posted December 28, 2012 04:33 PM            

Happy Holidays to all of you

I'm here to ask you for help: me and my significant other have separated 2 month ago (tomorrow will be exactly 2 month). We were together for 6 years. Things got completely out of control for the lack of a better word, we grew apart ( I was busy with school he was busy with work) and ended up separated, he's in a different state now, probably even has a new girlfriend, but today I saw him in my dream (which happens quite often and we both have our natal moons in the 12th house) and decided to do a reading for the question of whether or not we will reconcile. I'm deeply wounded about the way everything has worked out, we were so strong and full of life together. Everything that has happened has taught me many lessons, first and foremost how to be more caring and loving, how to not take each other for granted and be more considerate of our faults and weaknesses. I hope that maybe with your help I might be able to answer the questions I still have and hopefully find some peace in this new upcoming year.

and here is the chart

posted December 28, 2012 04:53 PM            

I'm no expert, but decided to try giving an interpretation of your chart anyway.. maybe someone else will chime in if I've made an incorrect statement, or to offer more insight.

Here is what I see: You're mercury placed in the 7th (his house), which signifies that you are still much in love with him like you said.. with you placed here though, it can also signify that you are the more eager of the two. His co-significator, the sun, is also placed in the 7th house, so this to me signifies that he is more focused on himself at the moment.
Your co-significator, moon, is placed in your first house..so have you been focusing on getting yourself in order too? Sun has a separating opposition to moon, so I think this signifies the break-up in the past.

His actual significator, jupiter, is placed in 12th house gemini alone, so I would think that he isn't dating anyone else.. but I'm not 100% on this.
Also, your significators are in mutual reception, which is a good sign in itself.. but you aren't aspecting each other and are both in detriment, so I would have to conclude that the answer for now is a 'no'. :-/
I wish that I had a more optimistic reading to offer you, but that's all I can see for now.. best of luck to you!

posted December 28, 2012 09:50 PM            

This is what moon being void is trying to tell you. Read more here: http://starlightknight.wordpress.com/2011/10/12/horary-technique-void-of-course-moon

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Originally posted by flower:
Thank you Empress, but may I ask you what do you mean by saying that the moon is void?

There might be little hope left with the VOC, but no applying aspects between significators still says it's not the right time yet..

"There is, of course, one exception to the Void rule. Lilly shares with us that the Moon is much less impeded when she is in Cancer, Taurus, Sagittarius, or Pisces and may be able to continue on the influences by her own gumption in those signs through the blessings of the benefics Jupiter and Venus. Essentially, the Moon cannot be Void in those signs, but merely “technically Void”. The difference is that a Void Moon in these signs does not show an absolute loss of momentum, but merely a quiet period in the horary until the issue is continued later. Below is an example of a technically Void Moon. The Moon’s last aspect was a Sextile to Jupiter, but she has since moved out of orb of the separation and is not within orb of anything at this time. All in all, a very lethargic, dead horse type horary showing no movement. However, because of the Moon’s placement in Pisces, she is able to continue through and apply a Trine to Mars in Leo."

Do you think based on this chart, that now should be a good time to approach him?
This relationship means so much to me that making a decision of moving on will be the most difficult one of my whole life.

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