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Topic: A Guys Mars Unaspected In Synastry
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Gemmy
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posted February 23, 2013 10:31 PM
  
What would that indicate?IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted February 24, 2013 01:09 PM
Would that make him less driven to make the relationship work?IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted May 20, 2013 07:21 AM
BumpStill curious.  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted May 20, 2013 07:55 AM
I had that once.
Despite a certain romantic attraction, sexual attraction was low. A feeling like it *should* have been there, but simply wasn`t.Donīt know if that is the case for anyone. But to me it seemed like I could not see or perceive his "masculinity", which is not really a good thing for romance. From his end on I think it was stimply that he was not into me. IP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted May 20, 2013 08:44 AM
Thank you for replying.  Do you think his Pluto aspected would make up for the lack of his Mars energy in the synastry? I feel like he is into me but he doesn't put in as much effort as I do.I know,I know, this comment sounds like he's not into me.  ....... My Mars opposite his Venus
His Venus in my 8th
His Pluto aspects my personal planets ^Yep,I made the first move  IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted May 20, 2013 11:43 AM
as long as his sun/moon/venus is well-aspected to/by your your personal planets I wouldn't worry too much. we have this as well - my long term b/f and I have a lot of great aspects but nothing pulling at his mars. it makes him lazy in pursuit (I also made/make all the moves). perhaps this is a result of the unaspected mars, or the mars sign itself. your guy might have a 'lazy' mars to begin with. imo it will make you the 'pursuer' in the relationship so you need to like that because it won't change ... for me, at times, it feels like he isn't 'manly' enough for me and then I get frustrated by my roleIP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted May 20, 2013 12:51 PM
It is frustrating.  I do feel like I have to take the lead sometimes.Planning dates and making sure we see eachother.So in that sense I do see him as having the female role.But I hate it,nataly he has a stronger Mars,even though mine recieves a few squares.His Mars is in Sag and mine is in Pisces.It's tiring.About his Sun/Moon/Venus
His Sun trines my Sun,Moon,Venus,Mercury
His Cap Moon doesn't make many aspects.It's conjunct my Neptune and sextile my Pluto.But I do have a Cap asc(their not conjunct),and nataly my Sun,Moon,Venus,Mercury are aspected by Saturn.So I think my Saturnian influence maybe helps me become more appealing to his Cap Moon & Dsc.Idk,I think I've read that you have a Cap Moon would you appreciate someone heavly Saturn influenced? (his Moon also recieves a square from Saturn)
His Venus doesn't make many aspects either.Both our Venus are Mercury ruled.Mine in Gem,his in Virgo.It does trine my Neptune and sextile my Pluto. I know it's not much.Maybe that's why he isn't so active in this relationship. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted May 20, 2013 04:46 PM
i also have a cap moon and virgo venus, like him. saturn-ruled people = very appealing, yes. we like reliable/responsible/hard-working people. a cap moon/virgo venus can be shy, but we're not adverse to planning and making moves, we love to plan! so, the fact that he isn't could be his sag mars, which is more freedom-loving and may not be interested in forming a tight bond right away, or it could be sun sign, or some natal aspect getting in his way. if you're interested definitely let him know your feelings/interest straight up - it's hard for a cap/virgo combination to be expressive sometimes and even though we feel things we might hold back unitl the other person lets us know first :-) and as a man he'd probably want to work to fix this dynamic of you being the planner (if you tell him it bothers you). i feel your pain - i also want to be the female sometimes and i feel like my man is the woman - i plan everything and keep us moving along, i'm the aggressor, etc. but it's whatever dynamic you can live with b/c it rarely shifts from how it starts outIP: Logged |
Gemmy
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posted May 20, 2013 05:25 PM
This is the way it's been for over a year.I've told him how I feel many times.I've also told him everything that bothers me,but he's kind of sensitive to criticism.He gets upset.Now he just avoids me if I bring up anything that's bothering me.We've decided to try again.But I feel like he's testing me first.I was very jealous and possessive in the beginning. He's a Libra Sun conjunct Pluto
Scorpio Mercury His Moon is in his 7th house.Would that make him relationship oriented? Thanks starmoon IP: Logged |
Capguy75
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posted May 16, 2019 04:34 PM
I'd always assumed a guy having an unaspected Mars would mean a woman wouldn't be "fired up" passionately by him (Mars representing passion not provoking any of the other person's planets)?Given the answers on this thread - that its meant the woman has done the running - that's obviously not always the case! IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted May 16, 2019 05:06 PM
In my opinion it does not matter that much. Pluto, Venus, 5th house and 8th house can create sexual attraction as well. Sometimes even Mars aspects not all favorable. if they are hard aspects they can cause arguments even abuse. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 16, 2019 11:17 PM
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