posted February 24, 2013 12:01 PM
Here is my beginner attempt:You need to meet in the middle, to try to understand the other’s side, to find balance between you two.
You have worked hard to get where you are, and this is a joint achievement, you are strengthening your relationship, maybe decisions will need to be made in relation to this
Something painful and unexpected happenned, that required to step back and see things as they were, maybe you were also blocking the solution/healing. The relationship went through a complete change, maybe becoming more honest and realistic
You will be ready to love in a committed relationship
You will be able to get there with hard work, patience, and learning, developing the relationship skills
The issue of truth must be addressed, trust your intuition, you may not see yourselves or the relationship clearly, or what is best for you
You may have become distant, look for ways to get closer
You want to protect the relationship and the good things you have, or this effort may be too intense and it’s bothering one or both of you
You will want to reconsider if the relationship and partner are what you want. You have love and good things are possible. Maybe you have fantasies or expectations that are not being met, and they may be able to be.
One or both of you may start to have fantasies about being with other people.