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Astro keen
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posted February 14, 2013 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Couldn't resist wondering despite all good intentions to be a little detached. It's a Valentine day excuse.

Why do I ask? Because my bf is probably knee deep in work and far away. Would someone use their lovely skill with cards and read for me?

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posted February 15, 2013 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Chryseis
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posted February 16, 2013 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chryseis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Astro keen,

What do you mean to him?

Queen of Swords: He admires you, you are attractive to him - though he either thinks you are a little dry, or alternatively he can feel a bit dry towards you. He wonders if you were around each other more than he might find he has to be too civil - more than he would like - and the relating - though pleasing - could become mundane and almost businesslike and a tad too serious. Distance is colouring the situation.

Seven of Swords: He thinks he should sometimes ask you to get involved in his life more - you actually could be what he needs on many fronts he thinks - you manage your life so well, maybe you could help him improve his - he thinks. He also wonders if more time with you could bring hidden pluses, like a better and rewarding intimacy, or maybe security/financial benefits, or maybe just good standards of living - under your stewardship, and his keeping up the civility.

Queen of Wands: He likes many of your bright ways, you merge with other attractions though, he has a wandering gaze. He sometimes doesn't really know you or know you much. He seems confused and can think you look and are different to what you are. He has fantasies that he hopes are you - but I would have to say they are general fantasies of his that he hopes could be pinned to you. He has a fickle, flighty attention. Superficial things can lead him astray.

Overall, the distance and the very little opportunity to be around you tangibly is a big part of this though the involvemnent keeps ticking along. He doesn't have a very clear perspective of you - and tends to think you might be a bit mundane or lovely but too upright - but he keeps things alight in case you are more.

Advice for you regarding him:

Ace of Cups: (Compassion is coming slamming up at me for you) You are really putting your heart and soul into this to excess - though it is to your credit too.

The Moon: You aren't quite being honest with the situation fully from your own part - but you may not realize this. You want to use his status or what he represents to take revenge on the naysayers, or others in your life that you feel have passed judgement on you. You are kind though, you don't need to crucify yourself for the sake of this. Be careful what you wish for is a definite theme - Beware! You might get more than you bargained for.

Five of Pentacles: You need to watch your savings, do you really want to put all your eggs into one basket for this - hmm, might not be a good idea. Maybe each of you, will get a bit wobbly if you are living on beans for the sake of maintaining the relationship.

Seven of Cups: Take some time to reflect, visualise, and develop your inner sight, your inner strength etc. You have to build up your bravery and face some of your true goals again - some of the things you would value to achieve or realize. You have to take the time to consider your goals, options, choices.

Overall, it might work out, or it might not. Do you want to stake everything on it? Will it be worth it if it doesn't work out - what then? Alternatively, if it does work out, even if quite well, it might very well be the relationship at the expense of many other things. There are choices to be made - I think initally the guy wouldn't be disappointed by you if you were to get in closer proximity - however, without enough fuelling of his fantasies, the platonic enjoyment as well as the appreciation of your intimacy, may pale, he has a strong drive for either someone younger, kind of dumber, and operating like a sexy barbie doll or if he is to stick with someone around his own age, he could like someone a bit coarser, uninhibited, almost vulgar.

On the surface of it, the civil and good behaviour that he would feel he might have to operate with to seem decent could make him feel cranky, dull, and weary, and possibly inclined to look further afield.


Your soulmate spread:

What is your soulmate like:
Temperance - A Sagittarian, or maybe someone from a different culture. Possibly brings some kind of cultural/religious/philosophical experiences to you.

In what situation will you meet your soulmate:
Seven of Pentacles - Perhaps a portfolio/project/itinery may be part of the agenda, perhaps a professional/lifestyle choice on your part could involve or lead you to meeting up. Planning is part of it either your preparation or being part of an itinery or a program. You may be investing, or purchasing which could involve lifestyle choices.

When will you meet your soulmate:
Tower - (I have no idea) maybe in an elevator, or on a day with potential lightning strikes. You may travel by some kind of cable car and either meet on it or the elevator/escalator, or somehow it is significant. It maybe in the first few days of a new job, or a change in your life involving career, or some kind of inspirational work. Perhaps you could skype one another. It may also be a time of changing residence - probably an irreversible change is wrapped up within the time of meeting.

Advice:
Four of Wands - Perhaps a vacation or maybe buying another home, is on the cards. You could end up in marriage.

Generally, I think its possible your bf is the soulmate. The best laid plans of mice and men come to mind and I think you will follow your heart, as you really have your heart pegged on this guy for better or worse. Coupled with the other advice spread on the bf in this reply to you, I would say, no one can sway you, you will probably see it out so as to see for yourself what will be. I think you have the inner reserves to cope with come what may - good for you, you will decide and find out for yourself.


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posted February 16, 2013 06:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What a lovely surprise! So very good of you. Thank you a hundred times.

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Astro keen
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posted February 16, 2013 07:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You've given me much food for thought. Particularly the bit that he may prefer someone dumber or coarser. You see he is very very clever, knowledgeable and has artistic sensibilities (I wouldn't have thought that being decent or civil would be a trial). Therefore, I would have imagined that he would appreciate a match, someone he could communicate with. What you've said, instead, would indicate a person who would prefer to be the superior one in a relationship, the one who has control perhaps. Could he be into kinky sex, for example, which would fit into the trying to be 'decent' bit?

It is really useful to view him in a less idealistic light. Every now and then, I wish I could end this but wonder if I'll ever meet anyone as fantastic!!

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posted February 17, 2013 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 18, 2013 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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Chryseis
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posted February 18, 2013 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chryseis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Astro keen,

Maybe I only saw some of his psychology from one angle, in many ways I'm sure he would appreciate a civil way of relating.

I asked the tarot what kind of relationship you and he will have over the next five years:

Five of Wands
Four of Wands
Page of Wands


Five of Wands: you are kind of taking him with a grain of salt, or perhaps a little bit of grit has gotten into your oyster...

Four of Wands: he will some how come up with something very encouraging but you wonder at his motivations.

Page of Wands: A few admissions/revelations on his part - it seems encouraging as well for some reason.

Overall though, you may become a little jaded. Despite the occasional sharing/giving of something to contribute to the inspiration of the relationship - to keep it alive, you get the feel you are fulfilling some kind of need of his that he doesn't actually seriously intend to step up to another level with.

I think this relationship will keep rolling along for some time. He does value your involvement in his life I think, but after awhile maybe you think - is this just a rewarding relationship in terms of communication only - like a pen pal/confidante.

I feel he has barriers to a more entrenched involvement. You could get a little browned off with him over time. Sometimes you think you have such potential together and that the sexual side would be rich and involved but he just doesn't seem to escalate it. He may even like your jealousies and passions over him and he possibly gets a lot out of your sexual frustrations over the relationship - I really think its on a cyber level though as it doesn't seem to make the jump to real physical proximity - yoy may though venture another meeting - however it seems kind of blank.

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posted February 19, 2013 01:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you very much Chryeisis. A lot of what you've said rings true for the present situation.

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