posted March 02, 2013 06:49 PM            

In the future, will you be able to stop regretting/thinking about this guy:

Ten of wands
The wheel of fortune
The tower

This is a tricky one, (and I think I'm getting the idea why and this will probably come up in the other answers)but yes you will be able to stop the regretting/thinking thing, because - there is an active element to you stopping that type of relating.

Will you be able to move on and be focussed on your current relationship:

Six of cups
Queen of wands
Nine of swords

You will move off this current relationship quite easily and you will probably be interacting with this guy, through a third party intially as well, I think you will come to some conclusions quite quickly and readily though.

Will you ever be able to fully accept that the relationship didn't eventuate:

Seven of cups
The Lovers
Justice

You will have quite a relationship with this other guy internally as you have already indicated. Fantasy will become reality to some degree - and more, in this instance though. But there is an unravelling here - there's a lot under the surface with him, you may feel you get more than what you bargained for - which initially will be kind of exciting and have you totally enthralled - over time though the demands of his nature could become hard work to you.

Will you ever end up in a relationship with this guy:

The Hermit
The Star
The High Priestess

You kind of are in one, sort of astrally, and some other lines of connection that I can't describe but definitely have an interplay going along them. You will get involved, initially through that third party, and then there will be a similar thing going on as previous - his kind of relationship is a not an involved relationship in many cases - he likes the intrigue and the yearning going on, though probably has a gf for the sake of having someone there but they probably fill a gf criteria that he can identify as being what he needs. The concrete nature of a relationship though is not evident.

In the past, what did you represent to the guy:

Seven of pentacles
Page of cups
Ace of pentacles

He liked you and was often on the verge of stepping up the connection, but somehow he felt 'phew' everytime he realized he didn't actually step up the connection. He may well have messaged you or got a message to you (maybe along the lines of what you have already indicated).

What do you represent to the guy now:

Three of swords
Knight of swords
The World

He could think you are a little over weight. He tells himself he is not that into you. He could like to manipulate you though.

How does the guy currently feel about you:

Two of swords
Four of cups
Temperance

He feels he is washed up, and getting old for some reason. Does he drink alcohol eccessively? because he feels like he is wasting his life, I think he might feel that he doesn't want to burden your life with his personality - he's not sure what he wants, but he's starting to think that he isnt going to get what he wants in life. He thinks you might like him and that's nice, but its kind of a diamond dozen feeling - he can have this sensation with others.

Does he regret not trying to have a relationship with you:

The Emperor
Page of wands
King of swords

Yes, in a way, but it would just be another notch on his bedpost, he quite likes accummulating notches though, then putting the person aside, seeing their angst over it all, then moving on, he likes this kind of relationship - makes him feel very attractive and powerful in the attraction states - he rates himself an 8 or 9, he doesn't see himself too much out of options for this type of behaviour.

Does he still think about you a lot:

Ten of swords
Page of pentacles
Five of pentacles

He thought about you recently, but not for long. In his mind you join a group of potentials. Again, he thinks you like him, so he likes that he knows you probably think about him - so when he does think about you, he thinks that you are probably thinking a lot more about him - so he doesn't have to think about you anymore - he has that covered - you are covering the maintenance of the possible option status, and this is ego building for him. Underneath, he is quite a miserable man and as said feels the weight of knowing that he will not realize his own potential in life.

What is the situation about between you and this guy:

Ace of swords
Five of cups
Nine of cups

I can't determine this very well. It has a lot to do with you not remaining attached to those who don't come up with the goods, so to speak. You are a work in progress, and you will be given opportunities to build up your regard and appreciation for yourself - rather than being a utensil for someone else's psychological drama. You like the sensation of the angst and the neediness, but really the guy is a classic player, as you had a feeling that he was - and he is skilled at leaving people hanging. You will probably always have an attraction to him, but it will eventually be more of a concept rather than a driving force.

What is the advice about your current relationship:

Knight of pentacles
Five of wands
Strength

This guy is a nice guy and quite dependable but I would have to say - he's a chump - a bit of a blockhead. He just doesn't cut if for you in terms of long term relationship satisfaction. You require a more sophisticated way of relating, with more intellectual dynamics, and he could be sort of immovable on some points and not be involved enough when you need it sometimes - he likes his comfort zone in some areas and won't budge out of it too easily.

What is the romantic advice for you:

Four of wands
Four of swords
Ten of cups

Holiday!

posted March 02, 2013 08:08 PM            

EDIT: Oh and when you said "He could think you are a little over weight." I'm a bit confused as to what that actually means because I and many others identify my overall body health to be in really good shape, I'm very skinny.
And also I'm not sure if he drinks a lot, he's not very showy when it comes to his daily routines/actions.
Very curious about sorta being in a relationship astrally.