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Noddy
Newflake

Posts: 4
From: Vancouver, BC Canada
Registered: Dec 2012

posted March 09, 2013 01:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Noddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, everyone

I was hoping somebody could tell me how compatible these charts are as well as the likelihood of childfreedom in both charts. I am aware that these are very compatible charts as well as I know just out of intuition that we're very good together so I suppose I just like hearing it anyway. LOL.

I have been looking up childfree tendencies in charts and it seems that the 5th house is what rules that factor, and my chart has nothing at all in it.

I have always known I have not wanted kids, my partner is one of those who grew up figuring it would happen as it's one of those inevitable things since it's "what people do" and it is really up to the female whether or not babies are in store for better or for worse, but he never felt that paternal pull either way.

I always worried that one day my mind might change, and it has not, and while I am turning 37 soon, my partner just turned 30 in November.

I know he loves me dearly we have known each other for 8 or 9 years and became romantically involved over a year and a half ago. He has always known my stance on kids from day 1, so I don't think he would get into a relationship with me knowing that if he indeed wanted kids. He says he is on the fence about it, but when it comes down to it, he chooses me over anything else.

I understand that Taurus and Cancer are very parental types so I am confused as to how my chart, which has Taurus Sun and Venus with Cancer Ascending and Moon looks to me like it screams babies but I am personally very staunchly childfree. As you can see there is nothing at all in the fifth house for either of us.

I also have to wonder, Scorpios are known to be jealous but he does not appear to be so much. He claims he is not the jealous type, whereas I am, although he said he would get jealous if I were to flirt with someone else, which is against my policy while in a relationship anyway so that is not an issue. However I do find it odd how he doesn't seem to mind and almost encourages celebrity crushes, which I also do not have currently, as I also toss those when I am in a relationship. Natural horse blinders, if you will.

I know Scorpios don't reveal their weaknesses, although slowly over time he has admitted his soft and vulnerable aspects to me which are always cherished and appreciated. I worship that man.

So what I need covered are:

1) Childfree tendencies in both charts or lack thereof
2) Jealousy and/or lack thereof, tendency to hide it or lie about it on the Scorpio chart

My birth info is: May 4 1976, Halifax Nova Scotia, Canada, 10:10 AM
His: November 15 1982, Manchester, UK, 6:15 PM

Any help and insight would be greatly appreciated.

The following links are our composite chart, then mine, then his.

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Noddy
Newflake

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From: Vancouver, BC Canada
Registered: Dec 2012

posted March 09, 2013 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Noddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a feeling I am going to have a tough time finding an answer to this one.

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elixir
Knowflake

Posts: 412
From: seattle,wa
Registered: Apr 2012

posted March 09, 2013 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for elixir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wish I could..I am still learning...i do see that his north node is in cancer and wow thats a lot of planets he has concentrated together.

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Noddy
Newflake

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From: Vancouver, BC Canada
Registered: Dec 2012

posted March 11, 2013 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Noddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, yeah I know, pretty crazy how they're mostly all on one side like that.

What does north node in cancer mean (or why is it standing out to you)? Both our rising signs are cancer which I think is cute. "We're rising twins!"
Although the degrees are different.

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Londongirl8
Knowflake

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From: London
Registered: Dec 2012

posted March 11, 2013 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Londongirl8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wake up and smell the coffee - your guy is only 30! I bet my last buck that he'll want kids sooner or later

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Noddy
Newflake

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From: Vancouver, BC Canada
Registered: Dec 2012

posted March 12, 2013 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Noddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find your comment as rather rude and not very helpful, as though you only wanted to press my buttons, perhaps because I pressed yours. which I feel I can safely assume you are the type of person who thinks a life without kids lacks meaning.
This is the sort of response people like me get from people like that often enough that it gets boring, predictable, really, so I am not surprised, just mildly annoyed that I opened this page in hopes to see something more thoughtful just to see... well, spam. I am sure you wouldn't be thrilled to find a rare response in a thread you create only to see somebody saying something negative about the love of your life.

I suppose it is my bad for including the 3rd question anyway which I am not really too concerned about anyway, as it really only invited such a response, which, if he were around to witness, he would be tempted to give you a piece of his mind for being a jerk to me. Don't mess with the protective scorpio man's lady or you'll get stung

This is about the charts, not your opinion. Why are you on here anyway if you're not going to talk astrology?

So, to make this easy for people, I mostly want to know about MY chart, which is confusing since it seems Cancer moon and rising is a very motherly sign, as is Taurus sun and Venus in my chart, and I am not motherly, and I do not think I have anything in my chart indicative of childfreedom (not infertility, I know I am fertile), which I find strange.

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