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Topic: Am I with the right guy?
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chasama
Knowflake Posts: 27
From: Tacloban City, Leyte, Philippines
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 16, 2013 05:59 PM
  
Hi!
I hope to get some views on these synastry charts.The first one is with my current boyfriend for more than a year. We are quite opposites, but I believe that it will make us improve more as time goes by.  This is my ex boyfriend that I dated for 6 years. We really had a lot in common, even professions. Although as the relationship went on, it has been quite destructive and he started being reliant to me on everything. 
These are the only guys I cared about, they both have their ups and downs, but I'd like to know if I did the right choice.
Thank you so much!
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chasama
Knowflake Posts: 27
From: Tacloban City, Leyte, Philippines
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 16, 2013 06:31 PM
Please do help me on this one?IP: Logged |
northvirgo
Knowflake Posts: 33
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 16, 2013 06:37 PM
saturn conjunct saturn in the first cahart gives you a purpose of working together as it falls in your mc and his 6th house. you work steadily and good together, work energies are disciplined and structure for higher rewards.satrun in triplicity of the moon indicates a testimony that no sudden outbusrt of emotions rule your relationship. its pretty steady and solid, to others less saturaniun influenced they would think its boring and predictable relationship. very routine. IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 399
From:
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 16, 2013 06:37 PM
the synastry with your ex is significantly stronger than the current bf and i wonder that it didn't lead to marriage? - you have many overlays and conjunctions that would have indicated a further commitment from him. the issue, i would assume was the horrible mars opposite saturn in your synastry chart with him - of all the aspects in synastry i think that one degrades relationships the worst because people start to see one another in a very different way than they first did. a problem - perhaps for you in relationships - is that three of your major signs (sun and venus and mercury) are housed in the 12th, so you might not bring forth those energies in your relationships and end up resentful if your needs are not being met by the partner. you have nice angle conjunctions with the current bf and his sun does fall in your 5th house of romance, and you have a moon-mars connection too. your two pluto signs in the 5th/8th would add to the attraction factor a lot, but would also be problematic in terms of power/control issues since they are in the same sign and so closely aspected. IP: Logged |
chasama
Knowflake Posts: 27
From: Tacloban City, Leyte, Philippines
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 16, 2013 10:57 PM
@northvirgo
I assume both of the paragraphs you posted are for the first chart right?Well, I do hope we accomplish a certain project together. We have been busy with work and study that we havent had time for personal projects.
@starmoon
Regarding my ex, well yeah I do think we are some sort of soulmates, considering that we were so much alike. It was a really great relationship, because it was easy for us to understand each other. But as time went by, I think I overpowered him in terms of career. I was earning more and things got... Bad. Also, he doesnt seem to have plans for the future yet. He is a big spender and uses up all his salary for useless stuff.
He also started relying on me too much to the point that I was answering his online work related chats. The current boyfriend has his cons too, but he is more responsible at least. In terms of the struggle of power,Im not really sure, but he seems to prefer that Ill be handling the decision making. He actually likes the idea of being a house husband. Quite weird, but it fits perfectly for the boyish and career oriented me. Thanks for the insights. Any more stuff would be greatly appreciated. IP: Logged |
chasama
Knowflake Posts: 27
From: Tacloban City, Leyte, Philippines
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted February 16, 2013 11:54 PM
I'd also like to ask about the 3 major planets that are on my house 12, how will it affect me (sun,venus,mercury)? And is there any way for me to bring out its potential?I do feel it specially on the sun. I really really want to lead, but somehow a part of me doesn't want to do it. Quite a contradictory part of me. IP: Logged | |
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