posted December 20, 2012 06:59 AM
Hello, I am curious as to where you got the report from, which website and what title was it under, because at first you mention cafe astrology, then the link itself is astro.com. If you could point me in the right direction that would be awesome, thank you.Well right off the bat, the first thing that stands out to me, is that both of you have very different planet placements. Also, your Ascendants and hence each other house are quincunx/inconjunct each other, 150 degrees apart. I notice that there is possibly a somewhat large age gap, more than 7 maybe 10 years?
Positives are that your mercuries are in opposition, although sometimes it may feel like you're both saying different things, there is a point at which you can meet, and conversation is probably quite stimulating.
With Mars being sextile one another, there shouldn't really be too much disagreement in self expression of will, you won't be clashing over how you express yourselves physically and you'll probably each appreciate and enjoy each other's expression.
I am a more visual orientated person so a circular chart is easier for me to distinguish details. Although the orbs are wide, your Venus and his mars are trine by sign, which is generally considered a good flow.
His Mercury opposite your Moon may lead to some friction when it comes to emotional matters and maybe he doesn't necessarily treat them as carefully as you'd like, or he may struggle a little to understand. Again it can lead to growth between you both, as you teach other.
Along your personal planets, you are very mutable and he is very cardinal. Which suggests that he may take the lead more often, and you are relatively willing to follow. He may help you to be more active and start or do more things in your life. Whilst you may help him to look at a few more options, think about different options or possibilities before charging off to get it done.
I would imagine that what you find pleasant about him is the way he talks and thinks in particular, his mental expression, and that he is relatively forthright and honest with his emotional expression.
I would imagine that he finds the way you express yourself physically to be very pleasant and also appreciates the emotional security you can provide, although he may get frustrated that it takes you time emotionally to get into it. You just want to be secure emotionally, and if you do, he'll appreciate it very much. It may be a point of friction that he may feel you're a little distant emotionally sometimes and want you to be a little more expressive and clear cut. But it may just take you time.
There is a lot more going on, you both have positive Sun-Moon aspects, yours is sextile his moon, his is trine your sun. This is positive and will help make an understanding of who you are easier for you both. Although this is more of an inherent understanding. It will still require work and patience but there is an underlying attraction from the moon person in each case to the Sun person.
Your Moon is trine his mars, which suggests he might stimulate you emotionally and you stimulate him physically. He may very well help and encourage you to be more emotionally expressive of your wishes and needs. And you can help him and enjoy the way he expresses himself physically.
Your moon is also trine his Saturn, so he although sometimes it may feel heavy, burdensome, or a little opressive. He does have your interests at heart. He may help you to be a little more practical and realistic when it comes to emotions and help you both to feel more secure in the relationship, as it is easy enough to work with one another.
Overall, and in short, I would say that you probably provide a lot of stimulation for each other, and that you may find each other pretty interesting. Some of your ideals and goals in life will be similar, although you have somewhat different approaches which you can appreciate in each other.
Although your charts are very different, if you work together, you can help each other grow, though there may be friction at times.
With all the planets aspecting your neptune and Pluto, just be careful that you are both honest with each other about where you are, what you want, and where you are heading. Neptune is ruler of illusions, so try to be honest with each other, understand the illusions and how they compare with reality. With Pluto, people generally associate with power struggles, I associate it with transformation, growth, and discovery. So there may be a lot of that. Since both planets lie outside the realms of known, beyond Saturn. Their influences bring change, and can be very unwelcome, we all have strong defense mechanisms for preventing change. But if you approach it carefully it can be a very positive development.
These are just my thoughts and opinions.
- Chris
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