posted December 28, 2012 04:26 PM            

This feels like it comes out of no where and for no reason. I've (unwantedly) ended relationships (friendly and intimate) because the suspicions drove us apart.

What about Pluto-Chiron inconjunct? That actually makes a lot of sense now that I look at it.

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And Venus is aspected the same.

posted December 28, 2012 04:30 PM            

Moon and uranus creates need for 'breathing' space lol, it doesn't create trust issues.

posted December 28, 2012 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
It's usually hard aspects to saturn that creates distrust, but since you have the trine at one degree, the effect will be more strongly felt.

Moon and uranus creates need for 'breathing' space lol, it doesn't create trust issues.

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More strongly felt as a trine because it's almost exact.

It doesn't make sense that it would be harsh because it's so close to exactly trine. What's the point of differentiating between the beneficial/malefic aspects if they are felt the same?

I don't think it's Venus-Saturn, but you may have a point with Saturn.

posted December 28, 2012 08:09 PM            

Saturn is generational in Sag and I have the opposition, alot of people have it too. It's not that. It's definitely the Venus Saturn. Saturn aspecting Venus makes one more 'sober' and cautious when it comes to love, hence they're more untrusting.

Nevermind, just google aspects and see what comes up.

posted December 29, 2012 03:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Saturn is generational in Sag and I have the opposition, alot of people have it too. It's not that. It's definitely the Venus Saturn. Saturn aspecting Venus makes one more 'sober' and cautious when it comes to love, hence they're more untrusting.

Nevermind, just google aspects and see what comes up.

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I was thinking about the houses that my Saturn-Jupiter square falls in, more than the aspect by itself.

I have googled venus/saturn, many times because I'm a little forgetful, and it always had to do with how people with these aspects felt about their appearance. How we make (or don't make) money and how it could be restrictive in love relationships. I thought it was all "timing" and "maturity" where Saturn is involved. Or how the delays of Saturn in relationships can make people with aspects to their Venus feel unlovable. But I can see how being cautious could turn into untrusting over time. Especially if even after being cautious you still get hurt

Could it take that long for Saturn to dig at a relationship? Two of the most prevalent people were a 2 year friendship and a 5 year relationship. I always thought it would just prevent me from starting the relationship if I didn't trust somebody. I give it or deny it fairly shortly after meeting somebody on a pretty standard basis.

Although, to be fair, the 5 year b/f was doing me dirty. Quite dirty actually, so my suspiscions were right in that instance. I may never know if I was right about the friend or not. Other people of lesser consequence were friends for anywhere from 1-6 years. My initial response was to get to know them and I liked them, but I evenutally started feeling like they were always lying to me. Unlike with the other two I didn't feel such a need to "investigate" my suspicions though. I cut them off when I realized I couldn't/didn't believe a word out of their mouths...For no real apparent reason.

It doesn't happen in ALL my friendships/relationships, but definitely a good lot of them. I make a lot of fast friends and aquaintances now because I don't like doing that to people.