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Topic: LOVE MARRIAGE DIVORCE...is somthing worth discussing out of these charts? :) thx
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start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 16, 2013 04:53 AM
  
Hi guys , I am nt sure if anyone remembers me, becoz i came back after a very long time..am not asking for any readings today...just leaving the charts , for a discussion as to what planets predict what ! story , cut chort >i had been married to someone from abroad for whom i left my career abroad , behind . love and three overseas meetings happend within two months , plus a marriage  i lived with him for 3 months (except for a few random fights , a very lovely time together) and came back for a vacation , only to know he blocked my passport and visas...and which he never spoke to me... there were no well framed blames either...but he never spoke or replied for a year and half . he said he wanted to divorce but wouldnt even come and sign the papers... was simply quiet while i suffered and cried alone.... finally after a year and half , he came now and we signed the intial papers for a mutual divorce... during which , he was almost aloof...and not affected by anything... in good spirits... having no regret... (meanwhile i got to know he had been cheating on me..regarding my money , relation n everythng) ... i would never understand why he married me, if he had to do this... except for some old karmic connection , may be... i am posting >
1. my natal with progressions on the day we signed the divorce papers(shows a promise of divorce)
2. his natal with progressions
3. our synastry
4. our progressed composite for the day we signed divorce papers
5. our progressed composite for the day we would sign the final decree after 6 months.
i hope someone sees some promising facts about marriage and divorce that most of us are confused about , when we look at a chart.. goodluck... n thx !
ps> thx for being an awesome support and taking me out of the sorrow in those hard times... i did all my dream jobs... grew stronger , and even adopted a celebrity career...had and hav lots of fans.... n even smone who love me... its just another fact , that he still is in my heart somewhere  .aww... no worries ... but thx flakes IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted March 16, 2013 12:05 PM
Ahh hon... I'm sorry this happen to u..I'm a little confused, after being married for 3 months, u left on vac and he blocked u from returning, without saying anything to u at all???? Do u think he used u for something, or he just cheated and didn't have the guts to end it face to face? Either way, that's just wrong... Geez. What a $&865:;(54;6998?grdugguthitgiokngxe Btw... U forgot to post the charts. IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 17, 2013 10:57 AM
awww honey.. i know..that was strange.. i didnt repeat the story , coz when everythng happened , i used to post my whole confusion here... cut chort > i was in america for my studies (am not native).... he was in australia.. i left america to be with him in australia after marriage... we had lived together for 3 months.... his family took all my cash and jewellary saying they would keep it safe ( ah i was dumb) ...... ..i returned after 3 months for my tourist visa expired ... he cried the day i left.... aww was so much in love..lolz.. and stopped calling me or contacting me at all after just 3 days > without any fight or arguement..... blocked my immigration to australia and never contacted me for a year and half... finally , after much trouble , we found him out , n not having left with the strength to go for a court case , i agreed for a mutual divorce....plus many more things ( relationship cheatings , psycho disturbances... blames and all)ps > yes , am gonna post the charts i got tired after editing them.. hehe am lil lazy these days ps2 > i strongly feel there was either of the three involved >
1. he had some mental (psychological) problem , from the way he always acted .
2. some other girl ( am very sure at times... bt still dnt wanna believe it )
3. a cheating for money ??? so , if something is clear , lets analyze...these charts are just for study ..no predictions , coz the matter has been solved am sure there was some karmic connection why we met n got married n divorced IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 17, 2013 11:10 AM
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start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 17, 2013 11:10 AM
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start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 17, 2013 11:12 AM
so far , i see a clear uranus venus opposition (in my 7th house ) in my natal.... a promise of divorce..hmm ... IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 17, 2013 11:14 AM
also , as per as my AC , DC , it was sagi gemini... n he was gemini , sagi .. does it hold any significance for karmic connections ? some karmic debt for example ?IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted March 17, 2013 06:04 PM
I don't know if that's karmic debt exactly, but moreso an attraction bias. We often date people who have some weird similarity/connection to our charts through their own natals. Like how families tend to have one prevalent aspect. Same with your ac/dc. For karma I would look at the Chiron conjunct NN. It really sucks what happened to you and am very impressed in your upbeat/positive vibe despite the past. IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 18, 2013 11:05 AM
Awww..littlecloud ..i remember u !! how r u ? Hmm aftr a yr n half,do i still hv a choice nt to b trying to b positive? no....awww...bt yes its weird i still hvnt been able to dampen my feelings for him.... M jst trying to let him occupy a corner (oh i m weird..lolz)...n explore my choices in life...fingers crossed...thnk u for the encouragement....lv u flakes...u all helpd me come out of it thx !! IP: Logged |
Lunae
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posted March 18, 2013 11:59 AM
i'm still learning the art of astrology, but here's the input I can offer (please correct me if there's something erroneous in this-- a call for the experts!  )In your composite, you have a love stellium in the 3rd opposed by Uranus and Jupiter by house. Maybe that's a sign of liberation from your relationship(Jupiter and Uranus conjunction). Saturn and Pluto is also trining the composite sun, which neptune is opposing- sign of shattering illusions. Also, Pluto, Saturn and Chiron are in the composite 7th-- another sign of a major change going on. This chart looks calmer than the second one though, with a t-square going on. There's lot of focused energy on the moon (emotions). One of you might have sought comfort from your friends/outside peers after the divorce. There are a number of factors in your synastry why both of you were attracted to each other. There may be a karmic connection, but I think it was more of a Uranus influence XD I hope you're well there! Seeing that you're working your way to success, that's a good sign. Don't let failed relationships hinder you from improving yourself. You'll find another who's a better match for you in time. You're still young, after all. IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 19, 2013 10:43 AM
Thx lunae n all Yes..m convinced abt wt u said...though m no expert The second composite looks tougher...so i hope i dnt get too much upset in september again...whn we r signing the final decree.. M finding it tough...had learnt to liv without him...bt aftr seeing him on the day of signing papers,its been tough again .... I m nvr a persn to talk too much on phone..bt m making long phn calls to frnds since that day..i feel upset if m alone for a major time.. Oh..how i still wish he comes back ...cz m convinced marriage is a sacred relation....though i know,its all a result of shock n will soon b ok ... Hmmm ... Lets see how faster R there any hollywood style last minute reconciliations? Hehe...its impossible..evn the charts say...thx for discussing n being there IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 19, 2013 10:48 AM
Thx lunae n all Yes..m convinced abt wt u said...though m no expert The second composite looks tougher...so i hope i dnt get too much upset in september again...whn we r signing the final decree.. M finding it tough...had learnt to liv without him...bt aftr seeing him on the day of signing papers,its been tough again .... I m nvr a persn to talk too much on phone..bt m making long phn calls to frnds since that day..i feel upset if m alone for a major time.. Oh..how i still wish he comes back ...cz m convinced marriage is a sacred relation....though i know,its all a result of shock n will soon b ok ... Hmmm ... Lets see how faster R there any hollywood style last minute reconciliations? Hehe...its impossible..evn the charts say...thx for discussing n being there IP: Logged |
Lunae
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posted March 20, 2013 01:08 AM
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Originally posted by start6030:
Thx lunae n all Yes..m convinced abt wt u said...though m no expert The second composite looks tougher...so i hope i dnt get too much upset in september again...whn we r signing the final decree.. M finding it tough...had learnt to liv without him...bt aftr seeing him on the day of signing papers,its been tough again .... I m nvr a persn to talk too much on phone..bt m making long phn calls to frnds since that day..i feel upset if m alone for a major time.. Oh..how i still wish he comes back ...cz m convinced marriage is a sacred relation....though i know,its all a result of shock n will soon b ok ... Hmmm ... Lets see how faster R there any hollywood style last minute reconciliations? Hehe...its impossible..evn the charts say...thx for discussing n being there
Aww, your wounds will heal in time. Reconciliation beyween both of you is not entirely impossible. You both just need time to heal the wounds inflicted. Nothing is set in stone in astrology. The only constant thing in the world is change, they say. Astroligy isn't an exception to that. Who knows, the winds might blow in another direction, in the future. Just be open to possibilities
Good luck to you! hope you'll be okay IP: Logged |
start6030
Knowflake Posts: 219
From: neverland:)
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 22, 2013 05:27 AM
awww Lunae.. its strange.. very very strange... each time i asked any horary / tarot / any reading .. evry answer pointed that there will be a longggggg wait .... and finally a hope at the end of the tunnel...so its really strange that itsa divorce now on papers.... and my heart is still into him... and am getting again a similar reading of > not impossible .... n much wait... lets see... i think my life is gonna turn out into a hollywood story after 10-11 years.. haha.. funny.. bt o .. i would lvoe it Thank u ! ..yes , its time to heal myself first but....and to face the reality and try to move on love u guys !! IP: Logged |
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