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Topic: Pluto relationships and not wanting it to end ?
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lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 13, 2013 03:09 PM
  
Is this a common theme in pluto relationships ? Im in one now its not really a relationship THO ;/ and god help me im the pluto person and it feels like HELL! The virgo i really like and confused as to whether he likes me or not is so confusing and irratating and not even that attractive i just cant let go . My pluto squares his sun and his pluto ALREADY squares his sun and you can so tell . Ive posted about him about 50 times already (For future reference anytime i post about some dude who aint acting right its the virgo) and i still dont understand ANYTHING about him but yet i understand him all too well. I know how he feels i can just look at him and i know everything i find it funny sometimes how easy he is to read he CANT lie to me ill know he is . hes not a bad liar he can fool everyone else but not me i always know when he's not being 100% honest with me . But the amazing thing is the last time we had one of our little dramas it didnt feel over i kept saying it was over but it didnt feel over and i just wanted it to end but i couldnt let go i litterally felt like life was trying to keep us together. And now it just feels done i dont know if he thinks it feels over but i feel like what he did ended it for me yet i dont want to let go the thought of him with someone else makes me want to break down and cry . I hate that he knows i feel this way . Does this sound like the prime example of a pluto relationship to you ? Its the most jealous , possesive , competitive and ego destroying thing ive ever been through and it just wont end ! We have sun-venus venus-mars mars-mars and moon-mars in our synastry to top it all off but i can only feel these when im in his actual presence over the internet and the phone i just feel pluto its like pluto is the smoke that suffocates our relationship . It annoys me that i dont know how much he can take i dont know if hes gonna end it or if i will i dont know where his head is at
He gets jealous then he wont talk to me i act like i dont care he comes crawling back usually how it works . he tries to make me feel how i make him feel and i just act indifferent when all i really want is to make it work but i feel trapped when he plays games with me .
-_- this is some teen drama btw first time i ever felt IN LOVE with someone and it feels like hell ! ill post his chart too if it helps  IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 25768
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 13, 2013 03:12 PM
Moving to Personal Readings.IP: Logged |
dyedye08
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: South Orange, NJ, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 14, 2013 10:13 PM
@ lovehate122 OMG!!! I am currently in a Pluto relationship. The guy and I use to work together and yes its like a love hate relationship. The biggest issues that we had were: Control, Jealousy, Possessiveness, Ego boosting, playing games doing tic for tat. There was obviously great attraction and chemistry. Now, we don't work together and this is the hardest thing for me. Some days, I deseparately want to reach out to him. Since we don't work together anymore he doesn't answer any of my calls, texts or e-mails. Then just yesterday I called him and surprise he actually answered. The impression I got from him was that he was shocked and speechless. He didn't know what to say to me. And he even told me to call him back and I did, but he didn't answer. He likes being in control that's why he doesn't answer the phone. This is sooo crazy. I want this to end, but at the same thing I feel like I got to have him in my life. when we did work together we basically treated each other how the other one treated the other person. IP: Logged |
mir
Knowflake Posts: 935
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Registered: May 2009
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posted February 15, 2013 10:06 PM
Dyedye, he must have felt really ashamed for ignoring all your texts, calls, e-mails .. SHOCK! Surpise surprise..And then he asked you to call him back, 1 minute later? 15 minutes? And that's when he didn't answer?
Wow.. he seems obviously *DONE* with you?
Or am I missing something? Could it be that he probably takes this chance - not working together anymore - to cut you out of his life?
Did he give you any sign of interest after the separation? Hm.. I feel Pluto here. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: South Orange, NJ, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 15, 2013 10:27 PM
@ Mir I never called him back. I ended up texting him and asked him what time would be a good time to call back and he never replied. I couldn't believe he was speechless. I actually initiated the conservation that day. No, he never said anything to me about us separating. From readings I have got done in the past; all have indicated he is going through something financially or something with family. See, he's married and I'm married. I think working together I think he is indeed trying to distance himself from me, but the whole point of a karmic relationship is to learn lessons. Our issues has always been : control, jealousy, competitiveness and possessiveness. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 97
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 17, 2013 12:00 PM
My boyfriends pluto squares my sun. I can see how you would feel. I do respond to him though. I care about him. The pluto panics when the sun person answers a text too late or misses their call. I read that once and its very true. Its a very intense and obsessive aspect. I hated him when i met him. Now i am in love with him. I dont see us letting go of eachother soon. I know pluto can feel out of control. Im sorry you have to go through that. Hes probably scared. I am a very intense person naturally so i enjoy it. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: South Orange, NJ, USA
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 18, 2013 01:13 PM
@ Venusian Moon from past readings I have had. They all indicated that he was confused about his feelings for me. Now, I think he is focusing on his relationship with his wife. But what I can't understand is why does he feel the need to ignore me by not answering my calls, or texts. then out the blue answers my call but is shocked and speechless that i end up starting the conservation which only lasted about 2 minutes because he said he was in class. Question: Does this connection fade for one person, even if the karmic debt hasn't been paid and lessons hasn't been learned IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted March 03, 2013 09:44 AM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
My boyfriends pluto squares my sun. I can see how you would feel. I do respond to him though. I care about him. The pluto panics when the sun person answers a text too late or misses their call. I read that once and its very true. Its a very intense and obsessive aspect. I hated him when i met him. Now i am in love with him. I dont see us letting go of eachother soon. I know pluto can feel out of control. Im sorry you have to go through that. Hes probably scared. I am a very intense person naturally so i enjoy it.
Thats sooo true omg when he doesnt reply to me im like ong hes moved on nd right now i feel like hes moved on he probs doesnt even care ... i just cant move on like i dont wanna be tho only who cares . IP: Logged |
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