posted March 01, 2013 06:01 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
The cards I drew is that he sees you as the six of swords(leaving?). He feels about you as the 5 of cups, so yes, he was disappointed somewhow. the challenge of the relationship right now is the ace of swords reversed. I see this as both of you taking time to see things more clearly. Let me know if this helps. It seems like something abrupt happened that caused you guys to stop speaking to each other? Also, you feel about him as "the Lovers."

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Yup that is right on the spot! Long story short we started randomly talking to each other (more than we have in the past 4 years) and after a while I started to think that he might have feelings for me but at the same time he's nice to everyone else so I didn't want to over-think the situation. Anyways, over time I started to notice that it seemed like I always approached him all of the time and it kind of rubbed me wrong. Then yesterday he comes in and still doesn't acknowledge me (doesn't even sit by me anymore) so I just ignored him completely back. Plus he even started talking about prom dates (with other girls) when he was right by me so "if" he does like me, I don't get whats all that about.

posted March 01, 2013 04:43 PM            

Is there a way to get a reading on what he's disappointed with me about or what exactly does he want from me?

posted March 03, 2013 02:33 PM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
I drew 4 cards for you. The first card is you: 8 of coins. What you really need to do right now is be careful and take it one step at a time. Make sure you see all sides of the situation and definitely don't lose your head in the clouds because this will just waste time and possiblities with this guy. He is the 4 of wands: I think he is very focused on graduation and this time in his life. He will only focus on you if you show him that you aren't full of drama. You have to go up to the level where he is. Don't expect anything amazing to happen. He can't meet unrealistic expectations. Try to be his friend, be cool with him. Sorry if that sounds harsh its just what im getting from the cards. What really needs to happen right now is Temperance : you need to know that controlling your impulses and learning to take it easy won't make this guy slip away from you. It would actually help you. http://www.aeclectic.net/tarot/learn/meanings/temperance.shtml
The last card is the wheel of fortune. something out of your control will happen to alter the state of your relationship. Good luck!

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Thank you. I actually do want to be friends with him since to be honest although he's very attractive, I don't think that we have enough things in common to make it anything more than that. And no you didn't come across as harsh lol I needed advice and I'm glad that you offered your time to provide it. Saturn is actually conjunct my natal mars and square my natal moon which hits my natal moon square mars so I can definitely see how I'm going o have to work on my impulsiveness lol.