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downtomars
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posted December 18, 2012 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have met someone really great and it is moving fairly quickly. He is very similar to my favorite ex-boyfriend, in fact they are born just two days apart (Dec. 29th & Dec. 31st). I am into composites lately for some reason, so would someone mind checking this out and tell me what you see, feel or think?

Here it is:

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posted December 18, 2012 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also posted the synastry chart, if that helps...

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posted December 18, 2012 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i appreciate the work you put into taking a screenshot of the synastry aspects grid. unfortunately it's much easier for me to just read a synastry report that already has all the aspects with orbs that count selected and described for me, as well as the double whammy descriptions that are relevant.

So please copy and paste the compatibility for lovers report from grupovenus.com
and please don't edit out any of the aspect descriptions

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posted December 18, 2012 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, RunAroundScreaming! Let's take a look...

I am "Meep" and he is "Hiim"

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Meep's Sun in Leo and Hiim's Sun in Capricorn

Hiim's more emotionally detached, reserved, down-to-earth and somewhat cynical or skeptical attitude contrasts with Meep's warm enthusiasm and basically cheerful temperament. In your personal style and tastes, also, this difference is very apparent: Hiim prefers the classics, simple elegance, and either a very conservative, traditional style or an austere less-is-more, keep- it-simple style. Meep has a generous, lavish hand and loves rich color, warmth, and brilliance that borders on gaudiness. Sometimes, this translates into emotional terms also. Hiim is more careful, cooler, less inclined to gamble, wants a sure thing. Meep is more open and expressive and warm, and needs an abundance of appreciation and affection - more than Hiim is inclined to give sometimes. One thing you do have in common: you both take your commitments to heart, and you prize fidelity and loyalty.

Meep's Moon in Libra and Hiim's Moon in Aquarius

Your relationship is apt to have a light, airy, friendly, and not overly emotional tone to it. Both of you are able to be somewhat detached and objective about your personal situation.

Sharing ideas, common interests, conversation, books, and intellectual pleasures are a satisfying aspect of your relationship.

You share ideas too, often about how people 'should' relate to one another: fairness, equality, non-possessiveness, respect for each other's individual differences and autonomy, and open communication on all subjects are likely to be among them.

The major difference between you is that Meep is much more personal and romantic, and is more inclined to need a partner in order to feel complete, while Hiim is more independent and eschews too much emotional neediness and dependency.

Also, Hiim has a rebellious streak and enjoys flouting convention at times, while Meep is very concerned with social acceptance, appropriate social behavior, and good manners.


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Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Mercury Mutually Aspects Jupiter

As noted below, you inspire each other to view life with a broader perspective. Philosophy, politics, and religion are likely to play a major part in your relationship. Communication is open, friendly, and you enjoy planning, developing ideas, and reaching for the stars together. You will travel and expand your intellectual horizons together.

Meep's Sun conjunct Hiim's Jupiter orb 0° 17'

There is a tremendous amount of good will, optimism, and enthusiasm in your relationship. Hiim draws out Meep's optimism and self-confidence and is able to assist Meep in discovering new possibilities and avenues for growth. A shared vision, philosophy, or goal for the future gives vitality to your relationship.

Meep's Mercury conjunct Hiim's Jupiter orb 1° 18'

Your conversations frequently turn to philosophical, religious, or political areas. Your discussions often move more towards the forest than the trees. You help each other get a broader perspective of your situation and you are likely to find yourselves traveling, exploring, and, in many ways, broadening your horizons. Hiim believes in and encourages Meep's ideas, plans, and intellect.

Meep's Neptune conjunct Hiim's Mercury orb 0° 33'

There is a poetic, fanciful quality to your conversations. Meep brings out the poet and dreamer in Hiim. Communications on practical matters, however, may suffer and you both need to be wary of exaggerating, hiding, or deceiving each other. When with Meep, Hiim is often confused, less clear and less precise than usual.

Meep's Ascendant conjunct Hiim's Moon orb 2° 34'

The two of you probably felt like old friends right from your first meeting. You have a natural affinity for each other, and it is very likely that you will remain life-long friends. You enjoy each other's company, feel very at home with each other, share many of the same interests, preferences, and tastes. You have a direct, intuitive understanding of each other that allows you to communicate and share your feelings and thoughts very openly with each other. Hiim tends to 'mother' and care for Meep, and Meep easily can become dependent on Hiim. In fact, a mutually dependent relationship is very likely.

Meep's Jupiter trine Hiim's Mercury orb 1° 23'

Communication is open and harmonious. You are able to help each other incorporate new ideas and expand your perspective. If you have a close, long-lasting relationship, you will develop similar political, social, religious, and philosophical views. The similarity in your overall perspectives on life helps the two of you feel very happy to share your lives together. Your overall beliefs and aims are in harmony.

Meep's Saturn trine Hiim's Sun orb 2° 45'

Meep is very dedicated and loyal to Hiim, with a strong desire to fulfill the responsibilities and demands of this relationship. Meep is willing to go the extra mile and make sacrifices without complaining, for the benefit of Hiim and the relationship. Hiim is encouraging and supportive of Meep, inspiring a sense of security and well-being. If the two of you engage in business activities or marry, you will find that you work well together on meeting the problems that arise and you can count on each other to be responsible and trustworthy. There is a deep sense of mutual commitment and dedication that holds your relationship together, even when you go through difficult times together.

Meep's Saturn trine Hiim's Mars orb 2° 5'

You work together extremely well. You are able to focus on tasks, come to an agreement on what needs to be done, and get the job done. This is a tremendous asset for individuals that live together and build a life together because the need to coordinate on tasks, whether they are minor tasks like grocery shopping or major tasks like planning career goals, is a big part of everyone's life. You help each other to be clear about what is really important and how to accomplish your goals. You are able to concentrate and work together in a focused, disciplined, harmonious manner.

Meep's Pluto sextile Hiim's Mercury orb 1° 46'

You enjoy deep, probing conversations with each other. Your conversations are rarely light and superficial - you enjoy digging beneath the surface and you make an excellent research team, investigators - or possibly gossips who cannot resist discussing every one else's business!

Meep's Pluto square Hiim's Mars orb 2° 23'

You inspire, inflame, vitalize, and energize one another and you can accomplish much together, but you can easily become overly zealous, even fanatical, in your pursuits. It is also likely that your objectives will sometimes be different and you will feel at cross-purposes with each other. You often end up in power struggles, being very competitive with each other, and trying to manipulate or dominate one another. Meep, especially, can override or undermine Hiim's efforts.

Sexual attraction is very strong, but as with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving, compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Meep's Sun in Hiim's 7 house
Hiim's Sun in Meep's 12 house
Meep's Moon in Hiim's 9 house
Hiim's Moon in Meep's 1 house
Meep's Mercury in Hiim's 7 house
Hiim's Mercury in Meep's 11 house
Meep's Venus in Hiim's 7 house
Hiim's Venus in Meep's 10 house
Meep's Mars in Hiim's 5 house
Hiim's Mars in Meep's 12 house
Meep's Jupiter in Hiim's 7 house and
Hiim's Jupiter in Meep's 7 house
Meep's Saturn in Hiim's 8 house
Hiim's Saturn in Meep's 7 house
Meep's Uranus in Hiim's 10 house
Hiim's Uranus in Meep's 9 house
Meep's Neptune in Hiim's 11 house and
Hiim's Neptune in Meep's 11 house
Meep's Pluto in Hiim's 9 house
Hiim's Pluto in Meep's 8 house

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Meep's Sun opposition Hiim's Moon orb 3°31'
Meep's Mercury opposition Hiim's Moon orb 4°33'
Meep's Venus opposition Hiim's Moon orb 3° 27'
Meep's Uranus sextile Hiim's Mars orb 2°34'
Meep's Uranus sextile Hiim's Saturn orb 3°1'
Meep's Neptune square Hiim's Saturn orb 4°3'
Meep's Pluto sextile Hiim's Neptune orb 2°4'




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mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2012 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see this relationship as having the potential to be pretty important. You'll get really attached to each other and it might last for quite a while.

The moon square saturn find be a damper at times, but the composite has nice aspects.

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posted December 19, 2012 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you mintgirl, here's hoping...

*bump* for RunAroundScreaming...

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posted December 20, 2012 02:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey! I'm here. Ok well, ooh those are some nice synastry aspects! very nice, especially sun conjunct jupiter. That means things will probably end well! That's good! In composite there's a sun-mercury-pluto stellium and moon is conjunct neptune and sextile pluto. That means that it will be transforming for both of you, especially there being moon sextile pluto means you will get very close to each other. Unfortunately, it's not real love, so I don't see it lasting. You are always patient with each other and there for each other with sun trine saturn in synastry, but since there is no sun-venus in composite it isn't real love and I'm sorry to say it probably will not last.

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posted December 21, 2012 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He is great and we are lusting over each other right now but, I think, underneath the physical, we have a wonderful friendship. We laugh nonstop and we can actually talk to each other, we seem to genuinely like each other. We don't have what I have had in the past, which is the immediate talk of love, marriage and kids only to burn out a month in. It is actually very similar to the relationship I had with my favorite ex, he was my best friend and it ended well but in the end I needed more sparks. I regret that, because now I understand that stability is more important than a quickly fading spark. I mean, I definitely have/had sparks with both guys in the beginning but it was combined with fun, humor, conversation and, most importantly, reality...

I notice that my guy's Moon is conjunct my ascendant in Aquarius, which is interesting. We actually have similar dispositions and outlooks and we are both really smart, only, I am truly warm inside whereas his warmth remains to be seen. Not that this is a bad thing, he is warming to me but not with the general public and I like that...

There is also a lot of Jupiter action in our synastry and composite. I think that is where the friendliness and humor comes in.

In the composite, the ruler of the 7th house (Moon) is in the 11th house and the ruler of the 11th (Jupiter) is in the 7th house and they are trine. The ruler of the 5th and 8th (Mercury) sextiles them both from the 8th house, so perhaps this is the "sexy friendship" vibe?

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posted December 22, 2012 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah. You're right about the jupiter in synastry meaning good times together. With comp moon trine jupiter its also easy to laugh

Sun conjunct or trine jupiter in synastry is one of my favorite aspects because it gives soooo much chemistry!

moon conjunct/opp or square jupiter in synastry or composite is also awesome for tons of laughs practically all the time.
but my favorite is def still sun trine or conjunct jupiter in synastry. It just feels more bonded.

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posted January 04, 2013 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone work with asteroids in the composite? I put in some love ones and our names, what do you think? I am noticing Valentine conjunct Venus (orb 0), Eros conjunct Psyche (orb 0 - in the 12th , uh-oh), Sun conjunct Cupido (orb 1) and Juno opp Pluto (orb 0). Our names are orb 3 but I thought it was interesting enough to mention...

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posted January 16, 2013 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bumpin' for asteroid action...

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