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Topic: strictly for fun: what kinda lovers would work best for me based on my chart?
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andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 09, 2013 10:27 AM
Ok, this is really just to fool around a little bit I've heard it on many occasions that earth signs are the best for me, but I have a LOATHING for earth energy, I totally hate it, especially Capricorn, there are not enough curse words in all of the world's languages to describe how much I hate them, and I'm not exactly a massive fan of Virgo. These 2 things cannot be true at the same time So I was curious - what does my chart have to betray about this? What's best for me in a lover based on this?
Thanks in advance. Can do tarot in exchange, happen to be good at it. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5478 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 09, 2013 10:43 AM
for fun:° Aquarius or someone with Uranus-energy in terms of personal planets; a free spirit, exciting and open and marching to his "own drum" [Mercury as ruler of the 5th house conjunct Uranus; Venus as ruler of the 5th house in Aquraius]
Of course as much fun it miht be, I am not sure if it was stable enough for your Taurus-Moon Also, Taurus Moon seems to be warm and sensual, and Uranus energy might be a bit too mental for it. However, you also have ASC in Gemini, so I guess mental stimulation IS high on your priority list. They also should not be impractical dreamers. Individualists, yes, definitely, but able to make a living for themselves (you are not a charity organization for rescuing lost lovers) [Mercury as ruler of 5th house in 6th house; Venus as ruler of 5th house in 10th house] for longterm potential: A bit of Sagittarius or Jupiter energy would not be too bad: DESC is in Sagittarius; ruler of 5th house is also in Sagittarius. HOwever the ruler of DESC is in Capricorn. You might not like Capricorns; but a bit of groundedness and earthiness in the sense of being close to one`s own physicality and taking responsibility for one`s own life might not be the worst thing in a partner for you. However with Neptune on DESC - there seems to be a very different image raised up. An attraction to sensitive creative (though not always trustworthy) people.
Your 8th house has Sun and Jupiter, with its ruler in Scorpio sextile Jupiter. Warm, confident, generous, playful, open but at the same time also emotionally intense people.
To summarize I`d say you need a strong partner who is confident and secure in himself and who doesn`t shy away from expressing his emotions and thoughts (maybe even artistically) and who needs and provides a lot of mental stimulation.
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andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 10, 2013 03:48 AM
Ceri!! Thanks for taking a look Sounds pretty true, but for some reason strength is a bit of a turn off. Might it be mars in pisces that tips the balance towards the neptunian part? On the other hand weakness drives me mental, when a person can't get him/herself to act is pretty upsetting. Do you fancy a tarot reading? x IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5478 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 10, 2013 05:49 AM
Andstuff, "ounds pretty true, but for some reason strength is a bit of a turn off." Interesting.
BTW I wasn`t talking about physical strenght, but rather strength of character. " Might it be mars in pisces that tips the balance towards the neptunian part?" Yes, definitely, especially with Neptune on DESC as well.
" On the other hand weakness drives me mental, when a person can't get him/herself to act is pretty upsetting." That is actually what I meant with "strength". "Do you fancy a tarot reading?" I would appreciate one very much, thank you. I am especially interested in the development of my social and maybe even romantic life in the next months. IP: Logged |
sharpei Knowflake Posts: 129 From: london Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 10, 2013 04:00 PM
i have a reallly similar chart to you so whilst i dont know so much about astrology ill throw in my 2 cents if that is ok.you have an even earthier chart given you have an earth moon AND sun- that does not mean you need an earth sun sign but a man with earth in other parts of his chart- maybe taurus moon with cap venus or something like that might work for you? if you mix that with say a sagitarius sun with libra rising and aries mars you wont be overwhelmed with earth but you will still be made to feel secure- feeling secure may be even more important to you than me as i have an aries moon. mars is the sign where we look for men for a woman so a pisces mars means a little bit of...not weakeness but vulnerabiilty may suit you, shyness even- a man can be shy but still brave and ''manly'' so to speak. you have moon in 12th house - the moon represents our subconscious and biological karma- having the moon in taurus is considered a good placement - it speaks to an abundance of resources and a stable emotional nature. it is interesting that you have your north node in taurus 12th house too since that is where you are supposed to be heading, i dont know how to interpret that but it seems promising to me. you have neptune (i think im bad at reading graphs im afraid - i need tables) in 7th house like me (but sun in 8th unlike me which is in 7th) so possible idealisation of men in relationships and finding it hard to distinguish truth from dreams but you have neough earthly placements to sort that out.
since you have sagitarius 7th house and jupiter is in cap 8th house this speaks to marrying someone well off and also luck in matters of deep relationships and connections- you need someone deep. also possible to meet someone whilst travelling or who is foreign. your nn is taurus 12th house sn scorpio 6th house- like me i dont think it means you cannot incorporate aspects of the sn but it just means that you need to learn to stand on your own two feet and ''go with the flow'' in order to cope with an intense relationship - you will not be allowed to get swallowed up in it and lose you identity - first you need to have a clear identity and self esteem and be grounded THEN you will be ready to enjoy the south node aspects and harmonise them- you are still a capricorn whether you like it or not so you need to accept certain things but it does not mean forgoing a deep love and anyway your sun being in 8th would not allow it- it just means before you are allowed to experience that you need to overcome certain things and be properly grounded in reality and able to let things go and learn from past karma. maybe you have already done those things though i dont know... but capricorn is the sign of karma and overcoming obstacles to get what you want so if your goal is that deep deep relationship then you need to overcome certain obstacles to get there- saturn in scorpio 6th house gives you some clue as to where they might be...nto hard to guess IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 10, 2013 09:33 PM
@sharpei2 lovely quotes "I hate to get anywhere by working for it" (c) this side of paradise "patience comes to the ugly not me" (c) someone like Brian molko I mean.... its none of my business who wants their life to be about have to. I'm not about have to, I'm about want to And well I know a lot of people who know me would like to see me being about have to, really wonder why they have such a fixation about it. Whatevs And I said this to everyone, I'm gonna say this to you as well. You haven't lost a boy who loved you and worshipped you to drugs and ruin. So a lot of things don't appear like a pile of shallow meaninglessness to you, but to me they are. IP: Logged |
sharpei Knowflake Posts: 129 From: london Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 11, 2013 02:39 AM
aww andstuff- i like you but look at all the positive stuff i said! you are focusing on the bits you didnt like that suggested responsibility but i said SOOO much positive about how you need and will get deep relationships etc etc-!no ive never been loved taht deeply but i have loved that deeply and intensely-like honestly if you gave me the choice between 100 romanian orphans starving or him stubbing his toe it would be bye bye orphans... way way waaaaay more intensely than most people are capable of- it just was not returned i do not believe to the same degree- but i dont mind even-im very accepting of things he was scorpio, very little earth, very beautiful human being... IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 708 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 12, 2013 12:20 AM
Hey andstuff, have you ever tried the other house systems like equal or poryphyrr (sp) to see if you get better house sizes and then see if the descriptions fit better?------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 03:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Got Gemini??: Hey andstuff, have you ever tried the other house systems like equal or poryphyrr (sp) to see if you get better house sizes and then see if the descriptions fit better?
I have tried equal, it's just weird. Sun and Jupiter go to the 7th, but then well Sun in the 8th fits me fine too. Saturn and Pluto go to the 5th - well, I'd rather have Saturn in the 6th LOL, and I'm not sure it fits. I have Asc trine Pluto trine Venus - so intensity in love could come from this Grand Trine as well as Venus conj Mars, not Pluto in the 5th Venus in the 9th as opposed to 10th - i don't know, both could work. in the 10th means a creative occupation The difference between Placidus and Porphyry is less significant. Pluto goes to the 5th and Saturn stays in the 6th. Sun goes to the 7th from the 8th - and that's that. I have vivid dreams and well I am pretty intense/ with a dark side - but this could come from SN in Scorpio.
So basically it's not like there's anything massive that would allow to get my houses right. IP: Logged |
Sven555 Knowflake Posts: 70 From: UK Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 04:08 AM
Andstuff, would you like to compare MY chart with YOURS? IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 04:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sven555: Andstuff, would you like to compare MY chart with YOURS?
um, what for? IP: Logged |
Sven555 Knowflake Posts: 70 From: UK Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 06:55 AM
For fun. IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 384 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 12, 2013 02:05 PM
i'd put you with a guy with a pisces moon or perhaps a guy with his venus or mars in taurusIP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 02:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: i'd put you with a guy with a pisces moon or perhaps a guy with his venus or mars in taurus
pisces moon is one of my favourite placements of all, yeah. they are awesome IP: Logged |