posted March 03, 2013 03:22 PM            

Will you find someone?
**Strength Card***
You have energy,strength that is necessary to achieve what you want - if love is what you want you have everything needed to draw love to you. You may find someone who may need some taming you can say. You possess the gentleness to do just that. this is a positive card. If you see someone who catches your attention - go for it, you have the confidence & appeal!

What do you need to change within you in regards to relationships?
**Wheel of Fortune**
Remember, there are good/bad times. Things that are out of your control. You may get very down and disappointed in love or if its not how you think it should be? Ease up, remember you cannot control everything, don't go against the wheel of fortune take it as it comes. Present yourself as optimistic,good at all times. This card also represents karma. Remember, what we give out to the universe it what we receive. Don't get blue about things or bitter in regards to love keep your head up!

Type of person ideal for you to be in a relationship with?
**six of pentacles**
A man who may have money, not be necessarily rich but is a giver, may believe in helping others less fortunate, he believes in equality and fairness for all. He may love volunteering.

posted March 03, 2013 05:16 PM            

A man who volunteers sounds like someone I would most likely meet, I (hopefully) will be starting a job at a non-profit soon!

A little more background info:

posted March 04, 2013 11:36 AM            

I understand completely, this is what kind of got me into the cards also.

So, I drew a card with you in mind, asking what needs to be done in order for things to get better. I got Loyalty, which according to Cast & Baron-Reid means:

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...Loyalty is tested at times, and you may be asked to assess whether others deserve your loyalty. Sometimes you find yourself in a position where it is difficult to speak up for another person, a cause, or even for yourself. NBow is the time to be faithful to your best qualities, and to leave the rest behind. This is a true test of character. I know you will choose rightly. Stand up for what you believe, and be loyal only to what is true and good.

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posted March 04, 2013 11:49 AM            

Just seen this

I did a wheel for you, shaped like this

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1) the present: 3 swords
2) past obstacles: 7 swords
3) hidden influences: justice
4) future influences: 4 swords
5) overall/general picture: ace of swords

well, not the greatest love reading i've done. what strikes the eye is that it is entirely made up of "rational" cards. i can see you've been frustrated and can see you have been used, and all of it is a massively slowing-down influence.

justice with the ace of swords kind of makes me think that it's all in your hands at this stage, what you need to make things better is a mental effort. perhaps you should ask yourself if you only want to enjoy being loved, your wants catered to, being adored, being considered beautiful etc. Or if you actually need another person to contemplate the world through them, to give away your whole being. I'm not convinced it's true about you, and Justice reminds us that whatever happens is a direct consequence of your actions. It's almost like you want the idea of love, the realisation/awareness that you're loved as opposed to a person to give yourself away to entirely.

posted March 04, 2013 12:43 PM            

Thank you for the reading. As a 7th house person though, with all of my personal planets in the 7th house and Moon in Libra, plus Moon conjunct Pluto in the 8th (need for depth and true intimacy) I don't find the assessment to be completely accurate.

I am too aware of the need to merge and I want someone to be truly intimate with. If anything, I am always doing the adoring, catering to and finding the other person beautiful, without expectation of reciprocity. I have had very little of that thrown my way and I think maybe that is what I need.