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Topic: Synastry between child and step father
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Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 19, 2013 09:23 PM
  
What do you see?Child is inner (ary)
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Lunae
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posted March 20, 2013 02:39 AM
I get the impression that there is mutual adoration from both of them. There is good communication (child's mercury conjunct father's sun in gemini) There could be reluctance, however, in showing emotional expression (child's moon in scorpio, father's moon in virgo conjunct pluto) but since it's in a sextile, postivie energies can be drawn out with a little effort. The father may sometimes become overbearing towards the child. The child may also have the tendency to emotionally withdraw and keep things to herself.The father's 5th house ruler (which also represents the children he may have) is in his 10th house. He may consider child-rearing as a responsibility that should be taken seriously. His saturn conjuncts the child's sun and his own sun. He could be a stern father figure to his child at times. He has a lot to teach the child, intellectually speaking. The child's 10th house (which represents the parental figure) ruler mercury is in her 7th house. She may seek constant approval from the father figure. It also falls on the father's 10th house. There could be a bit of a teacher/student relationship, and the child could be a willing student of her father. Hope that made sense  I'm still practicing, though. Please tell me if it's completely off XD IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted March 20, 2013 09:30 PM
of the two i think the child would have the 'upper hand' in this relationship, because overall, their placements are more direct/forthcoming and less sensitive. i think the stepfather is likely quite sensitive towards the child, but perhaps lazy with discipline and expectations. their style of fighting might be markedly different, with one person always backing down from the other. but they should have good communication overall, at least on the surface - their suns are conjunct, and they have a sun-mercury connection as well. their angles are also right atop one another, which generally indicates a strong bond between two people. the child will look for guidance from the stepparent though, because their important planets are housed in the 7th (partnerships and marriage) and the stepparent has several planets falling into that houseIP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 216
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 20, 2013 11:00 PM
Thank you. He is definitely not the disciplinarian type.He has two daughters and is pretty soft with them as well. Hes a great dad.
He feels bad for my daughter because her father left her last year. Doesnt care.
I got a reading for their symastry and composite on another site and he said the step father would molest her and that he is only with me because he is only interested in the child.
I was disturbed especially since he and i got together before he even knew about me having a child. I am shocked. He also claimed he has alot of money. He is no where close to being rich so i dont know what he is talking about. Im anxious now. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 22, 2013 04:12 PM
Yes step-fathers tend to molest children -- I am not sure why.IP: Logged |
rhia
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 22, 2013 04:22 PM
^ not sure about this!!!Venusian Moon, I would go with your instinct - if it sounds completely implausible, it probably is. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 216
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 22, 2013 05:18 PM
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Originally posted by rhia:
^ not sure about this!!!Venusian Moon, I would go with your instinct - if it sounds completely implausible, it probably is.
He was wrong about other stuff too. Another girl had asked him about herself and real father and again he kept talking about sex. Another astrologer had to warn him that he was heading into dangerous territory making statements like that. And that he needed to watch himself.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 216
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 22, 2013 05:18 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Yes step-fathers tend to molest children -- I am not sure why.
So do brothers, mothers, sisters, and even family friends. Nowadays priests are especially the biggest pedophiles ever. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 1645
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted March 22, 2013 05:51 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
He was wrong about other stuff too. Another girl had asked him about herself and real father and again he kept talking about sex. Another astrologer had to warn him that he was heading into dangerous territory making statements like that. And that he needed to watch himself.
What Astrologer was with this? Creep! Some astrologers really suck well go with ur insticts, i think not tho
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Lioness
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posted March 22, 2013 08:36 PM
I saw the thread on the other forum, and going by memory it was because of nexxus and some other things....If you want I suggest going to iq and get a paid reading from him... I've done several from him and he is very fair on his rates... He can also look at her chart and see if its part of her chart.. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 216
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 22, 2013 10:54 PM
I rather consult a psychic.....which i already did. Hes very accurate. You dont have to tell him nothing.
He said this man will become a permanent part of the family. He said i had the right to be concerned. But i didnt have to worry about this because its utter crap. He said none of my exs were like that and neither will this one be.
My nessus is in my 1st house. Supposedly i go around telling people i wanna screw them and talk about sex all the time.
Its bullcrap. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 216
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 22, 2013 11:15 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
What Astrologer was with this? Creep! Some astrologers really suckwell go with ur insticts, i think not tho
Read this thread and what he tells another person. Its disgusting. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=61240
Its like hes obsessed with incest
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Lioness
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posted March 23, 2013 01:30 AM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
I rather consult a psychic.....which i already did. Hes very accurate. You dont have to tell him nothing.
He said this man will become a permanent part of the family. He said i had the right to be concerned. But i didnt have to worry about this because its utter crap. He said none of my exs were like that and neither will this one be.
My nessus is in my 1st house. Supposedly i go around telling people i wanna screw them and talk about sex all the time.
Its bullcrap.
I've never heard nexus, says I talk about sex That's a new one...
I think aspects is what matters most, everyone has it in hitting a house in their chart.. Anyways...
I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, just offered a suggestion to get a second opinion...
I wouldn't trust just one opinion either... Best of luck to u... IP: Logged |
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