posted February 02, 2013 06:16 AM
Hey 
yeah I'd appreciate it very much if you could take a look at this. unfortunately his birthtime could only be guessed by Asc, but I'm pretty sure he's Capricorn rising (dark, compact, sort of grounded, chisel-cut face and all)
I suppose I'm mostly curious why we couldnt stop it from falling apart and why he's still in love with me and why I cant forget how beautiful we had it. Just whenever you have the time - and I thank you in advance
and oh he is A and I'm L
and here's the copy-pasted bit from GoV
Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
A's Sun in Aries and L's Sun in Capricorn
Both of you are active, motivated individuals, but A's focus is more on being self-reliant, independent and personally creative, while L likes to follow a well-planned, stable path to success. A feels very constrained and inhibited by social norms, schedules and employers, while L works well where there is a clear hierarchy and social order, such as in a large business, college curriculum, or military pecking order. A's impulsiveness and indifference to social customs clashes with L's conservatism sometimes. But A can also give L sober encouragement, hope, and enthusiasm, and L can help A organize and direct abundant energy.
A's Moon in Pisces and L's Moon in Taurus
Though you have very different emotional natures, you complement and harmonize with one another very well.
A is sensitive, imaginative, sympathetic and emotional, and is often somewhat ungrounded and impractical. L is also a nurturing, sympathetic person, but very well-grounded, solid and reliable - a rock for A to lean on many times. Both of you have a very peace-loving, easygoing, somewhat passive side, and you both seek a tranquil home atmosphere, free from competition and conflict.
You also share a love of the natural world; gardening, plants, and animals. Music is also a shared love or interest of yours.
The two of you are likely to fare best if L takes care of the mundane organization and practical affairs of your household.
Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Sun Mutually Aspects Mercury
Clear communication is a plus that you have going for you in your relationship. You both feel that your partner understands what you say and you have a high degree of compatibility on an intellectual or mental level. You rely on discussion, negotiating, and reason to iron out your differences.
A's Moon conjunct L's Mars orb 1° 30'
There is a dynamic, almost aggressive quality to your relationship. A good outlet for this energy is competitive sports and outdoor activities. You enjoy challenging each other and competing against one another. You also have the ability to accomplish a great deal together and make a dynamic working partnership - as long as you can refrain from arguing with each other. Sexual and physical attraction is also very strong and 'hot'. If your sexual relationship is not satisfactory, you begin arguing with each other; in this relationship, frustrated sexuality turns to anger. Assuming that there are no physical impediments, the potential for becoming pregnant is high, so it is essential to be scrupulous in the use of birth control methods if pregnancy is not desired.
A's Neptune conjunct L's Sun orb 2° 51'
Imagination, fantasy, and idealism are key elements in your relationship. L, in particular, tends to see A in glamorous romanticized terms, and may fail to recognize A's actual character. You both need to ask yourselves: Have I fallen in love with a person or an image? Positively, there is a great deal of sympathy, an intuitive or psychic rapport that enables you to be very sensitive to one another's subtle cues and feelings. You also inspire one another's generosity, charitable impulses, and idealism. Negatively, you can deceive one another and tend to avoid clear, precise, direct communication, which may result in disappointments.
A's Ascendant conjunct L's Sun orb 0° 7'
There is a very warm and vital connection between you, and L, in particular, will be a very influential person in A's life, and at times monopolizes or dominates A's attention. Upon meeting you may have felt that you already knew one another very well. Certainly you have much in common in terms of your attitudes and interests, which makes you both feel very comfortable and close to one another. The more time you spend together, the more your identities merge and you will feel very much a part of one another, a deep mutual dependence upon one another, a very important part of one another's lives.
A's Sun trine L's Mercury orb 2° 58'
The mental rapport that you two share is a big reason why you enjoy each other's company and are good friends. Communication is open and harmonious. You work together very well on practical affairs, daily chores, problem-solving, and business activities.
A's Sun square L's Jupiter orb 1° 13'
Enthusiasm, optimism, and good will are very strong in your relationship. L is able to see ways that A can grow, expand, and develop in material and concrete ways as well as in attitude and inner ways. L, however, may try to push A too hastily and be deceived by unrealistic expectations, resulting in foolish joint speculations and unsuccessful ventures. Try not to let your shared enthusiasm and optimism spawn unrealistic hopes and expectations.
A's Moon trine L's Pluto orb 1° 7'
You have a very deep appreciation for each other's innermost feelings. This is not a superficial relationship. From your first meetings, you found that you could reveal to each other your deepest concerns, fears, and drives. At the least you are close friends. This deep appreciation and rapport is also conducive to a long-lasting marriage.
A's Mercury square L's Sun orb 2° 0'
The two of you do not always see eye-to-eye on issues, and it is very easy for A to become critical of L. Compounding the problem is L's tendency to be very sensitive to criticism from A and consequently react defensively to this criticism. This need not be a serious problem however; a little tolerance for each other's right to disagree and respect for individual differences is all it takes to make personal differences stimulating rather than annoying.
A's Mercury trine L's Uranus orb 0° 26'
Your conversations are spirited and often exhilarating. You spark each other to view situations in a new light and you inspire creative, original, inventive ideas. This relationship inspires creativity and originality, and a fresh attitude towards life - and you should share a very interesting life together.
A's Venus square L's Mars orb 1° 40'
This is likely to be a stormy and fiery relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of you (typically L but sometimes A) may feel sexually aroused by the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as sexually attracted. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely. Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realize how much you love each other until you are away from each other.
A's Mars square L's Pluto orb 0° 19'
You inspire, inflame, vitalize, and energize one another and you can accomplish much together, but you can easily become overly zealous, even fanatical, in your pursuits. It is also likely that your objectives will sometimes be different and you will feel at cross-purposes with each other. You often end up in power struggles, being very competitive with each other, and trying to manipulate or dominate one another. L, especially, can override or undermine A's efforts.
Sexual attraction is very strong, but as with other things, one of you is likely to come on too strong to the other and this may be offensive to your partner. There is a driving, compelling, somewhat impersonal quality to your love-making at times.
A's Jupiter sextile L's Mars orb 0° 52'
You work together very harmoniously and you have a knack for helping each other discover new approaches to problems and new strategies for reaching goals. You are likely to combine energies in a successful business enterprise or creative undertaking.
A's Uranus sextile L's Venus orb 1° 52'
You spark enthusiasm in each other. You enjoy being a little 'crazy' with each other and are inclined to joke and tease each other. Sexual attraction is strong and you are very compatible sexually - you are likely to feel that your partner is a great lover. If you enjoy dancing, music, or some sport that requires agility and gracefulness, then you will love engaging your partner in this activity.
A's Pluto sextile L's Sun orb 1° 21'
A is a profound and positive force in L's life, encouraging, promoting, and challenging L to dig deeper, to bring forth more of L's creativity and talent, to experience life more authentically, directly, and intensely. You have a deep friendship and are able to reveal yourselves quite honestly with one another.
END OF THE SHORT VERSION
The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship
A's Sun in L's 11 house
L's Sun in A's 1 house
A's Moon in L's 10 house
L's Moon in A's 4 house
A's Mercury in L's 11 house and
L's Mercury in A's 11 house
A's Venus in L's 12 house
L's Venus in A's 1 house
A's Mars in L's 9 house
L's Mars in A's 1 house
A's Jupiter in L's 12 house
L's Jupiter in A's 1 house
A's Saturn in L's 7 house
L's Saturn in A's 10 house
A's Uranus in L's 7 house
L's Uranus in A's 11 house
A's Neptune in L's 7 house
L's Neptune in A's 12 house
A's Pluto in L's 6 house
L's Pluto in A's 9 house
A's Mars trine L's Moon orb 4° 10'
A's Jupiter opposition L's Pluto orb 3° 30'
A's Neptune sextile L's Mars orb 3° 8'
A's Pluto trine L's Mars orb 4° 39'
A's Saturn opposition L's Ascendant orb 4° 42'
A's Uranus opposition L's Ascendant orb 3° 10'
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