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brightwhites
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posted January 27, 2013 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for brightwhites     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So me and this guy have started hanging out a lot recently. I'd been staying at his place for the past couple weekends, going to parties with him and whatnot. Before we fell asleep, we'd usually mess around (making out, touching, cuddling), but he doesn't want to have sex until he feels it's right? He's willing to do anything else and he told me he loved me (for sexual reasons?). I don't mind having this guy as a friend or a lover, but I can't really see where this is going (IF its going somewhere). He brags about his past girlfriends/sexual affairs to his friends, and claims to not like redheads (I have red hair), so now I am really confused. :/

So my question is... is this weird kind of relationship indicated in the charts? Are we not destined for a romantic relationship? Do I like him more than he likes me?

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brightwhites
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posted January 27, 2013 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for brightwhites     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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starmoon
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posted January 27, 2013 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if the guy is a braggart about women i would put the blame on venus in aries - the more 'firey'/bragging nature in him and wanting to make himself look manly. he has a lot of 'sensitive' positions, with the moon in virgo, sun in pisces and mars in cancer, he's probably rather conservative. your mars signs are incompatible, imo - you have mars in aries which might be too aggressive for his cancer/pisces placements. you do have a venus-mars connection with his guy; your venus/sun is in his 8th house, his venus is in your 8th, your mars in in his 7th, and his sun is in your 7th - all good placements for more than 'just friends.' there is some pull/fascination between you guys. overall though, a majority of the major planets between you both (natally) are not well aspected to one another, and he has moon in the 12th, which doesn't help romantically - so i don't see this having long-term potential. i don't like composite charts so i didn't even look at that.

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brightwhites
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posted January 28, 2013 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for brightwhites     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I could kind of tell he is conservative - though I didn't think he was with him bragging about his threesomes to his friends. I feel more like the initiator, though I can't tell if he actually likes it or not..

Thanks for your input btw (:

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brightwhites
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posted January 30, 2013 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for brightwhites     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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