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posted February 16, 2013 05:35 AM            

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Been feeling really down regarding my situation with the ex, so just wondering if you could please do a reading regarding his thoughts and feelings? I find your readings so insightful and it'd be great if you could help. This is just constantly on my mind and I just would love some answers.

So yeah how does C feel towards me; what do I mean to him now?

Thanks alot!

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posted February 16, 2013 05:48 PM            

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posted February 17, 2013 12:16 AM            

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Thank you, Hapless,
I will get back to you soon.

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posted February 18, 2013 02:18 AM            

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K thanks, hope to hear from ya soon

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posted February 18, 2013 06:21 PM            

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Dear Hapless, sorry it has taken so long to get back to you.

I just tried to post a reply to you and lost it - my internet is slowed. I'm always really affected by transiting Mercury retrograding which is in a few days time. To top it off the 'r' on my keyboard is starting to play up so that is complicating my typing up responses too.

How does C feel towards you?

Knight of Pentacles
Hermit
Four of Wands

I think C would like to stay in communication/contact with you. He feels it would be a waste to drop out of all contact to you as a lot of water and valuable sharing has gone under the bridge and he doesn't really want to throw that away. However, he wants to see what else is out there - and maybe he would like for you to see what else is out there. He doesn't want to expect too much of you, so if you didn't want to stay in contact he would understand but he would miss you being part of his life.

What do you mean to C now?

Queen of Wands
Queen of Pentacles
Seven of Swords

He would be open to casual hook ups with you but it would have to be come and go as you please - no strings attached. He really likes you and has a touch of love there too that could deepen over time - however currently he would like to explore a wider sphere of options and doesn't want to be tied down. He would like to know if you are the best he will ever get or whether there is something even better for him. There is a slight using/superficial quality at the moment that could be put down partly to youth - he might like to sow his wild oats more - but if there is nothing better and you are realistically is best option he would like to maintain a connection with you and could be partial to continuing to sowing his oats with you, lol.

It is the kind of sensation that many guys could end up leading into something like marriage down the track - but he doesn't know. It could be even the type of feeling that could lead to love deepening over time but he wants to be a free agent at the moment. So I would say that you will always be someone he will have a fond feeling for, however currently he wants to experience more possibilities to get a better perspective on other potentials and what they would mean to him. He could come back to you down the track and declare some kind of serious intention towards you though depending on how things go for him otherwise. He's just not sure if you the average standard of girl in terms of what is available to him, quite pleasing etc, or whether there might be 'super options' out there still. He's also still growing into his own character so he's not sure about his own likes and needs fully either.

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posted February 19, 2013 03:47 AM            

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Hey Chryseis

Thanks for the reading and your time spent . You rock for helping.
Unfortunately it doesn't sound particularly accurate, as I'm the one at fault, and he really isn't like the commitment phobic, grass is greener type. But I can see that the cards you got was interpreted a different way, but with me knowing the background information, I can basically get the gist that he's just closing himself off, as I hurt him last year, which lead to our breakup. =/ So I guess I'll just have to let it go and leave him alone. Sigh thanks again!

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posted February 19, 2013 04:02 AM            

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That's ok, thanks Hapless

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