posted January 18, 2013 03:54 PM            

Sorry for the indirect topic title, but i could really use some help, trying to analyse my current minor situation.

Before i begin with the story, i am not whatsoever affected by whatever my ex says.

Here we go...

In the summer of 2011, i met this girl online. We started messaging each other and we became friends rather quickly, by messaging and by talking verbally to each other via Xbox Live.

I'm from the UK; She is from USA.

We almost played and talked together every single day,(Awwww..!) and this happened until the end of Summer in 2011.
On the final few days of summer, i sent her a message asking if she wanted to carry on talking to each other when school began again, and she agreed "YES!"

After this, we went through the next few months from September through to December, camming on Skype with each other at the weekends and texting during the week.
However in October (Sorry for going backwards) I told her i had fallen in love with her (I sang it to her... :P) and she said she had felt the same way; so we agreed that we were in a LDR, and we had also planned to meet up the following year.

We had sent each other christmas presents too. (Not too expensive of course)

Things were looking great; until she told me that there was a GUY at the SCHOOL who had started to annoy her alot in classes, and that it was affecting her in a bad way. (I still don't know if this was true of not)
He used to bully her, almost.

This was in November. She said she was afraid to tell me because "She was afraid i might get mad at her" (I would never...) I
told her everything was going to be ok, stay strong and i gave her some tips.

We went through Christmas, New year and then it came to the ulimate day, Sunday, 8th January 2012. The last day inwhich she messaged me like her BF.

The following weeks after this day, she treated me like absolute crap. All of her texts were blunt. She never wanted to talk to me, i had to initiate everything. She never told me she loved me etc.

I was worried sick, she just spontaneously went all cold on me. I then discovered a picture of her and the GUY who had been bullying her together, as if they had been dating behind my back. I was very annoyed, but i kept calm, and just tried my best to move on.

In March 2012, she told me she didn't want to be in a personal relationship with me anymore and that she was under too much pressure. Both of these statements are absolute BS. She was basically dating another guy whilst telling me this.

However, This all stopped in April 2012, when she came running back to me telling that she missed talking to me and that i was a "Great Friend" and she needed to know if we should stay in contact. I say "yes" unwilling.

We kept in contact from time to time until August 2012, when i decide i didn't want to be in contact with her anymore and i annoyed her quite a bit. I believe she took it personally and got ****** off too. Badly.

I didn't talk to her again until November 2012, when she sent me a hate email about "National Text Your Ex Day" tell how wonderful her life is and her new BF, and that i was a "Blah blah blah" etc.

I did reply to her in the wrong manner, saying that i was sorry for what i did, basically falling for the bait. She then went on to say that "I Isolated her" etc.

After another break in communication, she then emailed me a question about Call of Duty, which i immediately knew she was not only asking me about the game, she wanted to restart talking to me again.

So again, i made the mistake of agreeing to start talking to her over the Xmas Break, everything started off happily, but then she started suddenly over night, come all sexual over me and then asked if she could have a picture of my downstairs area. >.<

I told her there was no way that going to happen. She is in a relationship and everything. No way.

So then about 2 weeks ago, she sent me a huge message basically full of hate, and comparing me to her current BF etc.

I was referred to as "that i talk like a computer answer machine" "i'm boring" "He can hold me physically etc"

A definate Ego boost I say. So i just took it at facevalue and forgot about her, till yesterday, when "She" sent me an email.

I was her "BF" I don't if it was him, or her trying to act as him, saying that i could have her back.

Sorry everyone for the long story, i tried to shorten it.

posted January 18, 2013 04:01 PM            

Have you ever met? Kissed? Held each other? Feels like there's nothing to discuss. Online cannot be the same as the real thing.

posted January 18, 2013 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Oh my God

Have you ever met? Kissed? Held each other? Feels like there's nothing to discuss. Online cannot be the same as the real thing.

The girl does sound a bit mental though

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We where planning to meet but she said, that her parents didn't like the sound of her coming to the UK on her own. Because of the Olympics.

But No, we have never met.

posted January 18, 2013 04:26 PM            

She sounds mental and like she has no self-control.

posted January 18, 2013 06:24 PM            

Ego boosts? Whatever. She must take me for a fool.

Here's her natal chart:
http://i1145.photobucket.com/albums/o502/sven5555/Jennysastro.gif

posted January 18, 2013 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Haha okay I assumed something Scorpio or plutonian and I was right. Her Scorpio exact on her asc opposition moon and moon opposition Venus suggest mind games galore, and her never knowing what she wants.
Her having her 7th house in Gemini with her Venus and Mars in Sag suggest fickleness and changeability. Sag on its own can be salvaged but Sag with Gemini isnt a great combination (much like libra and gemini) she wont be loyal at all, she's also young so drop this one and block her on everything. She's only going to hurt you and waste your time.

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Haplesschild*, Thanks for the analysis and advice.

posted January 18, 2013 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
How old are you? You seem pretty mature for someone that is around her age I assume? You deserve much more, she's a joke.

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I'm 17. Thank you! Yeah i'm about 6 months older than her.