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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Reposting this since I put it in the wrong section before:

Hi, I recently fell in love with a Pisces sun woman (I'm a Scorpio sun man) and paid for a full chart reading. Even though the chart had been interpreted by the site already, I wanted to get a personal opinion from anyone more familiar with astrology. I want to know if she's someone I can confide and love unconditionally, or are we doomed to another heartache?

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birdy
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posted January 07, 2013 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're way less likely to get serious responses without posting the charts.

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for letting me know, I'm still new here so idk.

Working on it.

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birdy
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posted January 07, 2013 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No problem. Let me know if you need some assistance with figuring it out. I will try to add some thoughts to your question as well once it's posted.

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey so I found this one, the reading I had order didn't come with the graphic. Umm, do you have any recommendations for a better one or does this work?

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birdy
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posted January 07, 2013 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Most people use Astro.com's charts.

Heres a good link on how to do it: http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ubbmisc.cgi?action=getannounce&ForumNumber=11&Start=2455736.99&End=2459389&Session=


HOW TO GET YOUR CHART
1. Go to www.astro.com . You can create a free account or enter your birth data as a guest; however, creating an account will allow you to save your information – great for trying the different charts both for yourself and for others in your life. If you don’t know the exact time of your birth, do your best to find out – it *is* important.
2. Go to “Free Horoscopes” and then to “Extended Chart Selection.”
3. “Natal Chart Wheel” is the default, but you will need to go to “House System” (under “Options” use the drop-down to change to “equal”).
4. Click on “Click here to show the Chart,” then click on the chart which will appear.
5. Right-click and save the chart to your desktop.
HOW TO UPLOAD YOUR CHART
1. Create a free account at www.photobucket.com .
2. Select “Upload Now” which will bring up “Select Photos and Videos.”
3. Navigate to your desktop and select.
4. On right, click “Save and continue to my album.”
5. When you hover the mouse pointer over the chart, you will see that a box appears with a few options. If you need to edit out your name or anything else you don’t feel comfortable sharing on the boards, “edit” is in the top band of options. Select “edit” which opens your chart and provides editing options. Go to the tab “Decorate,” and you will see a number of icons, one of which is an eraser. Erase what you need to, and click “Replace original.”
6. Saving should take you to a new screen where you can see your chart and to the right, a bank of options to “Share this photo.” Click on the IMG code, which will flash and let you know that you’ve copied the link.
7. Go to your thread, open a new post and paste your link.
8. Don’t move or delete your chart from Photobucket, because the link only goes to where the chart was saved!

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Which composite chart should I do? Or should I do the relationship chart?

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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birdy
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posted January 07, 2013 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont see this as a long term relationship to be honest with you. I think she isn't as interested as you are. Theres a psychological effect you might have on her that she doesn't understand. You might remind her of a father figure or someone from her past that hurt her emotionally. The interest is mainly one sided.

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, thanks. She has mentioned that I somewhat remind of her of an ex of hers (which ended terribly), and she's hesitant to trust me fully because she's afraid I'll turn into him (he's a Leo).

She has mentioned that she loves me, but goes from periods of extreme affection to cold distantness. Recently, the periods of emotional coldness have been fewer and far in between.

If I wanted to keep her, do you have any advice on what I should do?

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Haplesschild*
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posted January 07, 2013 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have Mercury conjunct Saturn in composite which suggests restrictions in communications and feeling the need to hold back. Also you might be too serious together and find it hard to lighten up at times.
Moon opposition Uranus suggests erratic interactions and instability. Your relationship blows alittle hot n cold really often and won't be stable.

The composite is actually pretty bad...So this relationship looks to be a short one sorry.

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birdy
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posted January 07, 2013 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
drik- I dont think you should find ways to "keep" her. You need to be able to be yourself in a relationship. It doesn't show a relationship where she appreciates you. You guys are on different pages. It would be easy for you to be what she wanted but that would grow resentment, IMO. She is wounded from her past, and although you might heal her sometimes, it drains you.

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Haplesschild*
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posted January 07, 2013 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How long have u been together,when did she break up with him? Do you feel she's actually emotionally unavailable?
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Originally posted by drikkz:
Ok, thanks. She has mentioned that I somewhat remind of her of an ex of hers (which ended terribly), and she's hesitant to trust me fully because she's afraid I'll turn into him (he's a Leo).

She has mentioned that she loves me, but goes from periods of extreme affection to cold distantness. Recently, the periods of emotional coldness have been fewer and far in between.

If I wanted to keep her, do you have any advice on what I should do?


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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Weve known each other for a couple years, although there was a period of time where we did not talk. Our relationship has always been long distance, thats how i met her. We actually met through her ex boyfriend. About a couple months ago she contacted me in regards to her boyfriend, who was struggling and needed my help with something. She talked to me since he was unavailable. We started to talk more and she opened up to me about the abuse she suffered with him. Anyway they broke up about 3-4 months ago after being together since she was a teenager. I consoled her, and throught that i became very interested in her. As a pisces she picked up on that immediately, although i didnt know this until later. About a month ago it became very clear that she felt the same about me, and after a fight on new years we confessed to each other how we felt. Since then we have talked nonstop through the night for days, until recently i set some boundaries so we could get our personal lives in check. We feel a strong magnetic connection, and even though she felt compelled at first to her love for her ex she has been increasingly stronger in her desire to break free from him. We did their chart on the same website and although their level of communication was superior, ours was far greater in sexual and romantic attraction and high achievement. However she is hesitant to commit because she feels i am coming on too strong, although she admits she feels the same about me just as strong. I just feel that she and have this connection i cant explain, even though we are a city apart we can feel each others emotion without speaking.

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Haplesschild*
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posted January 07, 2013 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you met her? I feel she probably shouldn't have been confiding in you about relationship problems back then. That was dodgy.I think she REALLY needs to take at least a year to heal and get to know herself better. She shouldn't jump into another relationship straight away (ESP after a long one) it's like she's running away. I feel she's definitely rebounding and you should break up before you get hurt. She says she 'loves' you but they're only words, she's actually really emotionally unavailable right now, hence being hot and cold. In the past I blew hot and co,d, and even though my relationship was alot longer than yours and I didn't love the guy, I knew I wasn't fully into it. I feel that's how she is too. I dumped the guy after because I felt like he deserved somebody fully present, I wish she could think about your feelings too.

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're right, and she's mentioned that before. I really like this girl, so if we do just stay friends is there a chance it will work in after she's healed?

I'm taking this advice to heart, but it's not easy since I feel so strongly attracted to her.

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Haplesschild*
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posted January 07, 2013 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wait at least a year. I think she won't completely heal for at least '18-24 months. They had a long relationship and he was abusive (emotionally and verbally I assume?) a year won't be enough to get rid of all the bad feelings. You shouldn't wait for her though, go date others and live your life. Don't be her crutch.

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, I def will.

It's too bad though, since Pisces are rare and we have such a magnetic connection.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 07, 2013 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can u copy n paste the compatibility for lovers report from grupovenus.com also? thanks!

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drikkz
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posted January 07, 2013 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for drikkz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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