posted January 28, 2013 04:26 PM            

background info, I met this guy around 7 months ago things were good and things were bumpy but we were in love definitely...well we got into an argument I started and he decided to cut ties with me. The argument was not big in my opinion but it is only surface to another problem we were having. Basically he wants me to be there for him in ways that I feel only someone should be when a serious committment is in involved.

we were moving towards a committment but the argument happened at I guess it was the icing. havent spoke in just about 3 weeks. I tried contacting at least 3 times, he's not hearing it. no response.

he's use to women giving him what he wants, but I have requirements and I won't bend. I really do miss him though and taking the slightly abrupt end hard. I hope he can rise to the occassion.

that's what I want to know can he rise to the occassion and I'll hear from him again or is it over.

posted January 28, 2013 05:41 PM            

You are mercury and moon.
He is juiter and sun.

He is in your first house, you think about him.
He likes you also, jupiter likes mercury, but he is in exile in your sign.
You are in his 4th house. Did you lived togehter? or have some contact with his family?
You are exalted in his 4th house.
mercury trines jupiter-so it's a yes, but it is a separation aspect(no)
Mercury flows away from jupiter.(no)
I think you will have contact again, but i don't know how much it will last.
You are in much better "shape" as a matter, he is a little bit down, beeing exiled in your sign could mean that he is
intmidated,or it's something about you he is not confortable with.

All the best.

posted January 28, 2013 07:07 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by crys:
Hello,

You are mercury and moon.
He is juiter and sun.

He is in your first house, you think about him.
He likes you also, jupiter likes mercury, but he is in exile in your sign.
You are in his 4th house. Did you lived togehter? or have some contact with his family?
You are exalted in his 4th house.
mercury trines jupiter-so it's a yes, but it is a separation aspect(no)
Mercury flows away from jupiter.(no)
I think you will have contact again, but i don't know how much it will last.
You are in much better "shape" as a matter, he is a little bit down, beeing exiled in your sign could mean that he is
intmidated,or it's something about you he is not confortable with.

All the best.

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Thanks crys I really appreciate the reading. I know a lot of his family, this is how we met. Question "him in exile in my sign" means? Sorry im really trying to get the hang of horary, I heard it takes years to read a chart accurately.

He shouldnt feel down or intimidated (but I could see why he would be or a least uncomfortable) because I am such an easy person, when I see potential though I would want anyone I love to live up to it. we come from very different backgrounds he and I, his was really rough, still is.

Actually I feel reallt ****** right now...there are a lot of people in this world who just don't know how great they are. He is one of them...he was given a raw deal. It ****** me off. (sorry just venting)

anyway...
I always been into astrology, lately i've been getting deeper. I plan to see an astrologist in my area later this week. I just want to know im moving in the right direction as far as life goals.

oops I didnt see that you explained exile...nvm

posted April 09, 2013 03:55 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by crys:
Hello,

You are mercury and moon.
He is juiter and sun.

He is in your first house, you think about him.
He likes you also, jupiter likes mercury, but he is in exile in your sign.
You are in his 4th house. Did you lived togehter? or have some contact with his family?
You are exalted in his 4th house.
mercury trines jupiter-so it's a yes, but it is a separation aspect(no)
Mercury flows away from jupiter.(no)
I think you will have contact again, but i don't know how much it will last.
You are in much better "shape" as a matter, he is a little bit down, beeing exiled in your sign could mean that he is
intmidated,or it's something about you he is not confortable with.

All the best.

---

Hi,

I thought if queisted was in the 1st conjunct Querent, it meant that quiested is most keen to quarent?

posted June 21, 2013 01:47 PM            

So sorry it took so long so many things have happened. well we did reconnect, the exact date Feb 13th. things were ok for awhile.....honestly its like we go back and forth which isn't healthy but it is what it is. I left town for the month of April so we were apart more issues stemmed from that. When Im away from him he is so needy but when I give him all the attention he pulls away. I came back from my trip it was total bliss between us things were sooo good of course like clockwork he starts becoming distant again.

The thing with this guy is that he has issues, BIG TIME. we've talked about it alot i've recommended couseling to him on several occasions.

Our biggest fight yet happened this past weekend. All I will say that it was really bad and we have stopped communication. I will not put up with his verbal abuse anymore. I try to accommodate him so much, and I love him so much.

Crys you were right about his insecurites. I can't make him feel good about himself. And I won't let him make me feel bad because he doesn't feel good and no amount of me loving him will change that. Do I think he loves me? yes most definitely but he is incapable of accepting or giving love.

My wishes are that he gets help for himself because it is a sad way to live.

Sorry about my rant. I miss him alot after only 1 week of no communication. its crazy really. Ah life.

Also to add I think we are in a karmic relationship.

posted June 26, 2013 01:15 PM            

I would like to know if his comdey will become something bigger than what it is now?