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Dominista
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posted January 11, 2013 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dominista     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello,

This is my first post. I fell for a guy 2 years ago and kind of distanced myself and we're talking again. I do much of the initiation, but every now and then he starts the convo. He is very very very private, and it's from all the signs in his chart. We enjoy intellectual conversations and debates with each other.

I made the mistake of telling a friend about my feelings. She is now pursuing him, and I believe it to be her Venus in Libra. I want to punch her square in the freaking face.

I confronted him about my feelings. The first time he didn't give me a firm answer and extended an opportunity to meet up with his friends. Second time he said he wasn't interested in anyone currently.

I'm confused. I am a very straightforward person, and very accomplished and intellectual. I want to avoid any drama but at the same time I'm having issues shaking this off. I am now in the "withdrawal and ignore" phase. Do you think there was any solid chemistry in the first place?

Me:
Sun Taurus
Moon Gemini
Mercury in Aries
Venus Cancer
Mars Cancer
ASC Virgo
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Aquarius

Him:
Sun Scorpio
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Capricorn
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn

The Witch:
Sun Sag
Moon Leo
Merc Sag
Venus Libra
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius


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Kerosene
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Registered: Dec 2012

posted January 12, 2013 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcomeeeee
I don't think its really the venus in libra as much as the scorpio in mars placements. They both have them.
You should make a synastry chart for them.
There could be few conjunctions that can make for an intense chemistry.

I do think its wrong what she did, you just stay away from friends love interests!
Did she know him prior to your confession? Maybe she liked him too and decided to go for it before you did... :P

Although you do have a fight chance too! Both your suns oppose each other, also both your venus placements.
Could make for some interesting sexy chemistry, you should make a synastry chart too.
I think you should go for it and burn the witch!!!!
Sometimes you have to fight to get your man hahaha

HAHA You should just write a nasty letter about him and claimed its from her and get your friend to give it to him, I did that in the 6th grade, I don't think it would actually work for adults... I wish it was that easy...

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dadevi
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posted January 13, 2013 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dadevi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you're a straight-forward person, I don't suggest you pursue him. It sounds to me like he's got his eye on someone else entirely. Scorpios are single-minded when it comes to someone they're interested in, and it doesn't seem like he's interested if he wants to hang out with you when his friends are around.

As for your so-called friend, demote her to an aquaintance and seek better company. On the bright side, he'll probably be turned off if she pursues him as well.

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Randall
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posted January 13, 2013 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome! Moving to Personal Readings.

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Londongirl8
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From: London
Registered: Dec 2012

posted January 14, 2013 07:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Londongirl8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by dadevi:
If you're a straight-forward person, I don't suggest you pursue him. It sounds to me like he's got his eye on someone else entirely. Scorpios are single-minded when it comes to someone they're interested in, and it doesn't seem like he's interested if he wants to hang out with you when his friends are around.

As for your so-called friend, demote her to an aquaintance and seek better company. On the bright side, he'll probably be turned off if she pursues him as well.


Good advice - why chase someone who's made it clear he's not interested??? Move on - there's plenty more fish in sea.

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Dominista
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posted January 14, 2013 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dominista     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Actually, the Witch just blocked me from everything.. lol, so I really had to do nothing.

I have resorted to the silent treatment, which I am very good at most of the time... it gave some results, and whenever I distance myself he does try to start conversation.. which makes me feel 50/50.

At the same time, I'm having issues letting go as I am persistent. I also heard that Merc is Scorpio could mean he is not much of a convo starter. Whatever it is, I am almost "done" I just need to find closure as I felt there was really super strong chemistry... it might have been my imagination.

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Dominista
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posted January 14, 2013 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dominista     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Welcomeeeee
I don't think its really the venus in libra as much as the scorpio in mars placements. They both have them.
You should make a synastry chart for them.
There could be few conjunctions that can make for an intense chemistry.

I do think its wrong what she did, you just stay away from friends love interests!
Did she know him prior to your confession? Maybe she liked him too and decided to go for it before you did... :P

Although you do have a fight chance too! Both your suns oppose each other, also both your venus placements.
Could make for some interesting sexy chemistry, you should make a synastry chart too.
I think you should go for it and burn the witch!!!!
Sometimes you have to fight to get your man hahaha

HAHA You should just write a nasty letter about him and claimed its from her and get your friend to give it to him, I did that in the 6th grade, I don't think it would actually work for adults... I wish it was that easy...


Hahaha, the letter idea would've been cool, but I really am not going to sink down to that level. There really is no competition here, and if THAT is being chosen over me... well then, good day...

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Dominista
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posted January 16, 2013 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dominista     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, here is a chart for the witch and him:
http://alturl.com/acupy

And the chart for him and I:
http://alturl.com/z7gjh

From what Cafe Astrology is telling me, the relationship with him is far more positive than the relationship between him and the witch.

I wonder what is the nature of this potential union?

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