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Alysama
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posted January 24, 2013 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alysama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Friends only?
Hi! I’m new here but have been searching high and low about my composite chart and synastry with this guy I like. So far, the things I read are not so positive sounding. I really like this guy, but I don’t know if it’s love or not, I mean, my Venus falls into his first house in synastry, so he’s physically my ideal type. There are times when I feel like he could become my husband. But maybe this is just me idealizing who he is when he’s not (Composite Venus conjunct Neptune)? I don’t really know what makes me attracted to him, I just know that I am.
We’ve known eachother for awhile and he’s told me that he’d like to focus on his getting his life together before considering a relationship, which is a “luxury” to have, he says. I understand, I also want the same, due to our Capricornian influences. And I also have a Pluto in Scorpio 7th house, natally, so, I’m pretty impulsive and dominant when it comes to relationships. I do have a hard time letting go too. But to me, I always feel like a friend to him. Based on his chart, what does he see in me? Am I just some sexual object? His Venus falls in my 8th house synastry. Most of what I find online indicates that this is an emotional relationship, but one that is short lived. I am definitely NOT the type for this kind of short lived union.
Our Composite Venus conjuncts Uranus meaning a sexual relationship only =doomed failure? There is also a Composite Saturn in 11th house Capricorn, which indicates havoc in the home and a possible suicide!? Is this true?! We also have a lot of planets in Capricorn in the composite chart (Sun, Venus, Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune). Is that a good or bad thing? Especially cause it’s in the house of Friendships. I heard that having a strong composite 11th house is bad. Is it? Does this indicate a karmic relationship? Are there any indicators of karmic past(natally, synastry, and composite)?
What I really want to know is: Are there any good aspects for romance/lovers? Are there any good aspects for marriage? Both our 7th house, natal and composite, have no planets. Does that mean I won’t get married either? There is Pluto in Scorpio in my 7th house natally. Does this mean I would marry when I’m 50?
If not, then what are the bad aspects? And are we better off as friends/acquaintances? Is this chart better for business partners?
I’m here to ask for help and good input/advice on reading the chart. Please refrain from replying if you want me to go “google” it.
There are so many things I want to know. Gah! But much help is appreciated. It certainly is.
Here's the Natal/Synastry and Composite charts.
SYNASTRY:

COMPOSITE & NATALs:


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Randall
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posted January 24, 2013 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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starmoon
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posted January 24, 2013 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for me, composite charts are for couples - people who are already in a relationship and want to see how they are perceived by others or how they respond to one another within the relationship itself. since you're barely together with this person a composite, imo, isn't helpful. others may say otherwise. i looked at the synastry chart between you guys and the first thing i saw was that two of his major planets (sun and venus) fall into his 12th house. although that puts them in your 8th, he will struggle with these two signs - he might not be able to fully express his feelings. his sun is almost opposite his moon, which is not fun :-( and his sag sun/venus are in conflict with your moon as well. it helps that you both have a gemini moon, but his venus (attraction) sign, which happens to be his sun as well (sag) may not be all that drawn to you long-term. you also have your two pluto signs almost exact, and that generally leads to power struggles between people. the best contacts you have imo, are your venus sitting right atop his node, which could indicate that you were brought together for some 'higher' transformative purpose in one another, and your moon-mars connection, which is generally a very tight bond between people. i do see some connection here, his moon and mars are being drawn in by you and your own gemini moon sign (emotions) is responding to that; it doesn't look bad, but i don't think you have enough fire placements in your chart to draw out his sag energy and 'touch' him in the way he needs given his own placements. i wouldn't say this is a chart of 'just friends' but i would have liked to see you/he have a fire/sag contact for more strength overall. and btw, i also have my 4th-8th houses empty and it doesn't mean you're doomed to singlehood or non-motherhood.. it just means it isn't a primary life focus is all :-)

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Alysama
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posted January 24, 2013 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alysama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh thank you thank you so so so so so much for answering me. I appreciate it! Well, we've actually tried it out with one another. But it didn't work out so well. So was it because there's no fire in my chart that I couldnt trigger his fire? Or was there something in the composite that was doomed for failure? I heard that a strong 11th house was a bad indicator. Is this true too? Any one with similar experiences?

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