posted March 16, 2013 08:27 PM            

I have the basics concepts down packed, I think.

I understand that I am Venus and the Moon (the Moon is also my job), and he is Mars and the Sun. Venus is me, so him and I are both exalting me as a woman and both exalting the romantic dream of being together. Mars is John’s “head” and the Sun is John as “man” (sexual attraction). So he is seeing me as a beautiful woman and the ideal woman right now.

In horary, I understand you look for an aspect between the relevant planets to indicate getting together (or a lesser type of contact),this is where I am having some difficulty. If any chart experts/professionals will lend their expertise and horary skills I will appreciate it greatly. Looking for some detailed and thorough observations, please. Thanks in Advance.

Are the any aspects that indicate us getting together, seeing each other, communicating each other by phone?

OR

Are there any aspects that will indicate the possibility of all three happening?

I notice the Sun and Venus are in the sign of Aries, not to sure about this aspect. I need some clarification. (maybe a sign of some type of communication either by phone, text or e-mail)

Will there be a secret relationship? I just need clarification. (Jupiter being in Pisces represent to me a Secret Relationship)

IS there a time frame with any of the Aspects?

posted March 17, 2013 04:24 AM            

If you make the chart via astro.com, there is an aspect chart that is easier to read - for future reference - I feel that the planets you are looking for here though are non-aspected regardless so this may be a moot point.

Anyhow, you are Moon and Venus which move faster than Mars, so you are the one wanting to initiate the relationship more. I'm a bit unsure as to why you are getting him to be the Sun?

This is what I get thus far.

YOU = Libra = Venus = 6th House Pisces = Exalted
HIM = Aries = Mars = 6th House Aries = Exalted

This suggest to me by mutual reception/exaltation a yes even though there are no aspects.

However, Venus is combust the Sun, so I am not 100% sure about this yes. The Saturn in the 2nd house suggest to me there's some risk aversion going on by both parties.
Do you guys work together - 6th House - and so there's a conflict of interest - i.e., is this the secret relationship aspect you are talking about?

posted March 17, 2013 05:10 AM            

Quoting her here:
To answer a horary about FEELINGS, as your original one was, you don't look at aspects to get your answer, you check RECEPTION. That and house position in derivative houses. The aspects tell you how things were (if they are separating) or will be (if applying). Aspects do not inform about feelings, reception does.

[edit] More info http://www.skyscript.co.uk/dig6.html

posted March 17, 2013 05:29 AM            

*If the 7th ruler is located in the 7th house, the person asked about has little thought of the querent, especially if exalted or in its own sign.

posted March 17, 2013 06:09 AM            

Next I look up Moon – it holds the ultimate answer. If Moon is separating from the planets, the answer is No. If it’s applying, the answer is Yes. So I look at the planets and their significance in the chart.

So Moon is in an applying aspect to Venus and that’s now a loud Yes, there is love involved, and meaning it probably because I love him, since both bodies are feminine. Venus (Me) is also in an applying aspect to the Sun, that is another “Yes”. We have the answer now. My love will win.

To gain more clarity and answer a question like “Will there be a secret relationship?” I look for the ruler of the 12th house. It’s Mercury, it’s retrograde and thus in an applying aspect to Neptune. The answer is “Yes.”

posted March 17, 2013 11:00 AM            

Try to remember your exact thoughts when you asked.

From what I understood, I would use your bf as Mars, because he is still your official bf. BTW, Mars is currently exalted with you but he enters Aries soon, sign of your detriment so watch out that he doesn't find out, esp given Uranus in his way AND Uranus being positioned on DC.

posted March 17, 2013 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:

I know you said *secret* relationship but I wouldn't look to the 12th. Depends, again, on clarity when asking the question. Do you want a secret *sexual* relationship? You look to your 8th. Do you want a secret *crush*/*romance* relationship? You look to your 5th. If the emphasis is on secrecy, then you can use the 12th. But I imagine you want something else from him, other than keeping him a secret.

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@Virgo - Clarify your question. WHAT DO YOU WANT? (simply, i.e. if you can do it in one sentence.)

Then we can figure out where you are supposed to be looking for the answer.

posted March 17, 2013 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Virgo36:
I See mercury as his gf

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No, Mercury is either a brother/sister or a coworker of his. His Gf is either Moon or Sun and my money is on Moon.