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posted February 08, 2013 02:53 PM            

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I met this nice guy a few weeks ago and became close friends right away. Despite his signs of interest, I'm very hesitant to go passed a friendship. He has Venus in Cancer as well, and the only thing I hear about them is there love for big boobs, which is something I don't have nor want. I would hate to get into a relationship with someone who might have the audacity to ask me to get fake boobs. I don't want to jump to conclusions, but as someone who believes in astrology I definitely take the traits of each sign/planet into consideration. Are there any Cancer guys or anyone who knows Cancer guys that doesn't make curves there main priority in a potential partner? or Should this Scorpio keep them in the friendship zone?

When I look at our synastry it's probably one of the best I've seen so far. We share all the "ideal" combos between two charts (Sun-Moon, Sun-Venus, Venus-Saturn, Venus-Mars, Venus-Chiron, and Jupiter-Juno). Any opinions on how this might turn out?

i'm Blue - he's Red (birthtime unknown)

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posted February 08, 2013 06:59 PM            

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My ex with venus in Gemini actually wanted me to gain weight so that my breasts would be bigger. With most other venus in gem guys I have found that they don't care much about breast size or prefer them to be pretty small...so what I'm saying is don't jump the gun. What cancer venus needs is love and affection over everything else and his mars in Leo that is amplified. He may be attracted to a woman that looks very feminine but one that is strong and won't be afraid to put him in his place (in nice way of course). I know birthtime is unknown but his venus/mars both fall into your 5th house which I would take to be a very attraction based pull.

What worries me is his unaspected moon (but again birth time) and the mercury opp mercury..communication is key and with this I'm sure conversation may be stimulating but you may get into a lot of arguments, nothing too serious I think but one of those small things that can make things a little rougher. Also I'm not a personal fan of Saturn oppositions...

Your stellium is unaspected as well...

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posted February 08, 2013 07:01 PM            

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Just realized you reduced the orbs...

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posted February 08, 2013 08:23 PM            

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Thank you Littlecloud
Yes communication is very stimulating, luckily we haven't had any arguments yet. My birth time is accurate I feel very comfortable with him having his Sun in my 4th house and trine my moon. The venus/mars in my 5th house is definitely creates attraction. I would really like to build something more but at the end of the day I just have trust issues that I need to work on.

I read that reducing the orb to 40% is 3degs max.

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posted February 08, 2013 10:07 PM            

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I tend to go really wide with orbs, 5 degrees for me is a tight orb, also taking into account how far apart the two people are born.

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posted February 10, 2013 03:57 PM            

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Sorry didn't see your reply till now
I'll take that into account, and he's 2 years older than me

The aspects I'm most curious about are his Saturn-Chiron conjunct my NN/SN. Looks like something very painful.

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posted February 11, 2013 02:47 AM            

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Can you post a new chart with the orbs regular, what astro has normaly, and don't have aspects lines to all, no asteroids either. It can get confusing with all the lines. I may be able to go a bit more in depth, if you want of course.

Also his being 2 years older is ok. It's when people are born within the same month that synastry and composites get tricky and that's when you have to be careful bc they'll automatically have tons of conjunctions.

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posted February 11, 2013 02:49 AM            

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I also just read on cafeastrology that venus cancer men prefer natural breasts. In any case, someone who wants you to surgically alter your body or alter it in an unhealthy manner is clearly not someone you should date.

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posted February 11, 2013 03:30 PM            

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Sure thing and interesting about the age differences.

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I also just read on cafeastrology that venus cancer men prefer natural breasts. In any case, someone who wants you to surgically alter your body or alter it in an unhealthy manner is clearly not someone you should date.

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Absolutely, couldn't agree more. I think I'm just in the phase that this too good to be true. So I'm assuming all the negative things that could happen, but hopely it's all in my head. Either way, it's not going be a lost if things don't work out :]

Much appreciated, Thank you

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