart selection in astro.com
and copy and paste the compatibility for lovers sample report from grupovenus.com

posted December 17, 2012 01:59 PM            

Here's the compatibility report:

Composite planetary data
(See graphic)
Sun Capricorn 7° 26' in house 4
Moon Gemini 18° 40' in house 9
Mercury Capricorn 1° 10' in house 4
Venus Capricorn 20° 38' in house 4
Mars Scorpio 16° 19' in house 2
Jupiter Pisces 18° 20' in house 6
Saturn Sagittarius 15° 3' in house 3
Uranus Sagittarius 23° 25' in house 3
Neptune Capricorn 5° 35' in house 4
Pluto Scorpio 9° 23' in house 2
Ascendant Virgo 23° 42' in house 1
Midheaven Gemini 26° 32' in house 10
Node. Aries 16° 48' in house 7
2 Libra 21° 48' in house 2
3 Scorpio 25° 44' in house 3
4 Sagittarius 26° 32' in house 4
5 Capricorn 25° 55' in house 5
6 Aquarius 26° 40' in house 6

Chapter 1: On the Ascendant

Ascendant in Virgo

Together, you are true thinkers by nature, you have very active, perhaps overactive minds. You will become "nervous Nellies" and can worry about anything, anytime, anyplace. You are somewhat self centered though, and it would not be wise to criticize your fellow man. You will be very restless together, and need to always be on the go, exploring something new.

Stop looking for the flaws in everything you do, just because you are perfectionists doesn't mean you cannot lighten up some. Before you dismiss any project as one that you couldn't possibly do, give it a try, you'll never know until you can do together as a team.

Together you are tranquil and shy and are most content when you are working in the background of any organization rather than on the firing line. Because of this you would excel in any area where details need to be finished up. Jobs that would bore other people to death are fine with you, just as long as you can work in peace.

One drawback to this placement of Virgo is your ability to be pleased by other people or simply please each other. Why? Because your standards are naturally so high, people miss the mark, because they have no idea what to shoot for, or how. You can also be a slight pain in the butt when it comes to your choice of friends, clothing and especially food!

Any situation that involves quick responses will not find the two of you around in close proximity, because you approach everything cautiously while estimating any dangers involved or benefits that can be gained. Once you have evaluated it carefully and it is deemed reliable, you will then proceed. This is one of the reasons you don't fall into the abyss of despair together.

Your manners and mannerisms are always correct and above board. Your quiet and unemotional viewpoints are immediately apparent because you do not spread sympathy and caring although you may be. You come across ready for business and display a conservative approach to everything and everybody. You will draw people to you who need honest assessments of situations or special advice. This is your area of expertise together. You never miss anything that goes on in your environment whether at home or at the office and are always looking to learn something new. You are not overly determined, but if something crosses your path that prompts your curiosity, all the better. Look to the house where Mercury is located to see where your combined interests can be found.

Ascendent in Virgo (20-30 degrees) , Taurus decanat

Ruled by the planet Venus, together you can become natural artists with no formal education. There will be an apparent loving and friendly nature that comes over you just by being together. To avoid total boredom, find an artistic or creative outlet. Any sort of routine will drive you crazy, so find a job where you can organize things and stay busy. Negativity that can manifest will be caused by complaining too much even though you are slow to mention it.

Chapter 2

On the Midheaven: How you are seen as a couple

Midheaven in Gemini

Since this is the most "visible" part of the composite chart, it represents how you are actually seen in the world by others. It represents your more outward or public face and where you are likely to encounter success, and your reputation in the world as a couple. Your mutual goals together will include many ideas going at the same time. The only problem is determining what stage your projects are at, what pile you put them in, or what day it is. Otherwise you are sharp as a tack. Your minds are quick, alive, alert and inquisitive. You have the ability to absorb and learn very rapidly, but you get bored just as easily. The mind can become so scattered at times that you may forget where you are, or why. As long as anyone can keep your minds stimulated for more than an hour or so, they will have your complete although somewhat divided attention. People who are serious about life may not understand or appreciate your carefree nature. You possess a wonderful sense of humor and make fascinating conversationalists.

Your approach to people and situations stems from the mental plane, and any decisions in your life about love, domestic matters, business or social situations will be met with rational thought rather than emotional responses.

The tenth house is the home of worldly aspirations and attainment. This sector shows how you present yourself to the public, and deeds for which you leave behind as your legacy, or what you will be remembered for. The tenth has domain over the profession, public offices held, and your reputation. The combined energy of Gemini here, indicates that careers or professions that have to do with the written or spoken word is where you will put your combined energies, or areas where mental dexterity and practical thought is needed. Whatever you choose will be someplace where you can be active, communicative and with endless variety and challenges to keep you motivated. Working at least two jobs at the same time would be a must for the Gemini sign of duality. Look to the house where Mercury is located to see what kind of career you might choose, or how you will be remembered.

Chapter 3: Planets and Aspects

Sun in 4th house

With the Sun located in the 4th house there is likely to be a very strong emotional bond between you. You will share strong values, tastes, even past experiences that are somehow similar. When you put your home together, you will both intuitively know how your home should feel and look, right from the start. The Sun focuses its energy on personal and intimate habits that are ingrained from youth and you should be compatible in that regard. This is a wonderful position for settling down and starting a family together.

Because of this compatibility, this is one of the best positions of the Sun for marriage or any other intimate arrangement. Everyday life should be more secure, stable and comfortable, and people will enjoy your company when you use the home to socialize. Your home will be a great place to escape the everyday hum-drum existence we call life. This placement of the Sun also favors joint real estate, owning property and a larger living space as opposed to just an apartment. Yours will not be a light-hearted relationship. Instead it will be all-consuming on both the mental and emotional levels.

Sun conjunct Mercury orb 6° 15'

Your relationship may not be so much an emotional relationship as it is an intellectual one. Yours is perhaps a relationship where you can exchange thoughts and ideas, study, research, spend hours in conversation and enjoy mental stimulation rather than physical. For you, sex takes place mentally rather than physically. Rather than having an emotional rapport, you may be more detached and logical in your relationship.

Your conversations will be excellent and since you have so much in common, you probably think the same ways about life in general. You will have no trouble understanding what the other person is talking about. There are very meaningful discussions indicated here and should you be involved in creative or business ventures together, then this aspect is an added boost for the conception of new ideas.

You can feel very close to each other with this aspect, without feeling vulnerable, and doing your "own thing" will be a prerequisite for the two of you. Trips and travel, whether local or long distance, are also part of this aspect. Sitting still may be difficult for you both.

Sun conjunct Neptune orb 1° 50'

You may either view this relationship as idealistic or you may completely delude yourself regarding what this relationship is really all about. The real task for you is how to decide which one is reality. At the very least you may "feel" that the two of you have entered a truly spiritual union, and that might be entirely true. You may believe that the total attunement of your souls so transcends mere communication that you do not need to verbally express yourself. So you may start believing that your partner instinctively knows what you mean and what you need. The trouble with this line of thought is that it is surely an illusion. Your partner probably doesn't know what you are thinking, much less what you are feeling. Your mistake is in assuming your partner is doing something he/she is incapable of. The best thing to do with this aspect is to assume nothing and specifically spell out your thoughts and ideas. The fact is, verbal communication IS necessary and you will avoid a lot of problems later by dispensing with any idealistic notions, before they cause too much trouble later.

Since Neptune is spiritual and non-physical, a platonic relationship may develop instead of a sexual union. You need to be careful of deluding yourselves into thinking that one or the other of you needs saving and you are just the (only) person who can rescue them.

Don't be fooled into thinking that your partner has only a few little flaws because it is a fact that all of us have a lot of faults. If you put your partner on a pedestal, you will be very disappointed, disillusioned and perhaps feel very betrayed when your partner "falls" off that high and hallowed place and you find out he/she is just a mere mortal.

On the other hand, there is every possibility of magic in the air which can unite your souls in unspoken ways. You may indeed react more to each other through intuition and psychic rapport, thus knowing at times the other's thoughts and feelings on a very high level. Loving each other unconditionally and without preconceived notions will see you through the darker times if you just learn to be yourselves.

Spending time near water can be very soothing for you both. You will be extremely sensitive to each other's needs and you will seem very attuned to the universe. But keep one foot in reality so you do not have so far to fall should your perceptions be wrong.

Sun sextile Pluto orb 1° 57'

This aspect is sure to give a very strong and powerful bond. The energy present here will change both of you at very deep levels. In time you will know every aspect of each other's personality and you will reveal secrets to each other that others will never know. A passionate and emotional nature is a powerful part of this configuration and this will help make you even closer.

You will make a very dynamic and powerful team and you can make major differences and changes not only in your own lives, but in the lives of the people around you as well. Should you decide to serve others in some way, then you will have a very positive effect on their lives. Any difficulties that you experience in this relationship will be transformed by this aspect. This relationship will be a very serious one and it is likely to involve more of you than any relationship you have had before it.

Because of the transforming and probing energies in this aspect, normal patterns of existence and behavior will be changed by your relationship and new insight into your lives will be revealed. Together you will have an unlimited faith that will see you through any situation and thus transform you in the process.

Investigating the unknown, delving into uncharted territories, achieving great accomplishments and creatively constructing something from virtually nothing are all possible for the two of you working together as a team. Scientific, business and financial endeavors may be your strong suit. You can be excellent bargain hunters together and you can work with and profit from taxes, insurance, wills or things connected with the dead. There are strong and potent clairvoyant and intuitive abilities at work here as well.

You can expect fate and unexpected events to play a role in bringing this relationship together and keeping it on course.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:

Moon in 9th house
Moon square Jupiter orb 0° 19'
Moon opposition Saturn orb 3° 37'
Moon opposition Uranus orb 4° 45'
Mercury in 4th house
Mercury conjunct Uranus orb 7° 44'
Mercury conjunct Neptune orb 4° 25'
Venus in 4th house
Venus sextile Mars orb 4° 18'
Venus sextile Jupiter orb 2° 17'
Mars in 2nd house
Mars trine Jupiter orb 2° 1'
Mars conjunct Pluto orb 6° 56'
Jupiter in 6th house
Jupiter square to Saturn orb 3° 17'
Jupiter square Uranus orb 5° 4'
Saturn in 3rd house
Uranus in 3rd house
Neptune in 4th house
Neptune sextile Pluto orb 3° 47'
Pluto in 2nd house

Chapter 4: Other Issues in Your Relationship

posted December 18, 2012 03:46 PM            

now i'd need you to post the compatibility for lovers report, not the composite report

quote:

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copy and paste the compatibility for lovers sample report from grupovenus.com

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posted December 18, 2012 05:44 PM            

J is HIM
R is ME

Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other

J's Sun in Saggitarius and R's Sun in Capricorn

Work versus play, or Optimism and faith versus Realism and doubt are likely to be issues in this relationship, with J being the playful, optimistic one, and R being the realist. Many times J will be in the mood for socializing, traveling, or engaging in some form of entertainment, while R feels that there are responsibilities that should be taken care of first. At such times R feels that J is too irresponsible, inconsiderate, and immature, while J feels that R is boring and dull.

J is also prone to fits of optimism and is inclined to gamble and speculate, whereas R prefers a well thought out, clear, practical plan. Also, R is inclined to be serious toward relationships and wants a secure, committed relationship, while J wants more space and freedom.

If your dissimilarities are not too extreme, you can complement each other rather than frustrate each other, with J providing the energy and vision, and R providing the steady hand and practical applications.

J's Moon in Aries and R's Moon in Leo

Both of you very much wish to believe in your own personal strength, and may mask feelings of weakness, inadequacy, or neediness. Proud and fiercely independent (especially J), neither of you readily admits that you need help or support.

Both of you harbor a secret (or not so secret) desire to be the center of attention, to be on top, or to dominate - and you may compete for that position in your relationship. However, both of you also respect strong individuals and appreciate one another's integrity and individuality.

There is much compatibility between you if your strong egos do not get in the way.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Venus Mutually Aspects Jupiter

As mentioned below several times, this relationship is blessed with a high degree of good will, harmony, and love for each other. A great deal of merry-making, partying, and socializing makes this relationship an outgoing, enjoyable one. Your appreciation for each other is very strong - this is a relationship that is long-lasting, fulfilling, and rewarding in many ways.

J's Sun conjunct R's Uranus orb 1° 46'

You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.

J's Jupiter conjunct R's Venus orb 2° 20'

You enjoy each other's company immensely and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. You will also include others in your lives, expand your circle of friends, and allow one another a good deal of freedom, rather than being exclusive or possessive about one another. There is a great deal of generosity between you, and you may benefit one another financially and materially as well as emotionally. A wonderful friendship!

J's Mercury conjunct R's Ascendant orb 2° 18'

You enjoy long talks, which are particularly enjoyable because you share many similar views and attitudes. You understand each other exceedingly well and love to exchange ideas.

J's Moon trine R's Saturn orb 2° 14'

There is a mature, stable, responsible tone to your relationship that makes you feel secure with each other. There is a great deal of trust and respect for each other. As you spend more time together, you will find that your tastes, priorities, and sense of what is really important in life becomes very compatible. If you marry and have children, you will work together well as parents, especially when difficulties and 'minor crises' arise.

J's Moon trine R's Uranus orb 0° 20'

There is an upbeat, enthusiastic, spontaneous quality to your relationship. You spark each other's imagination, creativity, and wit. You feel loose and uninhibited with each other, and you enjoy exploring life and sharing new experiences. Also, if you both enjoy dancing or playing music, you have found a wonderful dance and/or music partner. You spark each other's sense of rhythm, and you can work together very spontaneously, yet gracefully - an indication of sexual compatibility and satisfaction as well.

J's Mercury trine R's Moon orb 0° 7'

You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.

J's Venus trine R's Jupiter orb 2° 14'

You are generous with one another, always ready to help each other, and you have a great respect and appreciation for one another. You also allow one another a lot of freedom to develop other friendships, rather than clinging possessively to one another. You may also benefit from one another materially as well as emotionally.

J's Uranus sextile R's Venus orb 0° 25'

You spark enthusiasm in each other. You enjoy being a little 'crazy' with each other and are inclined to joke and tease each other. Sexual attraction is strong and you are very compatible sexually - you are likely to feel that your partner is a great lover. If you enjoy dancing, music, or some sport that requires agility and gracefulness, then you will love engaging your partner in this activity.

J's Pluto square R's Moon orb 2° 22'

The emotional bond between you is very complex. Sexual attraction is strong and you find each other to be very magnetic or highly charismatic. But you also will find yourself becoming uncomfortable with various deeply ingrained habits and attitudes of each other as you learn more about each other. You are simultaneously attracted and repulsed by each other. You evoke intense emotional responses from each other and if you want this relationship to be a long-lasting one, you will have to be very careful because a blowup in the relationship can be triggered by jealousy, acts of unkindness, or simply the unwillingness of either of you to change deeply ingrained habits that are offensive to each other. In short, this is an emotionally intense relationship that blows hot and cold, drives you to emotional extremes, and challenges your deepest, most personal and important attitudes and habits.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:

Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

J's Sun in R's 1 house
R's Sun in J's 7 house
J's Moon in R's 4 house
R's Moon in J's 2 house
J's Mercury in R's 12 house
R's Mercury in J's 7 house
J's Venus in R's 1 house
R's Venus in J's 9 house
J's Mars in R's 10 house
R's Mars in J's 6 house
J's Jupiter in R's 2 house
R's Jupiter in J's 11 house
J's Saturn in R's 12 house
R's Saturn in J's 6 house
J's Uranus in R's 1 house
R's Uranus in J's 6 house
J's Neptune in R's 1 house
R's Neptune in J's 7 house
J's Pluto in R's 10 house
R's Pluto in J's 5 house

J's Sun conjunct R's Saturn orb 3° 40'
J's Moon square R's Mercury orb 4° 52'
J's Venus conjunct R's Saturn orb 3° 15'
J's Mars square R's Moon orb 4° 47'
J's Jupiter square R's Pluto orb 3° 59'
J's Saturn trine R's Moon orb 4° 59'