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Topic: Quick help with 3 card reading
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littlecloud
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posted January 19, 2013 12:51 AM
  
I asked if he had romantic feelings for me and got
Queen of cups
7 of pentacles
The SunI'm taking it (surprisingly) as yes but he doesnt know what to do with it so he's keeping them to himself. Thoughts? IP: Logged |
Love&Light
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posted January 19, 2013 06:23 AM
Yes but i would rather put it as deciding as in crystallising what he has to do. And since its followed by the Sun its going to be THE BEST. My two cents.IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted January 19, 2013 10:34 AM
What do you mean by crystalizing?IP: Logged |
Love&Light
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posted January 20, 2013 01:02 AM
By crystallising i mean allow its formation like in letting the tea brew. And the end result is a good tea.From, biddy tarot: "The Seven of Pentacles portrays a young man taking a rest from the difficult work of harvesting his abundant crop. He has been labouring long and hard in his garden. The foliage is full and the blossoms are out. It seems that his work has paid off. He gazes meditatively at the pentacles hanging from the rich greenery of the thicket in which he works and seems to be contemplating the value of his efforts. He is finally taking a break to admire his handiwork and the benefits of his labour." I hope this throws some light. May be he is weighing you. And since its followed by the Sun i get a good feeling. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted January 20, 2013 02:28 AM
Idk...we're friends and he's involved with someone else. We've talked about how we really wouldnt make a good couple but I wish he would at least acknowledge that there is something a little more than friendship. He's not affectionate at all and I am so it drives me nuts sometimes. I want to tell him I care about him but it's hard being emotional with people who aren't that emotional themselves. IP: Logged |
Love&Light
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posted January 20, 2013 06:25 AM
I understand your suffocation. Is he seriously involved with someone. Committed or something? Then that is the obvious reason that he doesn't want to acknowledge to you.And if he is not serious with the other woman then may be the very discussion that you won't make a good couple is making him hold back the admission. 1st is King of Cups right? So the emotions are there BUT wise, calm, diplomatic (again biddy). So trust the rdg. The materialisation of his feelings will be for the best either way. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted January 20, 2013 08:14 AM
It's queen of cups. He's been with his gf for about a year now I think... He's not completely happy, happier than past relationships but not as happy as he could be. He's more attracted to me than his gf, which is sad. Having been in a similar situation I'm surprised he's been with her this long. I understand his lack of aknowledgment even though it frustrates me. IP: Logged |
Love&Light
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posted January 21, 2013 09:09 AM
O Oh!! Why did i think it was King's i wonder. Anyways, i somehow have a feeling that same part of 'not having a good couple prospects' could be playing on him.IP: Logged |
beccathelion
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posted January 21, 2013 11:14 AM
When I do a three card, I like use the middle card as the anchor for the question, and the flanking ones as clarifiers. I'd say there's definitely a connection, and that he's definitely thought about it (the 7), and that the feelings you bring up in him and warm, fun, and... well sunny. That card as such connotations of friendship and just plain old, innate goodness. Lots of positivity and joy. Lots of new feelings and strength (choose any of Leo's positive characteristics for sure.) However, the Queen of Cups suggests to me that person he's with... she's tender and extremely sweet. Emotionally deep and very maternal. She takes good care of him (strokes his ego, probably one hell of a cook) but on the flipside, she can be a little clingy and smothering. I agree he's weighing his options, and since it's a major arcana vs a Queen... it's sort of a tough one. I'd say the Sun suggests he doesn't know you as well, so there's some fear in that (you didn't come across as a court card, so it's pulling more of the feelings associated with you) but the Sun is such a positive card, you should take a lot of pride in that, even as friends. Wait and see. It's going to go how it'll go, and it really is too up in the air to know. Just be the best friend you can. That whole "kill 'em with kindness" this really does work. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted January 21, 2013 03:54 PM
I think he cooks more often, I see that he's fond of her but that's partly from being with her..I think anyway. I don't think their relationship will last too long or at least if it does he wont be happy. I say this bc he's not sexually attracted to her, he's more attracted to me than he is to her, which is detrimental to a relationship. I've been through a similar situation and we're enough alike that I see it being a problem. No woman likes knowing her partner isn't sexually attracted to her. She has gotten clingier bc she realized this. I'm not looking to be in a relationship with him, I do try to be a good friend. He's been there when I needed a friend many times which I really appreciate. What Im looking for is just better understanding and again an acknowledgement from him that we have a better connection than he thinks that does involve a certain amount of emotion. IP: Logged |
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