posted January 07, 2013 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:

Hey Venia
How are you?? Hope all's well. Realise I've missed this thread but wondered if you fancy a little reading exchange if you're not all tarot'd out?! Please feel free to decline if you're too busy/tired.
Xx

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Hey seeker Glad to hear from you! I'm ok... struggling again
How are you??? Happy New Year, btw!
I opened a new thread so we don't get mixed up with the other one. Hope you don't mind.
You are ALWAYS welcome to ask for a reading, dear seeker! Anytime!
What is your question???

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posted January 07, 2013 02:34 PM            

Thank you so much for doing this and likewise!! You're always welcome to one! Well my question is what is the best course of action for me where KL is concerned? Just to fill you in a little KL is a female friend of my boyfriend. She's becoming a little difficult to deal with and I feel uncomfortable. I don't want to cause problems or make Mic feel torn in two so I'm trying to be accommodating but she's a wee bit too demanding for my liking. Anyway will see what the cards advise

posted January 07, 2013 02:46 PM            

Well, what could I ask?! Everything in my life is unstable. Maybe what could I expect the next couple of months?
Thank you in advance, dear

Talk later,

xxx

posted January 07, 2013 03:24 PM            

Here's what I got...

'What is the best course of action for Sara where KL is concerned?'

The Ace of Wands, the Five of Swords, the King of Pentacles
I feel that the first card advises you to keep being who you are and above all passionate about your relationship with M. Live it, show it and don't pay attention to people that are basically of no use or help... Because, KL, apparently feels and is defeated. She thinks she lost her friend or the friendship she used to have with your boyfriend.
Does your boyfriend is of an Earth sign or has he strong earth placements? He has traits of the King of Pentacles, either physical or personality wise.

'What should you know about KL.'

The Fool, Page of Swords, Ace of Cups
Is she single, by the way? Cause I see her being and feeling alone and, actually, feeling jealous and neglected and that is the reason that she tries to ask favours or spend more time with you guys. She is of no harm, though... I mean that I don't see her having special feelings for your M - it is indeed friendship with an extra dose of selfishness!
She will be meeting someone soon or re-enter an old relationship and then she will finally leave you alone! lol!

'What the Universe advises.'

The Knight of Wands, the Two of Pentacles, the Ace of Cups
Be spontaneous and maybe try to be her friend, in order to reach the required balance. Have you tried approaching her as you would do to a female friend? Live your love! Don't leave that behind for non important things
Maybe I don't really know the situation with KL and what I am saying I hope that it is not insulting you. Pulled another card for clarification - the High Priestess. So, no worries! Follow your heart and what your inner voice says and have faith!

I don't know if it makes sense at all - if I am off, please tell me! And I'll go deeper into this

I also wanted to add a little extra for 2013
'What is the highlight for you this year?'

The Knight of Pentacles, the Ace of Pentacles, the Six of Cups
This year is the year of a committed relationship. In the following few months your relationship will get stronger, more balanced and committed. Unexpected news, though, from an old love is on the cards... He will surprise you and you might won't know what to do.

posted January 07, 2013 03:32 PM            

January

Love - The Hierophant
Career+Finance - The Universe
General Well Being - 4 of Pentacles

Well! Clearly love and career/money are going to be big themes for you this month hun!! With the love angle I'm getting the feeling you'll be likely to meet someone through a formal gathering of some kind; I'm actually thinking it'll be through your business dealings, at a meeting or a conference etc. I think it'll be a very different choice for you; as though it's someone you never thought you'd consider because of the formality of the situation, but if such a person appears I'd be patient and go with it. Slowly and carefully and of course with this card, 'traditionally.'
In terms of career/finance then literally the world is opening up for you. In fact with the two cards being next to each other I'd even say there's the possibility of meeting someone through a new job opportunity. Either way the job will certainly be a success with this card guiding you. Promotion, rewards, financial stability etc. They're all indicated here.
In terms of general well being this month then I'd say you're being pretty guarded and almost hoarding any good fortune you encounter so as to preserve it for a 'rainy day.' I can't see you being ostentatious at all (you just don't strike me as someone who could be!) but this card I suppose just warns you against getting showy with that wealth that the Universe card speaks of. Stop flaunting it haha!!

February

Love - Judgement
Career+Finance - 9 of Swords
General Well being - The Star

So ok there's the new relationship prospect or perhaps even the prospect of a new relationship will come from heeding this 'call to a new life.' Be open I think is the message of this card. Listen and look out for where the Universe is offering you opportunities and take them.
Then there's a bit of a lack of confidence and some concern with your career/finance but it's all just worries with no basis in reality. Trust in the facts and don't fear anything - you have the ability in spades!
As for general well being Feb's a great month for you!! Filled with hope and positivity. So bring it on!!!

posted January 07, 2013 03:49 PM            

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Is she single, by the way? Cause I see her being and feeling alone and, actually, feeling jealous and neglected and that is the reason that she tries to ask favours or spend more time with you guys. She is of no harm, though... I mean that I don't see her having special feelings for your M - it is indeed friendship with an extra dose of selfishness!

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And what you said about her feeling defeated having lost her friendship rings very true! From what I've gleaned (I've not met her yet despite having arranged to and then she bailed) from speaking to her on FB and via Mic she appears to be someone who likes the attention she gets from men but has no inclination to enter into a relationship. It's all just attention seeking. And of course a large chunk of that attention has been taken away (they were best friends and spent quite a lot of time together) and so she's throwing her toys out of the pram!

Mic had done lots of favours for her (he's currently teaching her son to play the guitar for example) but he says when he looks back over the friendship, she's used him quite a bit. For example if he suggested going out for an evening she would only go if there was something in it for her (his other male friends to flirt with) and then she'd cancel plans on him to go out with other friends of hers. She actually said to him the other day via text that he's spending too much time over with me and she feels she's not as important anymore!!! He reminded her that I'm his girlfriend and that whilst the friendship is important to him, obviously things are going to change as a result of his relationship with me. All of sudden when she remembered he was due to give her son his next guitar lesson, she was all sweetness and light to him again. He sees it and he's very hurt to be honest. When he first told her about me she disappeared for about 3 weeks and wouldn't speak to him. I was really uneasy feeling like I'd walked into the middle of something as you can imagine and when she finally got in touch with him (funnily enough to ask if he'd still give her son the lessons!) I took the opportunity to send her a message on FB to say hi and that I was so glad they'd managed to get their friendship back. She was friendly and has apparently told him that I'm lovely and he's got to make sure he doesn't take me for granted and make this work etc... and then she gets stroppy with him for apparently not paying HER enough attention! Odd.

When we arranged to all meet she cried off and then told him after she would have come "if it had been something important." Well it was important to him so again, selfish and actually very rude.

I wouldn't dream of saying I don't want her around because he's every right to be friends with whoever he chooses. But I hate it if I'm honest. Makes me truly uncomfortable especially now she's gone off the deep end about feeling snubbed.

Anyway thank you so much for doing that hun!!! It's a brilliant reading and I feel it's very accurate. I really hope she meets someone and is happy... and gets the hell out of our lives! ;D I don't want to wish her ill and ideally I'd like them to have their friendship. But not at the expense of my relationship with him!

I wonder if I can be cheeky and ask you to do one more and see if there's any indication of he and I living together or making some kind of commitment please hun? It's been planned for some time but not actually taken the plunge yet and I'm starting to wonder.

posted February 04, 2013 09:44 AM            

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This year is the year of a committed relationship. In the following few months your relationship will get stronger, more balanced and committed. Unexpected news, though, from an old love is on the cards... He will surprise you and you might won't know what to do.

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Hi Venia
How are you hun?? Hope good things have been happening for you and you're well.

I just wanted to give a tiny update because your readings are always spot on and this is just proof!! Re the quote above an ex of mine got in touch just before Xmas - all very innocent and above board at first. He lives overseas and was going to be back in the country for a couple of weeks and suggested catching up over dinner. He knows about Mic so he knew i was in a relationship. Nice time with plenty of laughs about the old days but I thought nothing more about it. Anyway, about a week after he flew home he sent me a message on FB and made a whopping play for me!! I was taken aback and politely but firmly refused. So that's hit number one.

Hit number two (and I'm not 100% sure if I'm right about this) is that KL does (as you said she would) seem to have backed off a great deal!! Not sure if she's found someone or gone back with her ex but she's certainly not contacting half as much as before.

posted February 04, 2013 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:

Hi Venia
How are you hun?? Hope good things have been happening for you and you're well.

I just wanted to give a tiny update because your readings are always spot on and this is just proof!! Re the quote above an ex of mine got in touch just before Xmas - all very innocent and above board at first. He lives overseas and was going to be back in the country for a couple of weeks and suggested catching up over dinner. He knows about Mic so he knew i was in a relationship. Nice time with plenty of laughs about the old days but I thought nothing more about it. Anyway, about a week after he flew home he sent me a message on FB and made a whopping play for me!! I was taken aback and politely but firmly refused. So that's hit number one.

Hit number two (and I'm not 100% sure if I'm right about this) is that KL does (as you said she would) seem to have backed off a great deal!! Not sure if she's found someone or gone back with her ex but she's certainly not contacting half as much as before.

So there we are. You're quite an amazing reader hun and thank you so much for all you do! xx

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Hello S

Nice to hear from you! I'm ok... Keeping thinking positive - not much happening yet, though. Thank you so much for your feedback and really nice words - much appreciated! I'm glad that I wasn't off, it means a lot to me!
Hope you're doing well

Be always blessed dear!

V