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Topic: Unrequited love
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Trined&Squared
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 15, 2013 12:48 AM
  
I need help with my unrequited love. I am in so much pain over this. I don't know what is needed. Synastry chart? Natal charts?IP: Logged |
thundered
Knowflake Posts: 40
From: Australia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 15, 2013 01:07 AM
Both is always a good start! I suck at explaining but post them up and we can all come up with something for you  IP: Logged |
Trined&Squared
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 15, 2013 01:28 AM
Thanks. Here's his. I don't know TOB, took my best guess:
http://postimage.org/image/ezbv45xjt/ Here's mine:
http://postimage.org/image/pte78a47r/ And our synastry
http://postimage.org/image/kylqr8735/ Thank you and let me know if there is anything else.
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4186
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 15, 2013 03:27 AM
Welcome 
How do you know his feelings for you are unrequited? Did you tell you upfront or is he acting aloof?
Being a Scorpio myself, sometimes being aloof means we're playing hard to get. We like to test one's loyalty before taking the next step. You guys share a lot of aspects involving Mars. your Sun squares his Mars, your Venus sextiles his Mars, Mars oppose Mars, his Mars trines your Jupiter, and your Mars sextiles his Jupiter DW. I would find it hard to believe that he doesn't feel some sort of attraction for you...but it's debateable whether it's negative or positive. I'm not an expert. If things are one-sided it could be from your Venus squaring his Venus-Pluto conjunction, making feelings more obsessive on your part. It's often said that this aspect creates Love-Hate relationships as well. Plus his Venus-Pluto are in your 5H, he may have ways of unintentionally bringing out your romantic side. If theres a possiblity that he's giving you the "scorpion test" my first instinct would be to chase him. However if your intution is telling you that he really doesn't feel the same, it's best that you move on. We scorps are all or nothing type of people, when we don't like someone in that way there's no changing our minds. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 751
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 15, 2013 08:50 AM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Welcome
How do you know his feelings for you are unrequited? Did you tell you upfront or is he acting aloof?
Being a Scorpio myself, sometimes being aloof means we're playing hard to get. We like to test one's loyalty before taking the next step. You guys share a lot of aspects involving Mars. your Sun squares his Mars, your Venus sextiles his Mars, Mars oppose Mars, his Mars trines your Jupiter, and your Mars sextiles his Jupiter DW. I would find it hard to believe that he doesn't feel some sort of attraction for you...but it's debateable whether it's negative or positive. I'm not an expert. If things are one-sided it could be from your Venus squaring his Venus-Pluto conjunction, making feelings more obsessive on your part. It's often said that this aspect creates Love-Hate relationships as well. Plus his Venus-Pluto are in your 5H, he may have ways of unintentionally bringing out your romantic side. If theres a possiblity that he's giving you the "scorpion test" my first instinct would be to chase him. However if your intution is telling you that he really doesn't feel the same, it's best that you move on. We scorps are all or nothing type of people, when we don't like someone in that way there's no changing our minds.
Moonfish, please explain this "Scorpion test" further.
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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
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Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 25410
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 15, 2013 12:05 PM
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Trined&Squared
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 15, 2013 12:43 PM
Thanks everyone. Well there is certainly an attraction. We have been on and off for two years and yes I've been Scorpio tested like crazy. As soon as I feel I've moved on he seduces me again and then he mocks me and ignores me. Its a bit obsessive for me, I am assuming the Pluto is a big factor. We both have other people in our lives and he doesn't seem to treat her as bad as he does me. He just knows my weaknesses and progressively he escalates things until I can't ignore him. Calling from blocked numbers in the middle of the night, etc. It almost scares me to ignore him. Thanks for any advice.IP: Logged |
Trined&Squared
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 16, 2013 11:55 PM
Anyone have any other thoughts on this? IP: Logged |
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