posted February 19, 2013 01:02 AM
Hi venuscorpio,How does B feel about you?
8 of Cups
7 of Pentacles
Queen of Pentacles
Basically, he took it pretty hard. It's almost a day by day thing for him to get over - but he feels like he can move forward and he has a few goals and things that he's going to try and give more time to.
8 of cups: it really got his 'goat' some of your reactions and he was pretty much seething about some stuff - like he may have thought you accuse me? - what about you for godsakes...
7 of pentacles: he's going to show you and show himself that he can do what he needs to do to live well and get his life on track - he's thinking I can move on and I'm determined to.
Queen of pentacles: He misses some stuff about the relationship, looks over maybe some old messages or things, maybe he realizes that he still really is still fond of you. But, he's not pinning his hopes on anything, he's taking the practical steps to move on and regroup.
How did he used to feel about you?
Knight of Wands
The Hermit
The Magician
He was happy with you, but there was a lot of drama - not sure what it was, either. Maybe scenarios like things would start out ok then before longing you would have issue, maybe nag, have sulky displays, arguments etc. and everything would all come all messy and distraught. But you probably did have a pretty good physical involvement with you, which was pretty worth it - however, in the scheme of things that might have gone by the way side to just with the predictable downslide, pretty constant drama etc. Basically, he felt like he couldn't do much without you maybe getting huffy and full on about it - partly he would think that was part and parcel of females, partly he would think that maybe that's what you get if you also want the passionate type of girl, partly he would think that he was starting to learn how to turn the tables on you - he started to get some ideas on how to manage those situations - and didn't feel to weak in them after awhile, because he was developing wisdom with it.
Is there a chance or a reconciliation of the relationship?
Page of Swords
The Devil
Queen of Swords
He'd be angry at you if you asked him that. Were you telling him to get over it and have some guts and move on or something. Now that he has, you are wondering if you can reconcile. I think the answer is yes, he's very attracted to you, and as said didn't feel too weak as he got to know a fair bit how to handle you. I don't think he would jump into it though - I think you would have to actually work your way through a reconciliation - he's pretty clever.
Is he dating/romantically involved with M?
King of Swords
Page of Cups
Four of Wands
This would annoy him to answer - but yes, for all intensive purposes he is and he wouldn't want to hurt her/him, I think its a her. I think they may have had a few dates and he may even stick with it. He likes a lot about M - they are sweet. He's mature, this guy, he has a big picture on life and knows that it would be pretty exhausting to be in a constant battle with someone. If he couldn't improve the situation, say if you were to reconcile, he might actually move on. He doesn't want to live his life with frequent distress and wrangling over stuff. He wants a more stable, secure and pleasant way of relating.
I've added one more, the Advice:
3 of Wands
The Fool
3 of Cups
3 of Wands: Approach him, he is approachable.
The Fool: Show openess and good feeling, he respects decent relating and a show of good heartedness.
3 of Cups: He'll meet up with you, others may be involved in the meeting, as was also signified in the 3 of wands.
So yes, I think you could approach him and talk things over, meet up for coffee or lunch of something maybe - he is a decent guy for the most part I think. And there was true love there and still is. He feels things deeply but he is strong and can recover. He could look on a meeting up as a step in healing. So if nothing else, the situation could have a healing quality to it that would be beneficial to both of you.
Perhaps you misconstrued things and took things out of context - jealousy and control would have had to be on the agenda - which is kind of a compliment but also not good because it can develop into mental health issues and sickness. He has some real reserves of guts though - imo, he's a keeper.
Lindaland
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posted February 18, 2013 10:36 PM
posted February 19, 2013 01:02 AM
I am still trying to recover from it all. Why did he choose to date or go back to her? Do you see them being together long term?? I feel she only wants him back tried breaking us up cause she hates me.