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meyray
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posted December 22, 2012 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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hannaramaa
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posted December 22, 2012 07:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The reason they have you use photobucket is because the links tend to expire when we just paste them from a previous webpage. I uploaded your chart to my photobucket album instead so that wouldn't happen:

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posted December 22, 2012 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
The reason they have you use photobucket is because the links tend to expire when we just paste them from a previous webpage. I uploaded your chart to my photobucket album instead so that wouldn't happen:


Thank you so much! I really appreciate it! <3

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posted December 22, 2012 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
your chart is interesting, with all those planets clustered together in scorpio, 6H. they are mainly conjunct, so you're obviously in tune with yourself and your desires, and would strike me as the type to mean what you say and act how you feel. amazingly intense and passionate too, i would assume. you mentioned being young, so i think the fears of commitment and losing interest will go away when you meet someone compatible. somehow, when we meet a compatible person we are able to stay interested and that fear does go away, no matter how much we like singlehood.

if i were you i'd start looking for guys with major placements (sun/venus) in water signs, maybe not scorpio since you have so much yourself, but i think a partner with a lot of water would be good. i could also see a leo moon or leo venus being a great compliment for you - you have so little of that energy in your chart and yet your mars is in leo. i'd look for someone who has a chart that is more well-balanced than yours, with placements in various areas and signs; if their chart is also clustered around the 5/6/7 houses or in a particular sign it wouldn't work. i think i would also stay away from air signs - like gemini, libra, aqua for certain. although you have a libra mercury and gemini asc. it's hiding your true nature, which is very scorpio/intense. you might, because of the gemini placement be attracting guys who see you as more talkative/outgoing/carefree than you truly are. just opinions :-)

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posted December 22, 2012 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Find someone with either Virgo and Libra placements or a Pisces who has Aries placements. The Aries complements the Scorpio too ( there are alot of Aries, scorp couples as both share the same ruler and therefore have similarities).

And I don't suggest you finding a Leo moon or Venus; that's just going to square all your main planets as well as aggravate that mars (moon near the mars leads to emotional blowups andalot of easily hurt feelings). You guys will clash and it won't be pretty.

Moon square moon and moon square Venus is especially hard to handle.

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posted December 22, 2012 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually, I think you'll go well with a heavy Virgo person who has one or two main planets in Libra, the sextile to Scorpio and Leo by sign will ensure less conflict. Either that or the Pisces and Aries will be better than finding a Cancer Leo person. If they also have a cancer rising, that will be perfect, your planets will trine by sign and your rising will trine their libra.

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posted December 22, 2012 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Find someone with either Virgo and Libra placements or a Pisces who has Aries placements. The Aries complements the Scorpio too ( there are alot of Aries, scorp couples as both share the same ruler and therefore have similarities).

And I don't suggest you finding a Leo moon or Venus; that's just going to square all your main planets as well as aggravate that mars (moon near the mars leads to emotional blowups andalot of easily hurt feelings). You guys will clash and it won't be pretty.

Moon square moon and moon square Venus is especially hard to handle.


try a leo moon or venus person and try a person with virgo placements and report back, i'd be interested in knowing how it went! squares bring a lot of attraction, one of the things you're wanting, and virgos will be a snoozefest for you - they are dedicated partners but won't give you the drama and passion you need. if it's all trines and sextiles it's too easy - take a look at the charts of your past partners and see how they activated your chart. you might find that too many trines/sextiles are what led to your disinterest in the past. good luck! :-)

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posted December 23, 2012 12:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Squares create alot of friction and conflict over basic communication and the way you express your love and opinions will rub the other the wrong way. I should know. I have dated a few ppl based on my sun (instant connection) but after 3 or so months there's ALWAYS issues that pop up bc my other planets and asc square them. If somebody has a stellium in one sign and you purposely find a person with a moon or Venus squaring that stellium I think it's quite silly.

OP wants compatibility and common ground  NOT conflict all the time.

Moon square Venus and moon square moon are horrible aspects to have, you'll never feel emotionally close to them, all you'll feel is frustration and feeling misunderstood. This is basic astrology. Moon near the mars creates attraction, but there's a load of hurt feelings and fights that end up hurting both sides. I've experience with the moon square moon, they were super clingy while I wasn't and it made me want to run. My parents also have moon conjunct mars double whammy and my God... the fights they have. and that's with them having amazing synastry, the moon near the mars is killer.

Eg of someone heavy in Scorp is Ryan Reynolds, he married Blake Lively who is all Virgo.

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posted December 23, 2012 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And Virgos are passionate too, you just need to get passed the layers, they just need to trust you. Of course they won't shower you with emotion if you aren't close to them, they don't work like that.

I reckon you should find a cancer rising because then their planets would fall in 3rd and 4th house, so it will resonate with your Gemini energy.

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posted December 23, 2012 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
your chart is interesting, with all those planets clustered together in scorpio, 6H. they are mainly conjunct, so you're obviously in tune with yourself and your desires, and would strike me as the type to mean what you say and act how you feel. amazingly intense and passionate too, i would assume. you mentioned being young, so i think the fears of commitment and losing interest will go away when you meet someone compatible. somehow, when we meet a compatible person we are able to stay interested and that fear does go away, no matter how much we like singlehood.

if i were you i'd start looking for guys with major placements (sun/venus) in water signs, maybe not scorpio since you have so much yourself, but i think a partner with a lot of water would be good. i could also see a leo moon or leo venus being a great compliment for you - you have so little of that energy in your chart and yet your mars is in leo. i'd look for someone who has a chart that is more well-balanced than yours, with placements in various areas and signs; if their chart is also clustered around the 5/6/7 houses or in a particular sign it wouldn't work. i think i would also stay away from air signs - like gemini, libra, aqua for certain. although you have a libra mercury and gemini asc. it's hiding your true nature, which is very scorpio/intense. you might, because of the gemini placement be attracting guys who see you as more talkative/outgoing/carefree than you truly are. just opinions :-)


This is very informative feedback. Thank you so much for commenting.

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posted December 23, 2012 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
try a leo moon or venus person and try a person with virgo placements and report back, i'd be interested in knowing how it went! squares bring a lot of attraction, one of the things you're wanting, and virgos will be a snoozefest for you - they are dedicated partners but won't give you the drama and passion you need. if it's all trines and sextiles it's too easy - take a look at the charts of your past partners and see how they activated your chart. you might find that too many trines/sextiles are what led to your disinterest in the past. good luck! :-)

My current partner (the one I'm disinterested in) has two placements in Virgo but they're both on the cusp - one is the Sun (29°12' degrees) and the other is Venus (0°44' degrees). Other than that he has a very strong Libra influence and a Sagittarius Moon. He has that typical Libra charm and sweetness but I find him a bit insincere. I don't think he understands me at all despite his sugar-coated attitude and words. This is partly why I'm losing interest.

My last boyfriend with whom I had a very long and volatile relationship was as follows:
Sagittarius Sun
Capricorn Moon
Scorpio Venus
Leo Mars

It was hard to end it and I still have scars from that. That's why I may be freaking out at the moment. But despite the storms we endured I felt emotionally secure with him and we had a degree of intimacy which I feel is impossible to achieve with the new guy.

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posted December 23, 2012 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Find someone with either Virgo and Libra placements or a Pisces who has Aries placements. The Aries complements the Scorpio too ( there are alot of Aries, scorp couples as both share the same ruler and therefore have similarities).

And I don't suggest you finding a Leo moon or Venus; that's just going to square all your main planets as well as aggravate that mars (moon near the mars leads to emotional blowups andalot of easily hurt feelings). You guys will clash and it won't be pretty.

Moon square moon and moon square Venus is especially hard to handle.


Thank you for the advice. My current partner has Virgo and Libra influence (Libra outweighing the Virgo) but I don't think it's going to work... Although he's sweet I find him a bit vapid. I don't think he'll able to understand me or satisfy my emotional needs. The Pisces/Aries is an interesting idea.

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posted December 23, 2012 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think your partner is flakey bc of the sag moon...Lol. You're heavy in Scorpio, Sag moons are not a good match with a Scorpio stellium person.

It's like an aqua moon getting with a cancer moon, the aqua moon will feel suffocated and stifled.

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posted December 23, 2012 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And your volatile relationship had bonding bc of the Scorpio and Cap aspect which conjunct and sextile your stellium (by sign) so it wasn't the Leo aspect that created the closeness. Capricorn moons go well with Scorpio as they're pretty reserved too and are emotionally deeper than sag moons in general.

It was however volatile bc their mars in Leo was squaring your stellium and thus caused alot of easy aggravation, as I did mention earlier,

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posted December 23, 2012 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Be careful when choosing virgo for a partner as u have chiron in virgo. I'm referring to a conjunction of course - meaning ones with planets in virgo around the same degrees of ur chiron. U have it in ur 5h house too...the house of short term flings and romance.

A saggi moon will prolly lack the emotional depth ur scorpio moon requires. I had it bad for a guy earlier this yr and he had sag moon - which squared my sun and venus. Wasn't fulfilling for me. I wasn't satisfied on an emotional level.

I would suggest paying close attention to the moon sign next time around. Trines between ur moon and their moon are good for emotional compatibility.

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posted December 24, 2012 03:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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